My boyfriend locks me out of his bedroom?

Question

My BF was keeping his room locked when we first moved into the house( that I own). He refused to give me a key. The only way to stop this was to say, "Give me a key, leave the door unlocked or move out. If you have that little trust in me we should not be living together." He stopped locking it. Now, he is starting to talk about locking his door again. I told him "ok fine, but I need a key, you never know what will happen." He said..are you ready for this? "I will give you a key when you clean your room"He is a neat freak I am not. We argued about it, finally he just said, "I am going to lock it, I dont care what you say" I said, "if you are going to lock me out you have to do it in a different house" he said "fine" went in his room, shut the door, and, or course, locked it. Let him move in with his VERY old school father..and move his bratty son in, and the watch the s--- hit the fan.Supposedly his exwife never minded this.I think its ridiculous.Have u ever heard of anything likethis

Answer 1

Based on what you wrote, he must be REALLY good in bed or you must be desperate. Why would you live with him?

He might be afraid sloppiness is catching, or he might be watching porn on his computer or he might be writing love letters to his ex. People who love each other usually share the same room and the same bed. they learn to put up with each other's differences in habits.

It doesn't sound like you two should be housemates, let alone BF & GF.

Answer 2

Intimacy issues!! Yea I've heard of it plenty. Your not explaining everything thou, like were the bratty son plays in it. And why, o why you have a boyfriend who has his own room? Theres a pretty grown-up reason why two people share the same room, or rather a mature reason, which is that it shows complete trust and helps to foster companionship and compassion. So I can see this guy proubly fails you alot of other areas to.... not a good person to subject yourself or your house to. Besides having the last word is just childish....

Answer 3

you are the main stressful brat I even have ever heard. U deserve your punishment infact i'm hoping she cuts your internet off and locks u in there for 3 days. Skipping college, staying out previous due? If i replaced into your mum i would not enable u go away the homestead for a week nor with the flexibility to apply any cellular gadgets. in step with possibility you will have the skill to sense like a type of starving toddlers in a third international u . s . a . and journey that they don't even GET to bypass to college yet you desire to bypass college. Disrespectful little brat