I've been out of dating for a few years now, and as of yet I've failed to have anything but one night stands. Any ideas?
2007-04-23 17:38:03 · 4 answers · asked by Max J 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Umm...don't have sex on the first date? Get to know ONE person before you even go out, and then start with something casual, like dinner and a movie. Or dinner and a walk. Or a picnic and a movie. Something that doesn't HAVE to lead to the bedroom. Talk on the phone, chat on the internet, get together a couple of times each week and build a relationship around who you are, and when it's time to take it to a physical level and BOTH of you are ready, then go for it.
2007-04-23 17:42:33 · answer #1 · answered by melissa_53105 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First off never sleep with a girl you think could be a potential girlfriend on the first night you meet her. Bad idea it usually ends up not amounting to any thing other than a screw. Date, get to know some one spend time with them. Buy them flowers do things that are special. Fall in love and don't just **** around. That's a start. Good luck!
2007-04-23 17:43:24 · answer #2 · answered by Momof_2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think about what caused the problem. Could you be attracting the wrong type of woman for some reason? Could it be that you have acquired a "player" type reputation? How do you treat women? There are any number of reasons why women may be turned off by you. Do you have a cocky attitude? Are you acting a bit immature? Do you act inappropriately around women?
You may learn a lot about why this is happening by answering these questions, and evaluating yourself and your actions.
2007-04-23 17:48:03 · answer #3 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, publish a book of pointers.
2007-04-23 17:43:46 · answer #4 · answered by San La Muerte 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋