my ex girlfriend doesnt talk to me and she doesnt reply with my text messages anymore, but her best friend told me that she once saw her keeping all my emails and text messages to her in a folder... does that mean anything? is there still a chance we could be together again or should i stop thinking of possibilities and start removing her in my life? help! many thanks..
2007-04-23 17:37:26 · 9 answers · asked by curious lover 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am not sure how long you were together, or how serious your relationship was, so I will just answer this from my experience.
When you are with someone for a while, you begin to really care for them as your bf/gf and as a true friend. Usually your bf/gf becomes your best friend (though you still maintain your own friends) because you spend the most time with that person. If you guys were together for a long while, I cannot say whether or not she has a desire to get back together, but I can say she probably cares about you in more way than one. She probably misses you as a friend or maybe more still????
When girls save messages, or text messages it reminds them that someone truly cared/ cares about them, and it makes you feel good inside.
If she is not relpying to your text messages, maybe she is trying to figure out what she wants to do, or start to get over you and move on? (I find it strange that her best friend would tell you this, unless of course she told her to, true best friends usually dont betray eachother). Everyone is different and only you know what is best and obviously much more about the situation as well as her in general.
Good luck, I hope it works out for you which ever way it goes.
2007-04-23 17:47:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You call her ex, yet wonder if you should remover her from your life. If she's an ex, or did you not formerly break up?
Well, sounds like you did something to hurt her so she's not talking.
She's keeping your communications for whatever reason, so that door isn't entirely closed. If it were, she'd reject you entirely and not bother to keep a single word from you.
Are you aggressive or a compulsive liar? Maybe she just wants the truth without arguement. Sounds to me like she's wants less talk and more substance.
2007-04-23 18:13:54 · answer #2 · answered by whats.the.deal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she could be keeping them to remember you and what you guys had. My ex from 2005 still has all my pictures, email, and texts. Its about remembering what you had and how much fun it was at the time. But at the same time she could still have feelings for you and can't let you go just yet.
2007-04-23 17:46:04 · answer #3 · answered by spayhappy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to talk to her about that. Did you do something that caused yall to break up (like cheat on her)? If so, there's probably no reconciling, especially since she wont answer your texts. Can you corner her at school, or wait for her to get off work one day? Dont stalk her though, if she absolutely refuses to talk to you, then just move on
2007-04-23 17:44:28 · answer #4 · answered by Courtney 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I keep old photos from things I did with ex-girlfriends. I don't much care to look at them, but I figure I ought to keep thim, because they document a period of my life. But I don't have feelings for those people I was with any more.
2007-04-23 17:42:28 · answer #5 · answered by Gnar G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How can anyone answer you when we have no idea why you broke up? Saving text messages could mean several things.
2007-04-23 17:42:01 · answer #6 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That depends on how much you text her. There could be possibilities there. But if you text her too often, there could be a stalking charge there. Who knows?
2007-04-23 17:41:27 · answer #7 · answered by ♥Catherine♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She may still be hurt or whatever. You don't say why you broke up. Give it a little time...then try again. If she still doesn't respond...I would move on.
2007-04-23 17:41:36 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she likes the good memories
2007-04-23 17:40:53 · answer #9 · answered by Blitzkrieg 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋