On saturday she somehow found out one of my exs email address and got into it with her and my ex added me so I could see how out of hand my gf was getting. So yeah my gf said some really messed up stuff mainly wishing death on my ex. So yesterday she told me she still had my exs email address and was thinking about talking to her again cuz she needs to. So I told her to pick between me and the email address and she picked the email address so I dumped her and today she said she won't do anything and she wants to be with me. But before I took her back I asked why she needed to bother my ex so bad and she said it was cuz she found out that my ex told me she loved me over the weekend and she wanted to tell her to back the f off. So yeah I don't trust my gf as far as I can throw her. My ex is 16, my gf is 15, and I'm 17 yeah I know but 2 years isnt that bad of a diff. So am I wrong for not trusting her?
2007-04-23 18:08:33 · 12 answers · asked by spayhappy 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
At that age she will do anything to get her way,she got you back didn't she.But on her defense to hear another woman
said those three special words that is only meant for you and her to say to each other I would do the same thing as she did and I am much older then she is.If you can, put the shoe on the other foot,what if you fount out that a guy,her ex said to her
(I LOVE YOU) over the weekend what would you do and don't say you do nothing because you no you would.You probably would want to go hit the guy.So give your girlfriend a brake.
2007-04-23 18:23:33 · answer #1 · answered by Teenie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you're not wrong for not trusting her. Whether or not you should take her back is entirely up to you. You have to look at your relationship with her and decide if you two would work out or not. If you want to be with her, then go ahead, but keep your eyes out for other red flags. Does she have a reason to act so jealous? Was your ex's email on your account or did she somehow track her down and start emailing her that way? If it's the latter, it seems a bit odd to go out of your way to tell off an ex that's no longer in the picture. She has to trust you because trust is the foundation of any relationship, and if you two can't trust each other, than the relationship isn't worth pursuing.
2007-04-23 18:15:12 · answer #2 · answered by lovelydragonprincess 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you have a right to be mad at her for seeking out your ex and threatening her, but I also understand why she might feel the need to do it. This is a hard question to answer - there's you in the middle, with an untrusting and jealous girl, the ex who all of a sudden is getting attacked via e-mail, and your girlfriend, who for whatever reason feels threatened by your ex and doesn't trust you enough to let you handle it. If your ex did tell you that she loved you, then I can see how your gf would be pissed in the first place cuz that's out of line. What do YOU want? Do you want to stay with your girlfriend and tell the ex to back off? Or are you mad that your gf contacted your ex because you still have feelings?
2007-04-23 18:14:44 · answer #3 · answered by melissa_53105 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are right for not trusting your girlfriend because she took it way overboard right there. If your girlfriend had some common sense, she would have gone with you not the stupid e-mail address in the first place, which is a total waste of time. Apparently I can tell your girlfriend is unsecure and has a huge self-esteem issue. She worries so much about losing you that she spends more time worrying about the "threats" that could fade your love for her, like your ex, that she doesn't realize she is actually harming the relationship between you and her. When you dumped her because of the e-mail address, she realized that she went about this the complete wrong way and, hopefully, learned from her mistake which is most likely why she wanted you back.
If she knew you, she wouldn't even have to worry about the ex in the first place to begin with. You wouldn't have fallen for your ex again over three words because what happened with your ex is in the past. The past is the past, period.
2007-04-23 18:19:33 · answer #4 · answered by Samantha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't understand, Why are you asking if you should trust her. Its not like her ex boyfriend is telling her he loves her and wants to get back together. Its her who should be asking this question. Why are you talking to your EX that says she still loves you and wants you back if you already have a girlfriend? can you understand why shes pissed off? Maybe she was acting childish but if you were in love with her, and her ex came around sending her emails, telling her sweet stuff, even though he knew you all were together, would you say,, aah,, its ok or would you tell the guy you were gonna kick his ***? You have to see your situation from her perspective, Shell stop if you stop talking to your ex,, I promise that.
2007-04-23 18:16:14 · answer #5 · answered by JUDAS RAGE 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I had this project with my boyfriend of two years now and it wasn't till this previous would that our themes have been ultimately resolved. the only element that ended his believe themes replaced right into a extensive combat that we had over our pasts. you basically would desire to speak it out and look at the relationship from the different's attitude. you're able to desire to earnings to believe her, if she hasn't executed something incorrect to then you definitely you certainly have no reason to not. Her previous is her previous, do not enable it influence her destiny. I had this project and that i'm with a guy who i like extra desirable than something and would in no way harm. in step with possibility she has a shady previous, all of us do, yet once you're in a significant relationship those pasts do not rely.
2016-11-27 00:24:25 · answer #6 · answered by delange 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do a lot of guys our age have trust issues? Uhm i dont see why you cant trust your girlfriend. Understand her girls have their insecurities- if i had a bf and found out his ex still liked / ''loved'' him i'd tell her to back off too. Hope things turn out well.
2007-04-23 18:16:52 · answer #7 · answered by primandproper 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is young and insecure with herself and your relationship. Decide if she is worth it. Her behavior is not favorable, but if you love her.....give her another chance. She can start by apologizing to your ex girlfriend. Women don't expect men to get jealous, but we are hell on wheels, when we get jealous.
2007-04-23 18:13:31 · answer #8 · answered by Tracey H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you do not trust her, find a new girlfriend. Trust is a necessary ingredient in happy pie.
2007-04-23 18:12:41 · answer #9 · answered by siddoly 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
hell no dude 90% of the chicks ive been with had boy friends soo yeah!!!
2007-04-23 18:16:08 · answer #10 · answered by krazy miss speler 06 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋