i have and ive been through so much theripy and the bad dreams i was lucky enough to keep my virginity
2007-04-25 13:20:28 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
OMG!!im so sorry for you.in my eyes,your still a virgin.your a virgin until you willingly give your body up for an emotional attraction to someone you love.(and WANT to do it)i feel for you...
2007-04-25 13:27:19 · answer #1 · answered by jayistheway33 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I don't understand. You say you've been raped by a friend or family member, yet you went through therapy and was lucky enough to keep your virginity. I've never heard of a therapist who could restore ones virginity once it had been lost, or as in your case, taken away by force.
2007-04-25 20:28:37 · answer #2 · answered by soulguy85 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Ignore the person telling you to just say no, obviously an insensitive ignorant person !
Virginity or not doesn't make it any better or worse, you still had a very traumatic experience.
Continue therapy and in time you will heal.
2007-04-25 20:26:01 · answer #3 · answered by cynnkitty 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ok, for one everyone who goes through this automatically thinks they are de-virgined. I say that isn't correct! You are not a virgin any longer when you willing give it up.
I was raped ALOT by my father and I was 12. I believe I willing gave up my virginity at age 16.
2007-04-25 20:24:02 · answer #4 · answered by Joyous Mommy ♥'s her ßoys 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
No honey I did not, and I am very sorry that this happened to you. It must have been terrible, keep on with your therapy and in time you will trust people again and one day you will have a beautiful and Healthy relationship with someone.
2007-04-25 20:28:17 · answer #5 · answered by carrie 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
its bad enough being raped, i cant imagine what it must feel like to be raped by a friend or family member. i wish you the best in your healing :)
2007-04-25 20:35:32 · answer #6 · answered by ♥vix♥ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i am so sorry this happened to you. no girl ever deserves that.
if your hymen breaks, then that will happen, but until you have sex with the one man you love, you'll never TRULY lose your virginity. no man can EVER take that purity away from you unless you let them willlingly.
2007-04-25 20:23:44 · answer #7 · answered by Samantha 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Report it the police or the person who did this to you will do it to someone else.
2007-04-25 20:24:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
yas you are still a virgin because you didn't give it up willingly. it was forced, so it wasn't "real"
2007-04-25 20:24:04 · answer #9 · answered by Emily B 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sorry you had to go through that.
2007-04-25 20:23:24 · answer #10 · answered by bongobeat25 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋