My boyfriend and I have been together for about 2 months now. He came on to me really strong and we hung out nonstop for about 3 weeks. About 2 weeks ago, he has started being sketch and he hasnt been picking up when I call and he never texts me back. I havent seen him too often. He told me that I was crowding him but what else should I do whenever he comes on as strong as he does?
2007-04-23 18:09:53 · 17 answers · asked by Julie L 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hes trying to get you to break up with him. and you should if he is treating you like that. guys like that taught me what i will not tolerate in a relationship. i suppose my experiences were worth it.. ive been married to a wonderful man for a year and a half and he treats me just as good now as he did on the first date.
moral of the story....
if a guy doesnt treat you like you are important to him... find someone who will
2007-04-23 18:14:13 · answer #1 · answered by Stevie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let's keep it real, he's seeing someone else or is no longer interested. You gave too much to soon!!!!! Now he had enough and ready to move on. That's men! (most of them anyway)
Don't waste your time and stop contacting him...let him come to you. When or if he does, tell him that now YOU need space!
More than likely, he's bored and want something new. You have to let guys WAIT. They all change after they get what they want and especially if it didn't take but a few months to get. Let him go and next time don't give too much to soon!!
2007-04-23 18:18:12 · answer #2 · answered by me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate to say it, but it sounds like he has started seeing someone else, and he is trying to break it to you gently. Don't call or text him anymore. Move on. When he finally realizes it, he will probably call. Tell him that he is crowding you, and you have decided to move on. (Give him a dose of his own medicine)
2007-04-23 18:15:57 · answer #3 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you feel like he isnt the same and dont want to try to waste so much energy then dump him. but i suggest u give him some time. u dont have to completely stop talking to him. but give him and you, time to breath and be urself again. if anything happens you can live a normal life, and he can too. in the meanwhile if you want to save the relationship, give him time. and if he backfires it means the issues are on him, and you can dump him. but if things become well again. then be happy =]
2007-04-23 18:15:03 · answer #4 · answered by Angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When he comes on strong that's your signal to start acting like a WOMAN and take control! YOU are the ONE who makes the rules, here...so OWN IT! Also, the REASON he comes on strong is...he's horny...not in love, just horny!
2007-04-23 18:17:39 · answer #5 · answered by crazynays 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just back off..when they get like this you might want to back all the way off, this could go off and on forever. Good Luck
2007-04-23 18:14:36 · answer #6 · answered by clbinmo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if he dosent answer his phone calls then yeah dump him
its like hes trying to avoid you..
2007-04-23 18:16:39 · answer #7 · answered by ♫gurl08♫ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should consider first what you want from him.. try to talk and come to a conclusion .. if that don't work then the world is a ocean..there r many more fishes out there.. soo keep smiling and take it cool ok..do take care...
2007-04-23 18:15:41 · answer #8 · answered by blaze 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with you---how does he expect you to be? I don't know what to tell you except to be true to your feelings. Is this really hurting you? If so, maybe you should dump him.
2007-04-23 18:14:59 · answer #9 · answered by Dawn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he hasn't made any attempt to call back you should dump him, if he wants to stay he'll fight for you
2007-04-23 18:14:05 · answer #10 · answered by anthony r 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋