my ex and i broke up around last November, and for the first time in months, he called me up. We broke up in the first place because we lost contact (he lives 45 minutes away) and when he called me he said that it was because his cell wasn't working. i can't help thinking that he could have called if he really wanted to; i mean, there's a million phones in the world. What should i do?
P.S. he made it obvious that he is sseing someone else and has possibly gotten her pregnant. any advice on how I should deal if he calls back?
2007-04-16 02:03:54 · 11 answers · asked by babyv6024 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell him to get lost. Don't answer any future calls. Ever. Don't allow any other kind of contact either. Eventually he'll get the message.
2007-04-16 02:07:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
U r right. maybe he dated around and couldnt find what he wanted so wants to try it with you again.. You can not trust him. He is looking for the good stuff u gave him but he does not deserve it. From experience and observation, a man who is only single l and a half years is not eager to jump into another permanent relationship. He is newly free.And he wants to act free. the wife stuff he told you was most likely a line that he knows women want to hear. Let him continue "shopping" which can go on forever. Read a book called "hes just not that into u".... U deserve better than this. Once he hits the dating world and sees all the women out there, he will continue to play the numbers, while wanting to use you. He said he was not ready. Believe him. He will not change anytime soon. He may have had it good with you but it was nt enough.. Better to be alone for awhile. Take all the energy you spent on trying to make him happy and the relationship work. Put it into your self now. YOu have been freed, dont even bother with him.. sure he may try again... dont fall for it. I dont want to play God and tell u wht to do but I work w many women and have heard this too many times its a classic..
2016-05-21 02:41:53 · answer #2 · answered by venus 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't answer the phone. You're absolutely right, if he wanted to call you he could have used the house phone, used a friend's phone, payphone, called collect, whatever. If he calls back, don't answer the phone. If he's with someone else, he's got no reason in the world to call you. If you do answer the phone then just tell him that you're not interested in being friends right now, and you'd appreciate it if he left you alone. You deserve better, and you should expect and demand better.
2007-04-16 02:11:20 · answer #3 · answered by GLSigma3 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You hit it right on the head. If he wanted to talk to you he would have found a way to call you. He probably just called to see if you still had feelings for him. If he got someone pregnant he's possibly going through a crazy stage right now deciding on what he wants to do. It was stupid of him to even share that information with you. If I were you I would tell him next time he called that he has too much on his plate to be dealing with right now and he should be calling his "baby's mama" instead of you.
2007-04-16 02:28:36 · answer #4 · answered by teacher101 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kick him to the curb.Don't pick up if its him,tell him not to call you. He wants one thing only,booty call.Forget him and don't fall for anything he says.Telling you he has someone else and that she mite be pregnant is like a slap in the face.Move on girl and leave hes lousy a.s.s. Let him deal with diapers and baby bottles
Enjoy your life.He don't deserve you
2007-04-16 02:23:03 · answer #5 · answered by Charne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being nice or normal to this fellow is not smth u should do.. When he has another woman in his life he has got nothing to say to you..Next time round he calls you, tell him straight that you do not want him to call you again. But never let him know u are disturbed by his calls, he might be happy to hear that..you never know..
2007-04-16 02:22:23 · answer #6 · answered by giZmO_geEk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him he needs to grow up and start taking care of his pregnant girlfriend and prepare for a major life change once this child is born. Perhaps he's confused and is reaching out to you, someone he loved and cared about for quite some time....for some support in helping him sort out his confusion. It's up to you if you want to put your time and effort into him to help him do the right thing.....or if you want nothing to do with this and tell him sorry...he's gotten himself into a mess..he will have to figure out how to get out of it*
2007-04-16 02:08:49 · answer #7 · answered by friskymisty01 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HANG UP THE PHONE.
he wants to make you a booty call, and he knows you still have feelings so its much easier than finding a stranger.
RUN AWAY from this guy... unless you like getting hurt.
say it out loud "because his cell wasnt working" ... BWAHAHAHAHAAA thats a good one.
2007-04-16 02:08:34 · answer #8 · answered by Evil Evil Evil 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't answer the phone or tell him not to call anymore. Seems like he just wanted to rub his new relationship&possible baby in your face. Forget him!
2007-04-16 02:09:38 · answer #9 · answered by Boo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hang up on him.He is your ex for a reason leave it that way.
2007-04-16 02:12:22 · answer #10 · answered by Maureen B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋