Family & Relationships - 23 April 2007

my wife and mother in law discuss everything about our marriage. last big fight we had, my mother in law knew everything. of course my wife's side. then on easter her parents came down and her mother totally disrespected me and gave me the silent treatment. i was livid. it's like my wife can't let go of her parents and her mother was the protector. hello we're in our thirties....leave us alone. my wife just said oh that's the way she is. now she wants to go on vacation this summer in a two bedroom condo with her parents and said she talked to her mom but her mom won't change. i'm thinking of saying no way i'm not going around your parents again. she has to choose and it's like she hasn't made the choice to grow up. I'm going to tell her i'm not going to the beach unless i hear her say in front of her mother "do not disrespect my husband like that again". is that to harsh?

2007-04-23 16:25:00 · 22 answers · asked by golf4everdude 1 in Marriage & Divorce

.... for a friend who is allergic to metals. It MUST be classy!!!
Thanks!

2007-04-23 16:24:44 · 10 answers · asked by godsearthboundchild 1 in Weddings

2007-04-23 16:22:13 · 25 answers · asked by tchwety40 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Me and my fiancee are trying to come up with ideas to raise money to help offset the cost of our wedding. We know the stag idea, and a possible blocks hockey pool. Does anyone have any other ideas (we only want to do one, so it has to be a good one)?

2007-04-23 16:21:42 · 11 answers · asked by newfcollins 2 in Weddings

i m no good with slogan...and cos i was brought up by a single mom.appreciate your help,asap plzzzz.thank you

2007-04-23 16:21:03 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Is it normal for them to email like every day or every other day? This girl I know is emailing me like almost every day and I cant tell if she might be a bit clingy and has started to cling onto me. Or is this just normal behavior. How often do you email your friends?

2007-04-23 16:19:40 · 8 answers · asked by jw 2 in Singles & Dating

i have a narcissistic wife. i'm no professional but i've read up on everything and she fits borderline personality disorder with narcissistic tendencies. she's been through guys like water and i'm the only one she married. she came on strong....sex every day. now it's like give me this and this or i'll leave. it's like i got trapped and she says the meanest things and i'm a pretty tough skinned guy. I can't take the words from the woman i thought loved me. her mother is the same way. they think it's normal to say what you want and forget about it. not only that, they lie and say they didn't say it. one time i taped her saying crap and she said how could i do it. i didn't have any way to convince her and she still denied it. how do you treat these people? i tried the hard approach and the easy approach and nothing works. any psychologists out there want to help me out?

2007-04-23 16:19:20 · 9 answers · asked by survivor 1 in Marriage & Divorce

there is a child involved, but no excuse for staying with a man that is dogging you out.

2007-04-23 16:14:13 · 6 answers · asked by somany_questions 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

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2007-04-23 16:13:34 · 3 answers · asked by Sheiwz 1 in Friends

cheating *** wife?

So here is the situation. My so called wife cheated on me after about a year and half of marriage. I guess she stayed with me cuz i was sponsoring her and her mother.I was very trusting as I was always at work and trying to build for our future. I dont think she received her green card yet so. What can i do to relieve myself of this problem.

2007-04-23 16:13:29 · 12 answers · asked by TDUNCAN2121 2 in Marriage & Divorce

want the fiancee back, is there possibility you will be walking down the asile?

2007-04-23 16:11:44 · 9 answers · asked by angel 2 in Singles & Dating

besides cheating

2007-04-23 16:10:08 · 11 answers · asked by angel 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-04-23 16:08:20 · 10 answers · asked by Happy124 1 in Weddings

I need to know if theres any hope at all,or am i just spinning my wheels?

2007-04-23 16:07:15 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i'm 16 but i like girls 12 years and younger; is there something wrong with me?

2007-04-23 16:05:33 · 34 answers · asked by John D 1 in Singles & Dating

Everytime time i post an answer people seem to get "offended", I have to put JK at the end of my answer, who else thinks the violations should be taken off! Ana Maria Q just gave me a violation cause she didn't like my answer! well sorry I didn't want to post my lifestory to you Ana Maria Q!

2007-04-23 16:04:25 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

If you happened to read any of my previous posts about this guy, you would know that I am in a "silent" relationship with someone. We have had a connection with our eyes for years now and the infactuations have grown. Now I had asked a question about whether or not a guy will think about a girl he liked, even if they dont talk very often. The majority of responses were 'yeses.' But recently someone mentioned me and he pretended at first he didnt know who I was off the top of his head...! He knows my name, but he acted like it wasnt very familiar at first, and then he was like..."ah, yes!"
He stares at me constantly and we lock eyes a lot...so why would he act like that?

2007-04-23 16:03:50 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-04-23 16:02:21 · 4 answers · asked by trudyrc1506 1 in Singles & Dating

My ex boyfriend whom i dated for 3 years, and I broke up around 1 year ago, one monthafter we broke up we were on the verge of getting back together, until one day when i was very depressed about the situation my best friend offered to talk to him for me. Then it was nothing getting back together was not an option for him. It seem as if he knows things about me now, and when ever I call him just to say hi, she calls me very soon after!! Tell me am i being paranoid or am i on to something. Oh yeah I asked him, and he laughed and asked me if i was joking. Please tell me how I can tell and how I can catch them!! It is trully bothering me because she has been my frind for 20 years and she also knows how much I still love this man.

2007-04-23 16:01:07 · 30 answers · asked by Cheryl H 2 in Marriage & Divorce

1) I told my best friend that her daughter would be one of my flowergirls, and her son would be my ring bearer. My fiance's daughter is going to be a flowergirl (she'll be five by the time it happens and my friend's daughter will be 2). My only problem is that I don't think she'll walk down the aisle like she's supposed to. How do I tell her that I don't think her daughter should be a flowergirl without upsetting her?
2) My maid of honor and one of my bridesmaids have tattoos on both of their forearms. How do I ask them to either decide to wear gloves or to cover their tattoos without seeming rude? Because all the girls would have to wear gloves if that's what they decided.
3) I am having trouble finding a dress that would look good on all the bridesmaids(they all have different body types), and colors that they all can agree on (only 2 colors, the maid of honor gets a different color than the rest). Any sillouets that compliment everyone?

Thanks in advance!!

2007-04-23 16:00:23 · 10 answers · asked by laird6372 2 in Weddings

never seen that before...it did cool down...but still conserned about the children....one child ran down the street with a blood crulling screem... wanted to do more ...what should i do ...so it will not happen again...c

2007-04-23 15:58:40 · 8 answers · asked by CDMRRSMS 2 in Friends

My BF was keeping his room locked when we first moved into the house( that I own). He refused to give me a key. The only way to stop this was to say, "Give me a key, leave the door unlocked or move out. If you have that little trust in me we should not be living together." He stopped locking it. Now, he is starting to talk about locking his door again. I told him "ok fine, but I need a key, you never know what will happen." He said..are you ready for this? "I will give you a key when you clean your room"He is a neat freak I am not. We argued about it, finally he just said, "I am going to lock it, I dont care what you say" I said, "if you are going to lock me out you have to do it in a different house" he said "fine" went in his room, shut the door, and, or course, locked it. Let him move in with his VERY old school father..and move his bratty son in, and the watch the s--- hit the fan.Supposedly his exwife never minded this.I think its ridiculous.Have u ever heard of anything likethis

2007-04-23 15:58:12 · 3 answers · asked by eastcoastdebra 3 in Singles & Dating

ive been sort of seeing this guy john for a bit and we live close by... but he goes to school farther away,... and at this school he has 3 really close friends. his best friend scott, his ex girlfriend abby (who now goes out with scott... to get back at john or whatever .. stupid) and this girl kara he is taking to prom. they were telling him how we will never work out and to just give up and im not good enough for him. and now they want to meet me and i dont realyl want to meet them cuz they dont seem like people i really want to know. what would u think if u were in my situation? kara likes him i think anyway and abby is her best friend so i think they are just being stupid cuz they want for all 4 of them to hang out !! what should i say to john cuz he keeps saying that they are just looking out for him and he says that i think they wont accept me.. honestly i dont give 2 shits about them lol but waht advice would you give me/ what shuold i say to john??? thxxxxxx

2007-04-23 15:57:18 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I mean im dark but I still think I look gud I think its harder for as a dark person in high school I feel like I have to try harder than da rest someone prove me wrong n tell me da world aint so shallow

2007-04-23 15:50:17 · 15 answers · asked by MasterM 1 in Singles & Dating

I was 23 yrs old and married 3 yrs and believed our marriage was on solid ground until my husband started staying out later and later every evening after work. He told me he was cleaning the office to make more money. I had a 10 month old baby and a 3 yr old.
Next thing I knew was he was cheating and I filed for a divorce. He was so slick about it too. I couldnt believe it.
How do you gain your trust in men back again?
My son and daughter were raised by me alone. I have never been in a relationship since my divorce where I trusted the man. I am always suspicious.
I see young women with new babies and think they are fools for trusing there husbands. They seem so snug and naive.
Am I just a fruit cake? Do most men cheat and how do you get over something like that?

2007-04-23 15:46:52 · 13 answers · asked by happydawg 6 in Marriage & Divorce

I am having 6yo triplets (all girls) as my flower girls. I love these girls and they were always part of the wedding plans. They are triplets, the cutest things, and they are just perfect.

We had decided that one of them would bring the rings, and other two would come with basket of petals.

Anyway... My fiancee called me because his 11yo nephew has been a little depressed lately and he thinks that if we invited Him to be in our wedding as ring bearer he would feel special and that would help him.

I like the kid, and have no problem of him being part of the ceremony, but can't visualize it. He is SOOOO taller than the girls... Seems strange... Doesn't seems harmonic... who enter first? him or the girls? should he pairs up with one of the girls? he is sooo tall for them...

Does anyone have any suggestion?

Is there anyway we can have him active part of the ceremony without being a ring bearer?

Help me think of a way to make it harmonic!!!

Thank you :)

Sandy

I lo

2007-04-23 15:38:37 · 14 answers · asked by sherazade_1980 1 in Weddings

even if the friendship starts out going towrards a relationship.. they say they want to be friends?

wat is wrong with you woman!!

2007-04-23 15:35:51 · 1 answers · asked by subzero123098 2 in Singles & Dating

here it goes..i come from a very punjabi sikh family who lives in other country...i've seen and suffered a lot with my family like husband beats up wife mother-inlaw nd daughter in law problems..all kind of problems that u could ever imagine to the point of one family member having a five year old girl sexually abused..now i sort of have a trauma with marrying a punjabi guy who will be arranged for..two years ago i fell in-love with a guy who is not indian..my family doesnt know anything about it..right now i live in US alone..my dad will be coming soon to visit me..i want to tell him every thing..but i know the pride and being closed minded he wont understand anything..what should i do?is it ok to marry someone who is not indian?do we really have to do everything that our society says even though we suffered a lot from that society?another thing my dad doesnt know everything i went through when i was a kid..i'm so scared of him coz until now he hurt my mom nd he used to beat us too

2007-04-23 15:35:24 · 7 answers · asked by mkr 1 in Singles & Dating

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2007-04-23 15:29:04 · 7 answers · asked by shane h 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok how do i start... my mother in law lives in California i live in wi. Before i had kids, she came to visit us once or twice a year for about a week. I can totally deal with that! Since i had my first child four years ago she has been adding a week and a visit and has worked her way up to 3 weeks at a time 3 or 4 times a year!!!! Now dont get me wrong I love my mil but this has gotten out of hand. It's so hard for me to keep any kind of routine when she is around. And it takes me about a month to get back on track once she leaves. And just to clarify she does'nt spend the whole 3 weeks at my home she splits it up between her moms and my bil also, but i never know in advance what nights/days she'll be at my house and she does spend the majority of her time at my home. So i need some opinions. Can i ask her to only stay at our home for a set amount of time like one week each visit or something, how do i go about this with out sounding like a selfish *****? Any advice Please?

2007-04-23 15:25:58 · 6 answers · asked by rachel5576 3 in Other - Family & Relationships