i'm 16 but i like girls 12 years and younger; is there something wrong with me?
2007-04-23 16:05:33 · 34 answers · asked by John D 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
wow! you got problems my friend, plus its illegal!
My thing is you probably are struggling to meet girls your age, as girls are more advanced at your age so girls younger than you may give you better feedback.
The bottomline. DONT DO IT!
You can go to jail, be labled a sexoffender, and ruin your life.
So not worth it!
If I were you, id work on your confidence, start working out a lot and running! Eat right and you will look and feel better. Once you do that, girls your age will actually start hitting on you. Work on yourself and your appearance as much as you can and try to meet girls that are 16-18.
2007-04-23 16:10:53 · answer #1 · answered by hj 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well mentally being 4 years older then a girl for a guy puts you both on the same page. woman are usually 2 years older mentally then their age and men are usually 2 years younger then their age mentally. Second with all the growth hormones in food these days younger woman are looking older every day. Don't be ashamed for liking younger woman but now is a good time to show self control. Don't take them further then they should go. Be a good man and wait till they are 18 before you do something foolish. Words of advice from a man ... if you can't pay for a baby don't let the worm out of your paints. Hope this helps. If you feel you need some therapy get it. Talking about things helps a lot to make us feel confident in who we are and what we do in life.
2007-04-23 16:14:56 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
when you are 24 you can go out with girls age 20.
it is not ok to even think about a 12 child. they are children and not in a position to make reasonable or responsible decisions.
if you become involved with a 12 year old, you could wind up in jail. worse, you will be classified as a pedophile and you would be on parole for the rest of your like. also your name, address and photograph will be list with all the pedophiles on the internet.
suggest you discuss with your mom and ask her to get help for you before you make a mistake.
2007-04-23 16:29:47 · answer #3 · answered by ramni222 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea because 12 is not even a teenager. If you were after my pre-pubescent daughter I would call the cops on you. There are major differences between a 16 yr old and 12 year old. What would you even have in common.
2007-04-23 16:09:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Umm yeah just a little. You may wanna talk to someone about this. Why is that you like girls that young??? Is there a control issue her.
I dated a guy that was 16 when I was 13. He was really mean to me. He tried to control everything I did.
I am not saying you are this way, but I would talk to someone about this.
Good luck with this.
2007-04-23 16:26:22 · answer #5 · answered by Bobbie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What 16 y/o admits to liking 12 year olds. Usually they're "hot for teacher."
Yes, there is definately something wrong with anyone who wrote what you did.
2007-04-23 16:08:37 · answer #6 · answered by Jackie Oh! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's kinda weird, but I've seen worse my brothers friend( whose 20) was going out with a girl that was 15, so your not alone. But if I were you I'd stay away from 12 year olds
2007-04-23 16:15:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, you're not too far gone. You can still turn back. You shouldn't like, in that sense, girls that young. They can be your friends, but YOU CAN'T have interest in them. Look up the ladder a bit, and good luck. May the Stars light your path...
P.S. You are now on my contacts, come a'callin' should you need a little help.
2007-04-23 16:10:20 · answer #8 · answered by Lost Ranger 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry to say, but yes you have a problem. Get help fast before you hurt a young girl or you end up in big trouble. It's your choice at this point but it will be the Judge's when they put you away.
2007-04-23 16:12:20 · answer #9 · answered by P/T Doctor 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your not an adult. you wont go to jail. no parent is going to kick your *** unless you actually touch his daughter.
yea, its prolly wrong but like someone else put it, your not too far gone. i dont htink you need professional help...yet. try to change it on your own. do you feel guilty for it? focus on the guilt. besides...girls your age are better anyways, more interesting and mature.
just dont go acting on this urge and make sure you stop it fairly soon or you could run into problems. good luck
2007-04-23 16:19:19 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋