So depress and desperate already 4 years, first 2 years we loved each other but the last 2 years I only love her and she has no longer has feel and sharing things with me. Everyday my target or hope only wanted to call and talk to her. But day by day the communication is deteriorated. I'm sufferred cos I knew she is no longer love me but I still love her very very much. I knew I'm stupid and should let go but I failed to do so. Please advice :( Thanks!
2007-04-16 04:21:43 · 5 answers · asked by AlienBZD 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You should pick up and move on and find someone who loves you back. It sounds like you know that but you just don't want to let it go. You can view it two ways waste your time trying to make her love you back and end up being hurt or you can move on and find someone who loves you and be happy. Life is to short to dwell in the past and cause yourself lots of heartache. You only get one life so enjoy yourself and go out and find the person who is meant for you and if she is the one that is meant for you trust me. Time will bring her back but for now give her space.
2007-04-16 04:30:12 · answer #1 · answered by SDL 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Refusing to let go is the first problem and secondly the denial you are in, this is what is holding you back from healing and moving on. You should be happy and celebrating! You know now it will not work with this person but you refused to see that your Mr/Mrs. Right is seeking you out - he/she is not Mr/Mrs. Right - this event only means that something bigger and better awaits you and your destiny but you fail to see truth - you drowning yourself in all this sorrow is eating you up till' there is nothing left of you - while Mr/Mrs. Right walks right by you your head is so far down in the dirt you can't even see him/her as he/she passes you by... So it didn't work move on to the next in line. Be happy you found out now before more was put into it... By holding on to hopeless situations we stall opportunities from coming into our lives it is just as blinding as love can sometimes be... Weening out the good, the bad and the ugly before you get to your knight an shinning armor or your princess is only a process and IT DOESN'T HAVE TO HURT!!!! It is only experience and learning why would it hurt!? It makes no sence to fuss and feel depressed over relationships that didn't work out - it is worthless energy wasted b/c we fail to see truth of our love lifes future.... See what I'm saying? Now feel it! happiness truely comes from within not that of the outside world and from others.
2007-04-16 04:51:50 · answer #2 · answered by sophia_of_light 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's the downside of internet flings. How about getting a real girlfriend for a change? It's over. Move on
2007-04-16 04:25:19 · answer #3 · answered by Blunt 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you need to start to move on .try going out with other girls , that would be the best why to get over her
2007-04-16 04:28:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to let go you are only prolonging the inevitable.
2007-04-16 05:05:11 · answer #5 · answered by kitkat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋