Ok well I got this new b/f well hes my first b/f and I need to know the basice of a relationship, and when it is ok to do certen things or what not to do or what not to do si I dont make my b/f up set or fill badly.....
2007-04-25 16:22:48 · 7 answers · asked by magan m 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't lie
Tell the truth
Talk to him and discuss issues
That's about it.
If you are calling him your boyfriend and him calling you a girlfriend, two of you MUST develop a kind of relationship where you can trust each other and do so enough to be able to talk about anything that might come up.
Having a relationship is so much more than just kissing and holding hands. But, I can't think of any rules other than 3 I just mentioned. All other rules somehow come from these 3.
2007-04-25 16:28:13 · answer #1 · answered by tkquestion 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In any relationship, it is important to have good communication, both of you need to be frank with each other and the other person should know how you feel. Like if you are not happy, let him know. If there is any misunderstanding, clear the air, don't let it drag. In this way, you can then build up your trust and security, then come the committment and responsibility to each other. Finally, the relationship can then be maintained and stay strong.
2007-04-25 23:27:37 · answer #2 · answered by schongal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Magan:
No one can "tell" you how to start & actually RUN a relationship. Things come naturally, trust me. The only honest advice I can give you is to make sure that you communicate. If you have a problem, concern or worry, voice it & encourage him to do so as well. If you can maintain a good relationship MENTALLY, then the rest will fall into place smoothly. Trust your instincts. Best of Luck!
2007-04-25 23:28:33 · answer #3 · answered by Spiral_Dancer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What I suggest, don't rush things, he WILL want to rush things, but refuse him of that.A slower relationship, is longer and it is alot more enjoyable.
I hope that if you ever consider sex, do it safely, get him to wear a condom.When I say sex, I mean vaginal, anal, and oral, you can get a disease or virus either of those ways.Even if hes clean, theres still a chance of a dormant disease or virus to spread to you.
Learn before you do as well, when your ready, then do whatever, don't rush into ANYTHING, also be cautious.
I hope this helps!
2007-04-25 23:31:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
AWW CONGRATS!! I HAVE MY FIRST BOYFRIEND TOO SO HIGH FIVEEE!! anyways, one thing about him is we hardely ever go on dates. and wehenever we do its usually with his friends. so my advice is try to make it clear you want some one on ones. get your girlies under cover as well, they hlep you a TON
2007-04-25 23:42:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he is ment 2 b yo bf then he and u will b fine. take da good wit da bad and relize it will work if u gonna work.
2007-04-25 23:30:05 · answer #6 · answered by mike h 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont worry. he should look after you.
2007-04-25 23:25:39 · answer #7 · answered by Aussie_chick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋