okay so im having an argument with a friend of mine.. whats your opinion?

Question

ive been sort of seeing this guy john for a bit and we live close by... but he goes to school farther away,... and at this school he has 3 really close friends. his best friend scott, his ex girlfriend abby (who now goes out with scott... to get back at john or whatever .. stupid) and this girl kara he is taking to prom. they were telling him how we will never work out and to just give up and im not good enough for him. and now they want to meet me and i dont realyl want to meet them cuz they dont seem like people i really want to know. what would u think if u were in my situation? kara likes him i think anyway and abby is her best friend so i think they are just being stupid cuz they want for all 4 of them to hang out !! what should i say to john cuz he keeps saying that they are just looking out for him and he says that i think they wont accept me.. honestly i dont give 2 shits about them lol but waht advice would you give me/ what shuold i say to john??? thxxxxxx

Answer 1

Do you love john? If so do you think he loves you? If you have insecurities about this then this is going to be a real deal breaker. You should what to see his friends for the very fact they are his friends and your trust his opionin. This shows how little you really do trust him, of course you stated some things out of contense that shows that you think this guys being sort of a dumbarse dealing with his ex-girl and her best friend. Your right to because its showing up that chances are your his ego-fix. Your presense basically is to help him deal with having his ex-girl has a friend and in a relationship with his friend, thats the worst case sernario. The best case is he really likes these guys because there good people and whats to introduce you to them, because your good people. Which one or if its inbetween those two is up to your own intution to figure out.... the whole thing thou, your right, is suspect......