How does dating work?

Question

Normally, I tend to be in relationships that last for two weeks at a time, and I practically couldn't even get a date in high school.

Apparently, I'm not a bad looking guy, and the girls I go out with, and the ones I am friends with, say how much of a nice guy and how sweet I am. But for some reason, all my relationships end the same way. Either with them ignoring me, or dumping me with no reason why.

I thought dating was supposed to be fun, but it's turning into torture for me. What can I do to improve my lovelife? Or even jumpstart it?

Answer 1

While understand dating is flaw'd. See meaningful relationships need a true and honest friendship at the core are else the only glue holding it together is ether fasination, or sexual tension. These things can be broken easily. See the important thing was never the date location, how pimp you were, or weather you got play that night. It was how well you were able to relate with her and thru that way make a great experience. You have to form deep relationships or else there isn't much holding them together. Its also important to find people to date that understand this or else you'll run into what alot of people call "players" which really is just an individual thats concern with what they can take from the relationship, not give. Be smarter about it and don't let the sexuality blind you to their content of charater. Even a cute girl with a wonderful charater is better then the most beautiful girl with no charater.