Family & Relationships - 23 April 2007

Do you think it is weird to send dirty videos to ur boyfriend... and he send them back but you really havent been that intimate except like with kissing and your hands... but plan on moving up to going all the way when ever it happens.... like is it wrong or wat?? sorry about the wording

2007-04-23 17:46:49 · 10 answers · asked by lovinlifeandhim7 1 in Singles & Dating

yesterday i dressed as women in a function with saree, jewellery, makeup.my gf was very impressed that she bet me to stay with her for 2 days as her bride and she as groom.as we live in gujarat i have dressup as gujarati bride with dresses,makeup and jewellery.i accepted the bet now help me to win.

2007-04-23 17:46:30 · 14 answers · asked by kads 1 in Weddings

I've been separated from the common law hubby for a month now. We have 2 kids together. We planned out our 2nd child and he started to cheat a few months into my pregnancy, and I didn't find out until my last trimester, had my baby, and he continued to see her so I finally kicked him out. Now he tells me how he misses the kids but doesn't want a relationship with me because he now says he doesn't have feelings for me, but he doesn't know what he wants. So his solution was we live as roomates in separate rooms, I told him no, because I feel it's so wrong on many levels. I'm slowly moving on with my life, and well have handled being a single mom as best as I can considering I have a newborn and a toddler under the age of 2. Should I just keep moving forward? He still sees the kids and I don't stand in btw their relationship. However, this situation seems to just be lingering, if he wants it final then we need to close down bank accounts, split the belongings etc. What to do??

2007-04-23 17:46:19 · 17 answers · asked by shorty_5600 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My fiancee has enough miles to fly us anywhere in the world free first class. I dont know where I want to go...tell me what places you would choose and why?

2007-04-23 17:44:01 · 26 answers · asked by kristy 2 in Weddings

Please tell me if I am normal or not, and if any of the women felt the same way. I am 26 years old femail, who doesn't want to have kids. I love kids, but my reason not to have them is that I don't want to ruin my figure. I don't want those stretch marks, extra weight, spider viens and other things associated with pregnancy and childbirth. You will probably think I am completely selfish, but I am at least honest. Don't think I am a super model - I am average with good body shape, which I value perhaps more than my future. Please help.

2007-04-23 17:43:50 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

hello my name is jessika and i am 6 i am steying hear with my aunty megan as mummys having my babe brothher i want to ask you that i am 6 and i still wet my bunk at nite and i try to stop and i go to the toyllet at nite but it goes when i sleep my aunty says dont worrie but i dont like being wet dose anyoone can help me plesea as at home mummy gets cross

2007-04-23 17:41:17 · 28 answers · asked by ANGEL 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

my best friend just found out she's pregnant, and she's battled an eating disorder for about 7 years now. she tends to starve herself when she gains a couple pounds, or makes herself throw up. she is soo obsessed with her weight, its rediculous. she even said she didnt want to have a "fat" baby...her cat had six kittens today, and she said, "i hope my cat dosent stay fat"....she cant even stand for her animals to be overweight! its driving me nuts! and i'm afraid, that the baby will be harmed from her eating disorder through her pregnancy, or that if she has a chunky baby that she will starve it, or that she will go nuts gaining weight through her pregnancy. what should i do? this is driving me crazy, i cant stand to hear her say "i dont want to have a fat baby" or "i hope i only gain ten pounds"....she's been to numerous doctors for her disorder, but nothing has helped....anybody been through this and can give me advice? thanks in advance!

2007-04-23 17:40:49 · 11 answers · asked by superyduperymommy 5 in Friends

I've been out of dating for a few years now, and as of yet I've failed to have anything but one night stands. Any ideas?

2007-04-23 17:38:03 · 4 answers · asked by Max J 5 in Singles & Dating

my ex girlfriend doesnt talk to me and she doesnt reply with my text messages anymore, but her best friend told me that she once saw her keeping all my emails and text messages to her in a folder... does that mean anything? is there still a chance we could be together again or should i stop thinking of possibilities and start removing her in my life? help! many thanks..

2007-04-23 17:37:26 · 9 answers · asked by curious lover 1 in Singles & Dating

we've been going out for a week & always have a lot of fun together, i see him every day in school & we hung out fri/sat/sun & he came to my game today too...we've known eachother for a year, we're hs seniors & neither of us has ever dated anyone before....but regardless of all this we havent even held hands/hugged/etc yet.....is this normal?

2007-04-23 17:36:54 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm 21 and in university. I'm a pretty eccentric dresser, opinionated, smart, outspoken, flirtatious, with a pretty bad potty mouth. However, I am pretty conservative when it comes to what I want from relationships. I don't like going out, like to be along much of the time, and value honesty, integrity, and work ethic. I want a guy who doesn't have many friends himself, hasn't slept around a lot, is strongly family oriented, has strong values, and is respectful of women (these are the sort of qualities my dad has). At the same time I don't want anyone close-minded, conservative, religious, or anyone who wouldn't support my decision to dye my hair purple. Most of the guys I know are drunken party animals, and not my type. Do I give off the wrong impression or scare guys away that I may like?

2007-04-23 17:36:37 · 15 answers · asked by Cybele 1 in Singles & Dating

now and its not gettin anywhere...

2007-04-23 17:32:05 · 3 answers · asked by Lucy M 1 in Singles & Dating

Been married 5 yrs hubby is 27 and i am 26.Our relationship has been progressivley getting worse.For starters we both majored business in college and started working for same company just different branches making about the same.I got promoted(was tranfered 3 months ago as hubbys bosses boss) and he stayed at almost the same level he started out at.He has been in a bit of a slump because really he has no real drive?I have tried to talk to him but he just does not listen.I have plans to go into entrepreneur work at the end of this year to a have a more flexiable work hours and possibly make more money.Hubby likes things as they are does not understand any of my goals?He wants to start a family now i want to wait 2-3 more years?What to do communication thus far has not worked?

2007-04-23 17:24:43 · 8 answers · asked by Jenny B 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I see this happen all the time? I just wanted to know have any pick up lines worked for you? And what line you used?

2007-04-23 17:21:04 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Hello I'm nearly 15 now and Ive been having a lot of problems and I don't know how to ask to get help..... I'm a football player at a major football school and i dont want my friends to know that im getting help because i would feel like a wack job...... i seem to hide my problems from everyone and party and try to drink my problems away sence about a year ago when my parents sepirated and sence then me and my dad have had major problems and my mother and i are moving back in with him now and i dont know what to say. i just need someone to talk to and i dont know how to ask..... PLEASE HELP.... ive built up so many friends... i had a huge temper in Jr.High and sence then i have learned how to control that and i feel that im going to lose it a lot now but insted of just yelling i could get violent and out of control. i feel like my life has changed so much and i miss the old days when i dident have to think of how things would go on my cred.... god just help.... please help

2007-04-23 17:20:55 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Mine was 1993 and it was the only one I ever had and it was the worst one too. Good gosh, I didn't continue to date her. It would have been a nightmare.

2007-04-23 17:16:41 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-04-23 17:12:03 · 3 answers · asked by core helps 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

my friend christine told my friend jenn something mean about my friend nicole. so jenn tells me what christine said about nicole. without thinking i told nicole what jenn said about her. now everyones hurt. nobody trusts me. im so upset... and i dont know what to do? ive already apologized to both of them so many times. nicole says its okay and she forgives me but she isnt making eye contact. (it only happened today) and jenn said its okay i just thought i could trust you. but shes not really mad. we were all hurt but were over it. so she says. what else can i do to fix this? i was thinking of writing them a letter... do u think thats a good idea? and if so what should i say?

to sum it up. my friend told my other friend something in confidance. she then went and told me. then i went and told the girl who it was about. how do i fix this?

2007-04-23 17:07:38 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My man use to be a really heavy drinker, but thank god he has stopped drinking the hard stuff crown royal. He was starting to get very angry drinking that stuff. But my family won't even give him another chance. He is a great guy now and he does not want to lose me again and that is why he has stopped drinking. How can i get my family to for give and for get what he uses to be like when he did drink that stuff. They won't even come over here. And boy does that hurt me and my man but he don't say it though. Please help me please.

2007-04-23 17:03:32 · 13 answers · asked by Glenna S 1 in Marriage & Divorce

It's just I am so tired of people and there problems, I have enough of my own, and I know people are going to eventually run into certain problems but I am really tired of hearing about it. Am I fit to be a friend?
Or should I just tell my(online) friend that "listen I am tired of you and all your problems. One minute everything is going fine, the next min you are having troubles w/some guy", I don't like guys anyway so it just makes me mad to here about all that guy drama and especially when I told her to leave the guys alone. She is too young, she is only 15 and already has guy troubles. What should I do?

2007-04-23 17:00:45 · 6 answers · asked by ms.l_thoms 1 in Friends

Does anyone know where to buy plus size wedding dresses in Australia

2007-04-23 16:46:39 · 4 answers · asked by kasia9 p 1 in Weddings

i want to see some black wedding videos

2007-04-23 16:45:00 · 3 answers · asked by CC 1 in Weddings

he said that he liked me, but his ex is a ***** and doesnt even like him, and just wants to go out with him again because shes bored.

2007-04-23 16:40:37 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

something that they feel is trivial but to you is humiliating ,and when you ask them to stop doing it they tell you that they won't because and it makes them laugh and that would be asking them to change who they are as a person and accuse you of having no sense of humour,is this justified, am i asking too much?or do you think that my partner should consider my feelings more?

2007-04-23 16:40:35 · 20 answers · asked by antony s 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Every year a group of friends and myself go camping at this private spot that you have to pay in order to use. It's beautiful, it has a hot spring, waterfall, a lake, great mountain views. We all go rockclimbing, hiking, boating, fishing and just having a great time. The only problem is at one point or another they all end up naked and going skinny dipping, in the lake or hot spring. Except for me. I just am not comfortable being naked in front of anyone. I even bring my own tent that I refuse to share with anyone because I don't like anyone seeing me naked. Especially not my friends. I know that we are all adults, nobody is perfect and it's all in good fun but I just don't like being naked. No I am not overweight, I exercise and take care of myself but I am just not into being without my clothes. I don't judge other people because that is what they like. They have a right to their choices. Just as I have a right to mine. Some people have made comments that I am a prude. I am not.

2007-04-23 16:36:52 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

"Susan" and "David" are in a long term relationship and planning to marry this year or next.

Susan left college and moved out of state to help David pursue his career. David and Susan moved 5 times in 4 years; all over the country for his work, but now they are settled in one town. Susan, because of her sacrifice, now has no degree, minimal job experience, no friends. She does not resent her choice, but she resents the fact that David does not acknowledge all that she has done for him. David is pushing Susan to gain employment somewhere, but all that can be found for women in her situation pays little over minimum wage, whereas David makes almost $100,000 a year. Susan is now accustomed to staying home, and is rather happy to be a "housewife". Should Susan take a low paying job simply to please David? Should David be thankful for what Susan already does?

2007-04-23 16:35:28 · 37 answers · asked by Vakari 5 in Marriage & Divorce

What is my ex thinking if he put this as his favorite quote on facebook?

We broke up 1 month ago. Actually he was supposed to visit me(we are long distance) and a week before that we had a fight. I thought we had a fight but apparently he thought we had a breakup fight. He cancelled his flight and ignored all my attempts to patch up. I never got a chance to talk to him after the fight. So now i'm not even making an effort to talk to him. It sucks when you try to talk to someone and even apologize but you are not getting even the tiniest response.

Now he put down that. What is going on with him? I'm sure he doesnt care about at all since he's so insensitive about my feelings by relentlessly ignoring me.

Will he ever come back?

BTW, i'm not supposed to see anything on his facebook b/c he blocked me. A mutual friend told me that.

2007-04-23 16:31:57 · 5 answers · asked by little asian gal in cresent city 2 in Singles & Dating

sticking her nose in your business and knowing that she is physco and cant manage her own life, what would the next step be?

2007-04-23 16:29:39 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

ok so me and my bf have dated b4 and we started datin again and like he says i dont act like a gf 2 him well he is shy u no so he dont rele no how 2 act like me and he was like well if u would act like my gf more then i would catch on and act more like ur bf and u no he is all like well idk how i would even want u 2 act and i no this is a rele stupid question you know because im only 13 but ya no im not shy and its not like i have neer had a bf b4 its just sum ppl are different so how do you think i should act around him please help me!!

2007-04-23 16:29:31 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

he might treat you good or preplanning the worst at his convience I came into a lump of money when we began our marriage and it was a real rocky situation my mom just passed away now weve been married for 5 years known each other for 6 and hes has 2 surgerys 1 disc in his neck was removed and they sent him back to work 6 weeks later and know 1year later 3 more have been removed and ive been taking care of him on and off since.... i used up almost all my money my mom left me 98% of it andknow because of all this hes going to get a large handfull of money and i think because hes getting this money he might divorce and leave me , ive done nothing wrong in this marriage at all except we do have a few real good fights/ arguments theyve lessened since weve been married It all revolves around alcohol when i 1st got married i drank yeah also because of my mom dieing and know idrink less 2x a year . hes getting a large sum of money do you think hes going to leave me?????

2007-04-23 16:28:39 · 22 answers · asked by karen.cervac@yahoo.com 1 in Marriage & Divorce