been friends with this person for a year. ive always known she lives in USA. i just found out that she goes to the same college that ill attend next semster. if i block/delete her now and she find me there which there a biiiiiiiiiig chance that she will. she'll get mad cause i didnt tell her but if i tell her she';ll think im desperate she'll think i came all the way from here to her which i did not even if i delete her and i managed to law low LOL. ill kinda miss her :( so i really dont know what to do . i mean shes a gooooooooooood friend but not bestfriend tho
2007-04-23 18:42:46 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
i said love problems not girls lol.
2007-04-23 18:52:54 · update #1
im really thinking of changing my college to another one far way from her.
2007-04-23 18:53:21 · update #2
i never ever ever showed any romantic or sexual interests to her online we just talk
2007-04-23 18:57:55 · update #3
well if ur good friends with her......then i think u should not care about anything that happens..because its just destiny that wants to bring u two together...so take advantage and tell her the coincidences...and be proud of it...because i think its cool....and why would u delete someone u have known for a year...thats nonsense...no offense....hope it helps :)
2007-04-23 18:50:33 · answer #1 · answered by TonTon07 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok...well first, don't delete her without telling her why. That's just mean. Second, so you two are going to the same college! Tell her beforehand...that way she doesn't see you one day and think you've been stalking her. Let her know that you didn't want to freak her out so you held off on telling her. I assume you chose this college before you realized she was going there? I'm sure if you must, you can prove it through paperwork to ease her mind, if it really comes down to that. Chances are, she'll probably think it's really cool. Just don't show any romantic interest in her online or anything...because then she'll really be freaked out. A guy showing romantic interest online and suddenly one day he's sitting next to her in class...yeah a little freaky. But it would be freakier if you didn't tell her and she just walked into you one day unbeknownst to the situation. Why not give her the link to your question here, so she will know your concerns and that you really never meant for the situation to happen the way it did. And besides...ever think fate might play a part in this? Who are we to try to cheat fate?
Good Luck and be totally psyched!
2007-04-24 01:51:50 · answer #2 · answered by no_name_jane 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't trip, if you delete her or keep her just go with the flow. Don't mess up you life over something that little. Also there are so so many people at college you might never even see her. And you never know what if she turns out to be really really hot.
2007-04-24 01:50:24 · answer #3 · answered by peter k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, why are you sweating this? Whats the big deal about going to the same college? Your friends...be friends...you will thank your lucky stars that you know someone at the school. Just tell her and be honest...its a small world, its ok to go to the same school, if she thinks your stalking her then your really not that good a friend.
2007-05-01 21:00:06 · answer #4 · answered by Pepper 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you think this is a problem then you have a lot to learn my
friend.Didn't you say you were friends then what's the problem
a friend is a friend that's all.You are making this thing bigger then it is.Did you tell her you loved her,did you tell her you would like to get together one day,did you let her believe you were boyfriend and girlfriend if no to all above then I don't see a problem here.Watch the movie (YOU GOT MAIL) I think that will help you a lot.
2007-04-24 02:37:50 · answer #5 · answered by Teenie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is just a FRIEND then what is the big deal? There is nothing wrong with having a friend!:)_ I thought you said that we could report you if you were posting questions about girl problems........I wont though:)_ LOL!!!!!!
2007-04-24 01:47:29 · answer #6 · answered by ? 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dont tell her bro, just go to school and surprise her. if its good then good, if its bad then oh well, you still gotta whole campus fulla chicks.
2007-04-24 01:48:56 · answer #7 · answered by quartamill25 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honesty is always the best policy...tell her exactly how it all went down, and if she thinks that, then she can do what she wants.
2007-04-24 01:45:52 · answer #8 · answered by David B 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
next time you talk, fib a little and tell her that you are "talking to this one girl and we might hook up"
2007-04-24 02:09:54 · answer #9 · answered by noonedreamsanyways 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋