Have You ever Properly been in love and had your heart broken?

Question

did they cheat?
did you take them back?
How long where you together?
What did it make you feel like?
Did u cry.. if so how long for?
What did it make you feel like doing?



feeling heart broken at mo, just finnished my bf cos he cheated :( cnt seem to get over it...

only want your stories though thanks.

Answer 1

Just once. We mutually ended the 2 yr relationship after we got out of high school and went to colleges on the opposite part of the country. It is one of the hardest decisions I have ever had to make and I sank into a depression. I was so out of it that I would not have noticed if a 747 was about to land on my head. At the end of the day though, I feel that the right decision was made.

Answer 2

Ha, same situation for me. I called and was like F YOU and dumped him and wouldn't take him back if he was the last person on Earth. I only cried once when I found out and in a little in the morning the next day. And I wanted to severely hurt them both and his stupid friends that didn't believe that he did it, but you've gotta consider that since he's an *** the same thing will happen to him and he'll be sorry he was a !@#$head. Soon enough he'll be miserable and want you back but you can't take him back cause even though you might think so he hasnt changed and is likely to do it again.
Try to meet new people and hang out with friends.

People that actually have such d!ck for brains should be punched to a different planet.

Answer 3

Yes I've been heart broken.
Then 5 years after we broke up I met the guy of my dreams. We have been together for 9 years, married for 8. We have 2 great kids together.
If I had stayed with the first one, I would either be in a miserable marriage or divorced. It's hard right now, but you will become stronger for going through it. It will take time, but you will move on and the pain will go away. Just focus on yourself and what you need to do to heal and you will be OK.

Answer 4

Yes, my first love and father of my son cheated on me for 2 years whilst we were together. I did take him back because I was in love with him. When I found out all the details, I remember shaking and feeling sick. How could someone who said he loved me do this to me?! We'd been through so much together! I was devastated and didnt think I could go on. I think I cried for about 6 months. Id never had this feeling before so it was very difficult to deal with. I hated him but yet I wanted him at the same time. That was 1998. Im well and truly over it now, but it was a very painful time, dont listen to people telling you to get over it and move on because YOU WILL in your own time. Your heart will heal to love and trust another. He'll probably say all kinds of things for you to take him back and if you do thats your perogative, no one elses.
Good Luck, You'll be fine in the end!!

Answer 5

I fell in love, totally head over heals, then they left the country for a month to visit their parents, and told me by text that when they came back they wanted to be single. I was gutted for months, I kept crying randomly, then I found someone to take my mind off it, and I realised then that I didn't care anymore. As it turns out that saying 'what goes around comes around' is sometimes true, as they've been chasing me for the last few months, but I would never go there again.

Answer 6

No i havent i have a wonderful man, but it just shows you he thought nothing of you to do that why would you want to be with someone like that your gorgeous so **** him he's the losser! dust yourself off and move on go out and pull a looker and make yourself feel better, never forgive that, i think when cheating is done the love is gone id never hurt anyone like that it the worst sin of all betrayal. Dont worry he will regret it and will be hurting more when he realises what he's lost.

Answer 7

Hello, I am in a similar position. Found out today that the love of my life (well, I used to think he was for the past 3 yrs) betrayed me. He is away at his parents this week and I am waiting for him to come back this Saturday to end it all with him in person. I am heart broken, to be the trust is lost and since loyalty is the most important thing for me in a relationship, I have no doubt walking away is the only right choice for me, no point in kidding myself that I can ever trust him again. Obviously I do not mean as much to him as I thought I do.

I feel for you totally and thought it may be of your interest to read the question that I posted a couple of hours ago. The question itself may not appear relevant at all to your needs, but if you read some of the answers I received, there are some very heart warming advice and comments which have helped me feel a bit stronger. - search for this question: Sad love letter for the love of my life who betrayed me

To answer you specific questions:

Have You ever Properly been in love and had your heart broken? YES, TOTALLY IN LOVE WITH EACH OTHER FOR OVER 3 YRS, WE WERE SOULMATES, BEST OF FRIENDS. MY HEART IS BROKEN NOW, WOUND STILL RAW, VERY PAINFUL.

did they cheat? YES

did you take them back? I WILL NOT, TRUST ISN'T THERE ANYMORE. I HAVE NO PROBLEM FORGIVING HIM, EVERYONE CAN BE IN THE WRONG AT TIMES, HE IS ALLOWED TO CHANGE HIS MIND, NO POINT IN TRYING TO SAVE A RELATIONSHIP WHEN HE CAN DO SOMETHING SO HURTFUL TO YOU. BUT I KNOW I WILL NEVER FORGET THAT HE ONCE CHEATED. I NEED SOMEONE WHO HAS THE INTEGRITY TO RESPECT ME - NOT A LIAR.

How long where you together?
OVER 3 YRS

what did it make you feel like?
I FEEL IT'S A PITY. SAD THAT THE BEST THING THAT EVER HAPPENED TO ME SEEMS TO ALSO BE THE WORST. NO LONGER BELIEVE IN 'US', THOUGHT THE LOVE AND BOND WE HAD WAS A MAGICAL BUT REALISED THAT THE MAGIC WAS ONLY AN ILLUSION AFTER ALL

Did you cry, if so how long for?
AM CRYING STILL...WILL CRY EVERYTIME I FEEL I AM MISSING THE AMAZING FEELINGS THAT I ONCE HAD WITH HIM. TIME WILL HEAL I KNOW BUT WHEN YOU STILL FEEL LIKE CRYING, JUST CRY, IT IS THERAPUTIC AND COMFORTING TO CRY, HELPS GETTING OVER IT. DON'T PRETEND TO BE STRONG AND HOLD BACK FROM CRYING...

What did it make you feel like doing?
WRITE DOWN ALL THE GOOD TIMES WE HAD, ALL THE LOVELY THINGS THAT HE EVER DID OR SAID WHICH MADE ME SMILE. MAKES ME FEEL LIKE CRYING. FEEL LIKE TELLING EVERYONE NOT TO FEEL SORRY FOR ME COS AT LEAST I HAD THE BEST TIME OF MY LIFE, I FELT LOVED, I LOVED, I GAVE, I MADE SOMEONE HAPPY ONCE, I AM BLESSED THAT IT HAPPENED.

I am sure you have learnt something from this heart breaking experience. Don't hate him or yourself, don't bear grudge or take revenge as it won't help or make you feel better. You loved him and be proud to have done so.

My thoughts are with you tonight...wish you well. xx

Answer 8

Have You ever Properly been in love and had your heart broken? ABSOLUTELY!!!

did they cheat? Not that I am aware of.

did you take them back? He broke up with me but I would take him back in a heartbeat!!

How long where you together? 3 months

What did it make you feel like? It sucked ***!

Did u cry.. if so how long for? Yes, it seemed like forever!!

What did it make you feel like doing? Lay in bed & cry.

Answer 9

I was with my ex for 6 years,he was my first love and we had a baby together,last june he left us saying he wasn`t in love with me anymore,i`m not sure if he was cheating then,6 weeks later he asked to come back saying he had done the wrong thing and missed me and realised he still loved me.We both promised we were going to change and really make things work,i did and he didn`t.he went back to his old ways and started staying out for days on end,i felt like i was walking on egg shells around him and i was miserable but still loved him and he kept saying he would change.He left us again just after new year and i cried and was heartbroken and also felt silly for believing him and taking him back.this time i know he was cheating with a girl from his work and he wasn`t even man enough to tell me,i had to find out they were together myself,he also dumped me by voice text.I know its hard but you will get better,just stay away from him for a while and get out with friends and keep busy,don`t sit pining for him.I still feel a little hurt but can now face my ex and not feel like hitting him as deep down i know he isn`t the same person who i fell in love with and that saddens me and i grieved for who we once were and our dreams.I`m now single and happy most of the time as he`s now not my worry,chin up and goodluck.xx

Answer 10

sorrry but yeah ive never had a bf
but i did get my heartbrok3n coz i actually liked the guy a lot and he had to leave. i felt like crying coz yeah well he never knew that i liked him and i was apprently lovesick lol

im sorry about u and ur bf but u know some guyz are just all the same (not all of them though) u deserve sum1 beta gurl
ul seoon get ova it dont worry dont beat yourself up for it
we are all here for u lol
xxxmwah