Family & Relationships - 16 April 2007

and i often hear girls saying how much they love the married men. Are the men too sweet and understand them better or there is nothing wrong in the eyes of these women?

I am not talk about $ here.

2007-04-16 03:17:55 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-04-16 03:17:43 · 17 answers · asked by Steve S 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-04-16 03:11:27 · 23 answers · asked by dazcorkhill 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

we'd been dating for 3wks(known ea other for 1month) when I started to loose all attraction for him... I was going to break up with him anyway, then I cheated on him. I have broken up with him, but people are saying things now. Should I meet with him and tell him the truth? (me cheating increased the reason for me breaking up with him. I did NOT break up with him for this other guy!) Please give advice!

2007-04-16 03:09:21 · 8 answers · asked by Simone H 2 in Singles & Dating

anyone got funny text messages i could send to a female friend to cheer them up. they've been down for a little while and would like to cheer them up. jokes storys etc.

2007-04-16 03:01:58 · 9 answers · asked by techno mentalist 4 in Friends

I just jilted by my first boyfriend three month ago. At that time, one of my friends accompanies me during that hard time.Although he in Singapore and me in Malaysia.Recently he revealed to me that he likes me. I said that i can't accept him now,cause i not yet get over with my ex.He said that he won't care cause he trust me, and will help me to erase my memory with my ex.I know that he will be loyal to me.But, i just can't fall in love now. I don’t want to be unfair to him.

2007-04-16 02:59:51 · 10 answers · asked by the milky way 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-04-16 02:53:17 · 6 answers · asked by G?ld?n ang?l 5 in Singles & Dating

He got married 2 years back...he is not having any physical relationship with his wife for more than a year and now things between him and his wife are worst...please do tell me how to get divorce from his first wife and how to get custody of his child..and then how we can be legally get married...i know u will suggest me to leave him ..but this is not possible for both of us...we want to marry soon and i am ready to keep his child...please reply soon its urgent..

2007-04-16 02:52:34 · 22 answers · asked by ishika37 1 in Marriage & Divorce

okay well i have been dating this girl for like couple of months, well actually we started of by being best friends and now were dating. i usually kiss her on the neck, and she told me she likes it and it feels good and stuff so i do alot of times. when im with her, we both feel comfortable, but shes shy though so i usually make the first move, so she told me in order for her to make the first move, i need to seduce her. any suggest of suducing her and turning her on? not by the result of sex, but just turning her on?

TNX

2007-04-16 02:52:00 · 8 answers · asked by roodboy_18 1 in Singles & Dating

he always hit me really hard and when i tell him too stop he doesnt he just tell me too make him shut up. so what should i do?

2007-04-16 02:49:55 · 66 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

which would you choose?

2007-04-16 02:42:45 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I recently was contacted by my mother's cousin, who lives in Spain, and I have never spoken to. She has been working on our family tree for a long time, and sent all the info through to me. She ended up telling me that there was information in the history of the family that my mum wasn't aware of, and it was up to me if i told her or not. she had kept it a secret for 48 years.
basically, my mums mum had a relationship with a South African man in early 1946. she fell pregnant, he was shipped back off to south africa. she married my mums supposed father in 1949. i do not know if she was with this man when she slept with the S.A. man or not. Whichever way, nobody ever told my mum the truth. they went on to have another child in 1956 (my mums brother/half-brother).

my mum is 60 now. should i tell her the truth? i dont have any info on this S.A man so cant give her any details. the man she thinks is her father is dead now. it is her right to know, but will it be more hurt than its worth?

2007-04-16 02:41:02 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Comments plz.

2007-04-16 02:37:39 · 31 answers · asked by Naren_RocksU 3 in Singles & Dating

To make a long story short, I have a friend whom I've been friends with for eleven years now, and my boyfriend and I always have to deal with his ex girlfriend because they have have eight year old daughter together, she's upset about how his and mine's relationship is going (he's in the process of getting custodial rights from her for their daughter) because the mom is a psycho (Fatal Attraction) my friend is mad because we basically aren't in the ex's face "we're together deal with it" and risk losing his daughter if the mother bolts out of state. He and I have a wonderful relationship and since my friend is not in our shoes she truly can't understand why we're doing things and what we're going through. We've tried to explain it and she still disagrees. My friend knows this woman has come after me before and the law threatned her. Is it time to keep her at arm's length?

2007-04-16 02:34:42 · 3 answers · asked by suzlaa1971 5 in Friends

He expects me to be cool with it, because I understand were he is coming from with his reasons. I'm still hurt and upset. What am I suppose to do, just act like everything is normal? He is acting strange too, he is kinda distant from me a little, but he still says he loves me and all that. He's been kinda a butt head too though. I don't know what's wrong with him, is he stressing?

2007-04-16 02:33:16 · 18 answers · asked by angel2005_2001 5 in Weddings

2007-04-16 02:26:13 · 13 answers · asked by G?ld?n ang?l 5 in Singles & Dating

OK, I just have to ask this question. In the store with my husband, looking at bras. Certain kind I wanted, but had usual boring colors, white, ivory, beige. But they had a real pretty canary yellow one but not my size. I made a comment about wanting that color because it was so pretty. He just couldn't understand why I wanted a "pretty bra" when no one else would see it. I told him it wasn't for anyone else to see, it was for me, so that I would feel pretty underneath. Same with panties.
What is your take on that?

2007-04-16 02:24:49 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

OK on Friday my friend cancelled meeting me because she was held up, but I had to text her to find out where she was before she rang to tell me she couldn't make it, I had wasted 2 hrs waiting around for. Then Sat. she text and said she was free and could pick me up straight away, I said my parents were out so she could stay at mine for a while. She replied with "I'll let you know". What is there to let me know, she was coming to pick me up anyway. 1hr later I'd still heard nothing I text her. She rang back saying she replied but to the wrong number, she was just coming out of TKMax and had to go home to a BBQ then she cut me off mid sentance. So she basically chose shopping over me.
Now she's invited me to sleep over hers next Sat. should I politely reject the invite or ignore what she did (I'm still annoyed, We've been friends 6 yrs and she's only been to my house for 30mins never comes even when my parents are away).

2007-04-16 02:24:42 · 12 answers · asked by truth_and_time_tells_all 6 in Friends

A girl at work has recently got in touch with me via email.We never used to speak and she invited me to lunch.(she's got many other ppl she goes to lunch with!)WHY NOW?We hit off and we're in constant email contact now.

She's got my number(not txt yet though) and said she'll give me her's!I don't want to look too pushy, so I haven't asked!

I asked her out for Saturday, but she said she might have a date--but she said the bloke might change his mind!She met him over the wkn.

When I asked if she asked him out,she wrote back:

"It's the man's job to ask the girl out ;)"

1.Was this a hint for me to ask her out properly?

She said we'd go out for a drink nxt week and I asked if we can be friends-she said only if I don't expect more!

I replied saying I only wanted to be friends-what made her think I wanted more?She wrote back saying 'Nothing,just leave it...'

She now COMPLETELY IGNORES ME+EMAILS!

2.Did I do anything wrong? 3.Her ego bruised? 4.Why she ignoring me?

2007-04-16 02:17:40 · 14 answers · asked by sircrazydude90 2 in Singles & Dating

Not a question more of a statement really. I moved to lincoln 2 1/2 years ago, lost my job and now I'm stuck here. I'm married but apart from my wife (who I can talk to all of the time) I'm starting to feel quite lonely. My wife works and has lots of friends but I dont really have anyone I can call a friend, (apart from my wife).

2007-04-16 02:17:28 · 16 answers · asked by mark s 2 in Friends

My ex calls my phone at least 10 times a day leaving harrassing messages claiming anything from I am lieing to my kids ( about what I have no clue) to I am keeping him from communicating with his kids ( he talks to them at least once a day) He has also recently tried to get my boyfriend kicked out of the military by calling his commander claiming we are not divorced ( it was final over a month ago).

Not only is he driving me insane he is messing with my daughters head telling her my boyfriend is trying to replace him and that she has to choose between being happy living with us or him. That she cant have both

Is there anything I can do to stop him?

2007-04-16 02:16:57 · 11 answers · asked by Me 2 in Marriage & Divorce

why is it that no one on here seems to know how to speak english? every sentence looks like this:
I have one best friend.but the thing is i thinking him all day and night i was the love.idont know he loves m.
Does that make sense to anyone else?

2007-04-16 02:15:18 · 23 answers · asked by deet deet 3 in Marriage & Divorce

your parents and siblings since you left home? How often do you see them ?
do you spend time with them like you do with your friends?


**was surprised to read that people think it's 'odd' and 'weird' to hang out with siblings**

2007-04-16 02:09:08 · 40 answers · asked by Aaron E 1 in Family

My family don't get along. It's like we all hate each other. It's my mom, me, my two brothers ans a sister. Iam the oldest. We all have certain problems: My mom wants to quit smoking so she is really stressed out. I am really selfish (i just can't help it). One of my brothers is too bussy. He thinks he is better than the rest of us and that he is the only one who helps my mom. My other brother is kind of abusive and depressed. he always starts fights and he's really spoiled (my mom doesn't yell at him for doing things wrong and when she does, he laughs at her); My sister (who's 7) makes messes and doesn't clean them up. I'm really want to help because I don't like being upset all of the time and having everyone hate everyone else. Even when we start to get along, someone will say something to upset someone else. Please help me and family!

someone please tell me what should I do?
please give my some suggestion to overcome this problem..

2007-04-16 02:05:27 · 18 answers · asked by EDisON 1 in Family

my ex and i broke up around last November, and for the first time in months, he called me up. We broke up in the first place because we lost contact (he lives 45 minutes away) and when he called me he said that it was because his cell wasn't working. i can't help thinking that he could have called if he really wanted to; i mean, there's a million phones in the world. What should i do?
P.S. he made it obvious that he is sseing someone else and has possibly gotten her pregnant. any advice on how I should deal if he calls back?

2007-04-16 02:03:54 · 11 answers · asked by babyv6024 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm an african american male and I find asian women (of any nationality) very attractive. Its not just their physical traits but their whole personality scheme, their caring, kind-hearted soul. I know this is not true for all asian women, but the ones that I've met so far have been.

It has gotten to the point that whenever I see an asian female (short, tall, skinny, fat) at work,school, or just somewhere nearby...I automatically become attracted. Although I've come close on a few occassions, I can never seem to build up enough esteem to express my feelings towards them. I always become shy and coy.

My entire family married/dated within their own race so it leads me to wonder if I'm the exception. Am I at fault ? How can I overcome my shyness? Is there anyone in a similar situation ?

-Thanks in advance for any advice!

2007-04-16 02:00:41 · 20 answers · asked by ╚kco®games 4 in Singles & Dating

well how do i know? i mean we talk for atleast 2 weeks and he is very nice! but we got in a fight and he was pist at me and i was at him so i went out with a diff. guy for 3 days. (my best friend) but we didn't think is would work. so when the guy that has been talking 2 me comes back from the beach! and we started talking and kept calling each other and all kinds of stuff. while he was at a party. and that night he was so drunk a girl that he dated like 2 times ask him out while he was drunk. and now he won't break up with her b/c he thinks it is not right for her 2 suffer from his mistake that he made by saying yes. but he says he wants me badly but he does not know what 2 do. so how do i really know if he does have feelings for me? and what do i do to get him 2 break up with her? or what can i say?

2007-04-16 01:57:48 · 1 answers · asked by jay 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-04-16 01:56:20 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-04-16 01:52:18 · 15 answers · asked by Lorrie Anne B 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-04-16 01:50:59 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships