Problems with best friend?

Question

Ok, I have been best friends with my friend mia since the 6th grade. we are both in 11th grade now. some background info:

We've gone out twice (being a couple), have been as close as anything, and also been in times where we have barely speaken to each other. So our relationship is very rocky and i bit inconsistent but also the best thing in the world.

We can tell each other anything, being completely honest. We are so comfortable with each other and hung out all the time. In school, we would pass each other letters and text each other. and even when we were just friends, there were still some of those feeling from when we went out lingering. We would talk on the fone everyday for hours.

Lately, we havnt talked in 3 months. She is going out with the one kid i cant stand so she always is with him(obviously). and its been killing me and in school it seems lik she thinks nothing of it. i act lik its not killing me but deep down i miss our friendship. Any advise ....?

Answer 1

ask to talk to her privately and explain how you feel. she might miss your friendship more than you. explain to her that you hate her bf and you want to be bffs again. ask her how she feels, and try and straighten things out. me and a bunch of my other friends have a saying "friends are forever, boys are whatever, when worst comes to worst, my girls come first." dont let dating ruin the bond the 2 of you share. i think its a romantic story, and it should not have a bad ending.

Answer 2

Tell her that you miss her friendship. Ask if you can spend some time together just the two of you. And go on from there.