Family & Relationships - 23 April 2007

I know this guy and he is diggin me we've been talkin for a while, I use to date him about 3 years ago, then we lost touch and I just found him again about 2 months ago. We have been chatting and talking on the phone, sending video messages and what have you. But I can't shake the feeling that he has a girl, and will not disclose that to me. Should I leave him alone, I have tried I told him I know no woman in her right mind would let you be single, he is a great man, almost no flaws, I know someone had to snatch him up by now, but he says no. I told him if it were the case I would gracefully bow out and not interfere with his life, but he keeps pursueing me just as I am ready to leave him alone, what is he doing? help tell me something.

2007-04-23 19:01:18 · 9 answers · asked by Kbella 3 in Singles & Dating

after 19yrs i still cant trust him n e more now than i could then.why cant we except tha fact that we will never b happily in love an 100% trustin of each other

2007-04-23 19:00:12 · 35 answers · asked by pooh 1 in Marriage & Divorce

in person,we have been friends nothing more,a call here or a call there,from time to time, he is in the military, and he stays busy,so we both decided a long distance relationship is out of the question,but time has passed he moved 3 states from me due to his job,an now we have the chance to meet,but im not sure now,i mean i enjoy chatting with him, and i know i like him, and i know if we meet ,there could be something there to start a relationship.but...i had not heard from him in 6 weeks and he calls me and says his job is sending him to my town for 3 nites and wanted to know if i finally wanted to meet the him in person,an to be honest,i want to but,i want more from this,than i think he wants,or im not sure what to think or do,he is a nice person ,but has not had the best luck in relationships,he has been married 3 times and 4 kids he is 46 im 40 and i decided to not be with a man untill i knew it was for real next time,so how do i know ,what do the men think is this a booty call ?

2007-04-23 18:53:52 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

will it be a welcome, and are we prepaired.

2007-04-23 18:52:28 · 7 answers · asked by ? 7 in Friends

So my boyfriend and I split this past Sunday, because he doesn't enough time to spend with me and he said it wasn't fair to me. Our relationship was only a month long, and I felt that this wasn't a great reason to split. Any advice on how to convince him to come back?

2007-04-23 18:51:22 · 16 answers · asked by sweetdazzleberry 1 in Singles & Dating

OK so here is the thing my cousin wants me to help her out get some free driving lesson with my instructor cause him and i get a long. Why should i help her when not so long ago i needed a favor from her real bad and she didnt care to help me out. I asked her to get me a job with her best friend george i told ger i really needed the job cause my family and i were going under really bad circumstances, she didnt help me she didnt mention me to her friend and now she wants a favor from me do u think i should help her out???
P.S: I cried to her that i needed the job bad to please help me out, and she didnt even care to tell him when she knew that he was hiring people.

2007-04-23 18:46:24 · 18 answers · asked by Stel 1 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

so we got robert and jennifer who are friends and then jennifer confesses to robert that she likes him. but robert likes scarlett one of jennifer's good friends but the problem here is that but robert doesnt know if he likes jennifer. and doesn't want to hurt any feelings.

what would you do if you were in robert's position?

2007-04-23 18:45:03 · 12 answers · asked by Draper 3 in Friends

I've been thinking about going to college and I really dont know what I should do. The only thing that grabs my attention is marriage and family counseling. Can anyone tell me more about this career? About how much do therapists get paid? Well thanks guys. Peace out!
xoxo
LaLa

2007-04-23 18:44:45 · 6 answers · asked by LaLa 2 in Marriage & Divorce

been friends with this person for a year. ive always known she lives in USA. i just found out that she goes to the same college that ill attend next semster. if i block/delete her now and she find me there which there a biiiiiiiiiig chance that she will. she'll get mad cause i didnt tell her but if i tell her she';ll think im desperate she'll think i came all the way from here to her which i did not even if i delete her and i managed to law low LOL. ill kinda miss her :( so i really dont know what to do . i mean shes a gooooooooooood friend but not bestfriend tho

2007-04-23 18:42:46 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Hello Friends,
I always receive a comment from my boy friend that " What you are talking about is too idealistic" Whenever I say anything he will surely make some opnion about me
So these days i have become reluctanat to share my views and opnions with him. And what frustrates me more is He is completely ignorent about my silence.
He hails from Nagpur and I am from a Bombay..So his only comment about it is people from bombay are like this only..so I tell him that its his choice to be here...Bombay has never invited him. It hurts me whenever any body says bad words about my home town.
since child hoon i read lots of books...and he does not even touch a magazine..what he reads is only a sports page so when I want to share a nice thought I read some where he says
"Your Views are too idealistic" on the contrary he expects the that my behaviour with this family shound be ideal in every manner,,,I get irritated when he says like this.
What should i do? please help

2007-04-23 18:40:52 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My neighbor is involved in a relationship with her first cousin. She and her cousin have had 2 children together that they adopted out to this rich family. Will her children be messed up in anyway? This family doesnt even know that these children are inbred. Their parents are first cousins.

2007-04-23 18:38:36 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

ok im sad about soemthing and im 13 years old can any 1 talk to me and make me feel better

2007-04-23 18:38:04 · 17 answers · asked by girl_that_is_blue 2 in Singles & Dating

...without cursing or the a$s kissing?

2007-04-23 18:37:41 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We just discovered that my dad had an affair with a young woman. He denied it at first, but with all the evidence that we have, he can't. But he says he loves my mom and would die if we leave him. Question: if he really loves my mom, why would he lie and cheat? I have talked to a lot of girls also whose bfs have cheated and they said "even if you have to remind a guy everyday to tell you if he no longer likes you, or he's not in love with you anymore" they won't and they will lie as long as they can get away with it. WHHHHYYYY?????? Isn't it more honorable to just tell the girl you don't like them anymore???

2007-04-23 18:33:56 · 21 answers · asked by AnaC 1 in Singles & Dating

Im going to be 19 soon and I can't seem to get a girl, It's sad I know. I went to the mall 2day and it amazed me to see all these beautiful girls with.....well I don't wanna say ugly guys, well I guess scrubby is the word. I don't get it, am i missing out on a secret to getting girls or somthin. I mean I have girls tell me that I'm really cute n all, I mean I guess so. I have a job that pays well,I go to school, I'm nice and a real down to earth guy, I'm in good shape, I work out at the gym often and I still can't get a girl.why :( ? I'm respectful and yet I know so much on how to treat girls. I don't know where meet girls or how to approach them. i mean how weird would it be for some stranger to come up to you and start talkin to you and plus i would never have the guts to just go up to a girl like that. It's so weird,when i go to the mall I feel like I catch most girls lookin at me but as soon as i look back they look away. It sux cuz my self-esteem lowers as each day passes.

2007-04-23 18:30:55 · 18 answers · asked by 619 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-04-23 18:29:44 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm have both and my papi loves my hourglass body.

2007-04-23 18:29:29 · 9 answers · asked by Ayita 5 in Singles & Dating

Whenever I have a conversation with a guy, I tend to talk a lot more than he does. He asks questions about myself and I just run with it, often spinning them into long anecdotes. However, whenever I try and be polite and ask them questions about themselves, they don't seem eager to talk and direct the conversation back at me. It isn't that I mind but I'm afraid of being rude or off-putting. Am I such a brilliant conversationalist that they want me to keep talking or are they uncomfortable or offended by me asking questions, though it's not usually anything offensive, but rather what his sister does for a living or whether he played Red Rover growing up. Am I making some mistake that I'm not even aware of?

2007-04-23 18:28:38 · 20 answers · asked by Cybele 1 in Singles & Dating

there s this girl that is still rele love but she loves too far a way and he now has a bf that she rele likes i cant' for get about her easily so wut should i do? if you were in the situation wut would u do ? wut did u do?

2007-04-23 18:22:11 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This same guy I slept with ( twice) hasn't called me for a week, then all of a sudden I get a text saying..."Hey baby wuz up?"

I haven't replied. He's starting to get on my nerves. Says he likes me....then blows me off...says he wants a gf...then tells me I should sleep with other guys...what the f***?

I'm not in high school anymore! Gheez! Stop with the mind games. Is he playing a game with me?

I should mention I'm 24 and he's 29...I'm new to the "dating" world. I've only been in 2 long relationships, and find the dating world confusing and one emotional rollercoaster ride. Help!

2007-04-23 18:20:05 · 10 answers · asked by hello123 1 in Singles & Dating

My father re-married, so is my stepmother now my legal parent?

2007-04-23 18:15:55 · 10 answers · asked by Bobby A 1 in Family

My boyfriend and I have been together for about 2 months now. He came on to me really strong and we hung out nonstop for about 3 weeks. About 2 weeks ago, he has started being sketch and he hasnt been picking up when I call and he never texts me back. I havent seen him too often. He told me that I was crowding him but what else should I do whenever he comes on as strong as he does?

2007-04-23 18:09:53 · 17 answers · asked by Julie L 1 in Singles & Dating

On saturday she somehow found out one of my exs email address and got into it with her and my ex added me so I could see how out of hand my gf was getting. So yeah my gf said some really messed up stuff mainly wishing death on my ex. So yesterday she told me she still had my exs email address and was thinking about talking to her again cuz she needs to. So I told her to pick between me and the email address and she picked the email address so I dumped her and today she said she won't do anything and she wants to be with me. But before I took her back I asked why she needed to bother my ex so bad and she said it was cuz she found out that my ex told me she loved me over the weekend and she wanted to tell her to back the f off. So yeah I don't trust my gf as far as I can throw her. My ex is 16, my gf is 15, and I'm 17 yeah I know but 2 years isnt that bad of a diff. So am I wrong for not trusting her?

2007-04-23 18:08:33 · 12 answers · asked by spayhappy 4 in Singles & Dating

Okay I'm a father first of all of a eight year old daughter. That is first and foremost she is my heart. I'm 29 and would like to find someone that I'm attracted to. I'm a laid back type of guy, that's into graphic design. I work for a auto company, building Mustangs. I like good food, music, swimming....I just moved back to my original state of MI. However I don't have many friends at all sense I've been gone. I haven't dating in a couple of years. What should I do?

2007-04-23 18:06:02 · 4 answers · asked by Marly Mar 1 in Singles & Dating

A few weeks ago I met this guy while I was out with my friends. We exchanged numbers and the next thing I knew we were constantly talking or texting. About a week later we went on a date and then a another week later we went on another. We were suppose to go out again but he became very sick and he must stay at home. Everytime we're together hes so open and talkative, and then everytime we're trying to have a conversation on the phone he can barely talk. What's with that? Does he like me and is he just shy , or is it just a physical thing?

2007-04-23 18:01:13 · 13 answers · asked by Miss Shorty 2 in Singles & Dating

What aspects matter you most to take this decision?

2007-04-23 18:00:14 · 22 answers · asked by helpaneed 7 in Marriage & Divorce

this is alot like my friends question who was with me in a very bad incedent. I've done some bad things in the past that I regret but it keeps happening. I've atempted to joy ride a golf cart, stolen things from a store, and gotten in fights at school. How can I fix my issues?

2007-04-23 17:56:45 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-04-23 17:53:59 · 9 answers · asked by beaglebaker 2 in Family

I am not an overly emotional person prefering to keep my emotions in check and under control he has told me on a number of occasions that i act numb to his emotions.I am a business woman and if i let my emotions control me like hubby does i would never get anything done.When my hubby comes to me and vents about a problem i try to find a solution to the problem an advise him but he thinks i am beeing rude and not listening?

2007-04-23 17:53:28 · 22 answers · asked by Jenny B 1 in Marriage & Divorce

alright, let me start my gf who i love more then anything in this whole world wasn't getting back on my calls. i been calling her the past 5 days i guess, she hasn't responded until now and she said her best friend was killed, in a car crash. i don't know what to do, i told her i would be there for her during these hard times, but what can i do? i feel like a big loser, i can't do anything to cheer her up. she's sad, and all i can do is support her. i wish i could do more, my question is, what else can i do? please give me serious advice.

2007-04-23 17:49:17 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating