I know this guy and he is diggin me we've been talkin for a while, I use to date him about 3 years ago, then we lost touch and I just found him again about 2 months ago. We have been chatting and talking on the phone, sending video messages and what have you. But I can't shake the feeling that he has a girl, and will not disclose that to me. Should I leave him alone, I have tried I told him I know no woman in her right mind would let you be single, he is a great man, almost no flaws, I know someone had to snatch him up by now, but he says no. I told him if it were the case I would gracefully bow out and not interfere with his life, but he keeps pursueing me just as I am ready to leave him alone, what is he doing? help tell me something.
2007-04-23 19:01:18 · 9 answers · asked by Kbella 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think you've got the idea of him having a girlfriend so deeply imbedded in your mind that you can't let go of it. If he is seeing someone else, assume it isn't serious, and that you're the girl he's been waiting for. I have a feeling he won't date you exclusively at first, but when he's sure that you two are "for real" he will stop seeing other women. Just don't sleep with him for a couple of months (at least) to be sure that you've got him hooked for certain. He's afraid to lose you again!
2007-04-23 19:07:36 · answer #1 · answered by Angela M 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you should belief him if he says there is no one else. Just because he is good looking doesnt mean he is attached. Many guys that are good looking like any other male want time out from a relationship especially if they have been burnt before. He might have been in a situation like that and is now ready for a new someone in his life. This could be you. Be sure you havent been lead on by a guy that has a girl which you only found out later about thus creating you to have a feeling that every good guy you meet has a girlfriend and you cant trust him. Be carefull that these feelings dont chase the guy away and ruins what could have been a good relationship
2007-04-24 02:16:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all let me just say very few people know what real love is about you seem to ba able to love this guy with a complete selfless love which is a quality many don't have.....i would say give him the benefit of the doubt, and don't keep bringing it up it may put him off...enjoy each other, if he gives you a reason to really become suspicious then confront him about it then good luck.
2007-04-24 03:02:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop floating on a cloud and grab reality. It is what it is... if he has a girl, it will come out but if he doesn't then you have nothing to worry about. Try not to get yourself all worked up because the summer is on the wayand men run like trains, every 15 minutes.
2007-04-24 22:17:40 · answer #4 · answered by sweetdreams_0423 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he is telling the truth. Not all men lie. Maybe it wouldn't be such a good idea to have a relationship right now. You should start being friends so you can get to know him all over again.
2007-04-24 02:06:50 · answer #5 · answered by Summer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust your instincts. He probably wants to cheat with you on the side. Don't be his play toy. Do a bit of investigating, if you really like him. We may both turn out to be wrong.
2007-04-24 02:07:51 · answer #6 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he is telling the truth and really only wants to pursue you.
2007-04-24 03:12:09 · answer #7 · answered by Momof1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he really doesn't have a girlfriend. You've got to trust him or else nothing will ever work between you anyway
2007-04-24 02:05:02 · answer #8 · answered by Valerie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you sure your not being paranoid?
2007-04-24 02:06:41 · answer #9 · answered by paperlilly12 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋