Family & Relationships - 16 April 2007

I have been trying my best to be civil with my husband, who left me for another woman(while I am pregant and we have 2 kids already)But he keeps playing games to try to hurt me. Yesterday he asked if he could come in to see his kids, I let him in and he started going through my stuff and took what he felt was his, although I already gave him everything agreed on, We started yelling cause I told him to get out and he refused, then this morning he shut my phone(cell, in his name) off knowing I have to pay .25 per min on the house phone. Even after all this I text messaged him(before the phone was shut off) that I had spoken with his mother and she was concerned about the kids, and he wrote back kiss my a$$, I am having sex and my fiance doesnt like you texting me this late!, everything is a game, and refuse to let myself act like that towards him, I am a Christian woman, I just want us to be civil for our kids!!! How can I get him to stop the game playing?

2007-04-16 04:35:55 · 17 answers · asked by AntzaGurl 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Why is it when males(of any age) have a good woman they cheat? is it that they are the assholes we females think they are, or is there some other reason? come on guys, help clear up the misunderstanding and get back from the bad rep, the scum of your species are giving you.
also, what is it you hate the most about what the scum of your species do? say it bold guys, your good rep is at stake.

2007-04-16 04:35:22 · 6 answers · asked by Mickey mouse 2 in Singles & Dating

Why is it that sometimes when you want to be yourself, and when you do be yourself you get crucified for it? I know, there is almost everyone who says that I will always be myself, no matter what happens, no matter who comes in my life, who goes, who is of importance, who not… etc…etc...
Believe me, I used to be one of them (still hope I am in some instances). But somehow when you go through all different phases in life, you actually come to realise that it not only difficult to be ‘yourself’, but it is sometimes downright impossible. Impossible, not because you suddenly lost how to be yourself, or that you find that you cant… but just that it does not ‘fit’.

2007-04-16 04:35:20 · 13 answers · asked by G?ld?n ang?l 5 in Singles & Dating

She'll be selling memberships for a very high end country club. She's a really good friend but I'm at lost a for what I should get her... any suggestions?

2007-04-16 04:35:01 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

she went to st edmunds school compton wolverhampton uk we were very good friends i would like to get intouched with her again

2007-04-16 04:34:45 · 3 answers · asked by carol d 1 in Friends

everyone has thier own opnions on what is attractive, but I'm looking for something that we all share...I hope this question makes sense..I am trying to word it right...Like ok..for instance..Would you date a man with a low paying job, even thought he might be the nicest man..Or say he was missing a tooth or two(lol I know that sounds gross..But it could be worse)..If the guy had physical traits that are not considered "the norm" or generally"good looking" would it matter to you?

2007-04-16 04:34:15 · 13 answers · asked by Mommy Dearest 5 in Singles & Dating

My b/f of 2 years father of baby, Has been spending all of his money on himself. He bought a sound system for his car, bought a new car and recently bought $2600 dollar rims. May i add that is so unecessary. Since our baby was born he only bought maybe one or two toy's that we went half on. I hve been buying my baby verything from toys to shoes to clothes to formula..Recently i have been bugging him that we need a car seat and still hasn't payed for it. I went out and bought it myself. I was so mad yesterday that i told him that he is selfish and only thinks about him self...Am i wrong for telling him that? Or should i just let him be?Help?

2007-04-16 04:32:52 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

He said "Oh", like as if to say oh you want to come as well, should I keep talking to this boy or is he a prat who is full of himself?Or am I looking into things too much?He sounded like he did'nt really want to tell me where it was!Is it worth having him as a friend?

2007-04-16 04:29:50 · 14 answers · asked by nachomanhulk 1 in Friends

You've been going out for at least a year but he will kiss your neck and on the face but never on the lips?? Why is this?

2007-04-16 04:28:06 · 5 answers · asked by Butterfly 1 in Singles & Dating

if some body is from Grant Pass , do you Know him? o this name is her . i check in google serch in look like a old lady Kierin diana Nichols 51 o 80 somthing . just help me fine out if he is a scam artist. please.

2007-04-16 04:27:39 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

2007-04-16 04:25:37 · 28 answers · asked by abluebobcat 4 in Friends

why would a guy stare at you when ur not looking and then look away when u trun around? this guy does this to me all the time. i can always feel his eyes on me. we dont know eachother that well but he talks to me a lot and smiles and says hi whenever he sees me..

2007-04-16 04:25:26 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-04-16 04:23:48 · 16 answers · asked by Perplexed 2 in Marriage & Divorce

this is my 2nd marriage and she has 4 kids. she thinks Im not getting along with them and she has fallen out of love with me.Married only for 4 years. Of couse mony problems, not enough $$. Regular marriage problems. She does not want to continue or repair the marriage.l love her with all my heart. she wont talk to me, i send her messages she wont respond. She just gave up on us.

2007-04-16 04:22:34 · 16 answers · asked by eltejanohouston 1 in Marriage & Divorce

So depress and desperate already 4 years, first 2 years we loved each other but the last 2 years I only love her and she has no longer has feel and sharing things with me. Everyday my target or hope only wanted to call and talk to her. But day by day the communication is deteriorated. I'm sufferred cos I knew she is no longer love me but I still love her very very much. I knew I'm stupid and should let go but I failed to do so. Please advice :( Thanks!

2007-04-16 04:21:43 · 5 answers · asked by AlienBZD 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I found a couple questions like this, but figured it was worth asking again. My fiance and I are indifferent on the idea of a dance, at best. If we chose not to have one, what are some other options for entertainment with our guests? It could help us save our budget, which is extremely minimal.

2007-04-16 04:20:42 · 12 answers · asked by sheilas_a_brat 1 in Weddings

2007-04-16 04:18:50 · 15 answers · asked by essence_05 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Hi guys,
Well i like this guy and i think he likes me. Well he has a sister about 11 and i am 13 and he is 14. he held my hand gave me his email and i think he likes me. So i get to sleep over at his house in a few weeks. You know with her and him it will be fun. How do i know if he likes me. He told me once linda sorta. I have his phone number and email. Should i ask him. He is tall brown curly short hair. He works out and iss very kind. What should i do? Guys doyou like getting asked by gilrs if you like them. Please help sleepover is coming up

2007-04-16 04:18:01 · 11 answers · asked by angel 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

This couple was married for 5yrs and been divorce for 2yrs. because of cheating and she gave 2nd,3rd chances and he says he want to remarry her but he keep changeing his mind and wants to date her after he says he's not ready. so he sending mix feelings and she has went on but he keep comeing back. whats wrong?

2007-04-16 04:17:44 · 18 answers · asked by bettyprince2006 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Today everything she was thinking about me just suddenly came out: " Oh my I swear u have sideburns, and a moustarche, and even a uni brow, ur might is well be a man!"
What would u do if ur friend said that to u?

2007-04-16 04:17:39 · 21 answers · asked by Emma 1 in Friends

Quick question. I was wondering which parents names should go first on the wedding invitation. I've always heard that it should be my future bride's parents first. I also don't know how we should put their names on the invitation being that they are divorced as well. Now, I've heard that we should put OUR names first being we are primarily paying for our wedding. My parents are paying about 25% of the wedding so I'm not sure who's name should go first. I know it's like drinking out of a firehose, but any advice would be appreciated.

P.S. I love my fiance, but planning a wedding sucks.

2007-04-16 04:16:04 · 12 answers · asked by Snuggles123 4 in Weddings

did they cheat?
did you take them back?
How long where you together?
What did it make you feel like?
Did u cry.. if so how long for?
What did it make you feel like doing?



feeling heart broken at mo, just finnished my bf cos he cheated :( cnt seem to get over it...

only want your stories though thanks.

2007-04-16 04:14:55 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I live in one town and my fiancee lives in another. We are about 3 hours away from each other. He left it up to me but I can't decide where to get married at. The thing is my Grandma is in a nursing home and I would really like for her to be there and she can't travel. She has alzhimeres ( sorry about spelling) If we got married where he lives then it would be cheaper. The church will marry us for free and let us use all the wedding things they have and all his family will be able to be there. Some of them can't travel real far either. I feel like I am being selfish no matter where I choose. My family is real small and his family is pretty big. My family could travel except for my Grandma. Also my best friend is my maidren of honor and I am not sure if she can afford to travel to where he lives.. What is a good way to resolve this conflict and make it work?????

2007-04-16 04:14:25 · 7 answers · asked by Sarah G 3 in Weddings

What should I do, I am the type to keep things bottled up and then I explode. Over a month ago I had gotten so aggravated with my husband due to the simple fact that he is like a third child. I have always had to ask him to do things, I am like a mother figure to him, he's not financially responsible. I am unhappy and when i told him that i was he expects he starts doing better but this is usually the cycle. ( they get better than worse again) I told him how i felt and he has totally acted as if things were normal. lately he's been going through my perse asking questions, so i asked him if he was looking for something to " pin " on me to make him feel better about me not being happy. we've not had sex in over a month and i don't want to, i own a company and we have two children that are my priorities, sex isn't. I want a break and he knows it, he just " sits" there though and still acts as if nothing is wrong. what do i do?

2007-04-16 04:13:47 · 8 answers · asked by Ashley D 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I can't be sure but I think he is cheating on me. We have been married for almost 2 years, but he doesn't want to spend time wth me or our boys. He always finds a reason to not be around me. He has even told me that i'm not good enough to visit his famnily when he goes.

2007-04-16 04:13:38 · 21 answers · asked by Vonvon 2 in Marriage & Divorce

hey, before you read this, please do not judge, or think that he is a perv or a paedo or a weirdo or any of that jazz, because he is truly a nice guy, and wouldnt do anything to hurt anyone.

okay, im 14, and the guy i like is 18. its my friends brother, and i went and stayed at my friends house for a few nights.

we were watching tv and my friend went to bed and so it was just me and tom (the 18 year old) there, and i noticed when we were watching tv he kept on looking at me (in a nice way, not pervy )

we started talking, and i offered to make him a cup of tea, and when i gave it to him he touched my hand (lol that sounds really gay but he didn't need to touch my hand)

and he was smiling at me and properly looking into my eyes when we were talking and stuff, and if i said i was cycling instead of walking, he said that he was going to cycle too.

is 18 too old for me? i wouldnt have sex or anything, im not like that...

please dont be harsh, because i'm only wondering.

thanks!! xxxx

2007-04-16 04:12:31 · 36 answers · asked by *teenagekicks* 2 in Singles & Dating

where can i find a tresure chest for wedding cards to be placed for my beach wedding or can i make one if so any ideas or wedsites welcomed

2007-04-16 04:10:45 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

My 6 mo. relationship has been intense in both good & stressful ways. Through it we still r convinced we have a future together. Yesterday - a big turning point - his children (28&26) finally came to my home with their partners for a nice dinner. I was sooo nervous & wanted to make a good impression & I have no idea how I pulled it off, but it went VERY well. Recently my man & I have discussed living together - he held back mostly because of his kid's saying they felt it was too soon. I was a bit angry BUT I believe it was because they just didn't know me enough or see my environment & know that I HAVE my OWN ON MY OWN! Now they have seen it & they left with the knowledge that they are always welcome. My man has 6 wks left to find a place to live & having trouble in doing so. 1/2 of his belongings will be coming to my house anyways...should I bring up the idea of him moving in again or should I not push the issue? He usto get very excited at the idea - details were addressed.

2007-04-16 04:10:06 · 10 answers · asked by martiek7 3 in Marriage & Divorce

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2007-04-16 04:10:06 · 7 answers · asked by leo's den 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-04-16 04:09:41 · 16 answers · asked by bradxschuman 6 in Marriage & Divorce