my friend christine told my friend jenn something mean about my friend nicole. so jenn tells me what christine said about nicole. without thinking i told nicole what jenn said about her. now everyones hurt. nobody trusts me. im so upset... and i dont know what to do? ive already apologized to both of them so many times. nicole says its okay and she forgives me but she isnt making eye contact. (it only happened today) and jenn said its okay i just thought i could trust you. but shes not really mad. we were all hurt but were over it. so she says. what else can i do to fix this? i was thinking of writing them a letter... do u think thats a good idea? and if so what should i say?
to sum it up. my friend told my other friend something in confidance. she then went and told me. then i went and told the girl who it was about. how do i fix this?
2007-04-23 17:07:38 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
apologize and ask for forgiveness. if your "friends" don't accept the apology and forgive you, they aren't real friends anyhow...so no loss. good luck
2007-04-23 17:11:22 · answer #1 · answered by JaneDoe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im not a teen girl but im responding. Ok let me see if I understand this: Christine Talks about Nicole behind her(Nicoles)back like a coward to Jenn.
Jenn then snitches to you about Christine the blabber mouth backstabber. And without thinking first you let the whole thing slip to Nicole and her feeilngs were hurt. Only thing I see that you did wrong was not think before you speak. Next time tell people that are to chicken s.h.i.t to say something to someones face just to shut the hell up and leave you out of it.
The only one you should of apologized to was Nicole and if she says she forgives you but then dont, then hell with her.
SHE shouldnt have to makeup or beg anyone for anything, she isnt the one that was talking bad about people behind there backs.
2007-04-24 00:16:48 · answer #2 · answered by Borg_MonkeyDrone 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No letter please...putting things in writ ting only leaves evidence behind and fuel for latter blackmailing. I suggest you all get together, have a **** throwing fest...which means you all say mean things about each other that you didn't want to say before. Everyone gets everything out and off their chest, you all have a laugh, and after being open and vulnerable to each other, ta da....you are all best friends again! May I suggest a pint of ice cream to go along with this evening of truthful soul bearing commentary?
2007-04-24 00:16:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think writing a letter is a good idea. Just be totally honest. Express your feelings. Say any apologies if you have any. The drama will blow over, just hang in there and build your trust back up with your friends. Trust me.
2007-04-24 00:12:16 · answer #4 · answered by Nicole 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a really common thing to happen. People talk about other people all of the time. Just learn from it, apologize and don't do it again.
2007-04-24 00:11:43 · answer #5 · answered by Lori O 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
okay i am not a teenager anymore but i once was and am far more wiser than most (hey i am lol) listen u got to take them all to ur house for pizza and a movie...sit in front of them and just spill ur heart out and tell them how u feel and then leave the floor open for comments tell them u just want to hatch this whole thing and how sometimes u open ur big mouth without thinking and u love them and want to put it past u
2007-04-24 00:11:04 · answer #6 · answered by $$$$$$ 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Don't show too much weakness. Don't go back to them crawling, begging for forgiveness .
Drama usually begins with gossip. If you stop gossiping, people will love you and look at you at as really cool.
2007-04-24 00:12:38 · answer #7 · answered by musicislife335 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
drama got to love it
after a while something else will come up and hopefully you learned your lesson never say anything you aren't suppose to it hurts and will take a while to earn back trust if ever
2007-04-24 00:12:23 · answer #8 · answered by hungryoneis 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
writing a letter sounds like a good idea, let them know that you deeply regret it, and make plans with them to make up for it, that informs them that you care.
2007-04-24 00:11:14 · answer #9 · answered by Cakes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
writing a letter might be nice. i screwed up like that before too.... plenty of times.
2007-04-24 00:10:50 · answer #10 · answered by Megan 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋