Family & Relationships - 16 April 2007

She cheated on me and I broke up w/ her three weeks ago, she called and cried so many times, and says she real sorry and wants me back.... she wants to hang out later today, should I have sex with her?

2007-04-16 04:08:38 · 18 answers · asked by Ronny W 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm in love but it's just not going to work out. I'm 23 and he's 40 and although we have spent a wonderful year together I had to face facts: We want different things out of life. I broke everything off on Saturday and it was the hardest thing I ever had to do.

I feel like I'm not going to be strong enough to go through with this because of how I feel about him and especially since he did nothing wrong. I just keep telling myself that this was the right thing to do. It will be easier now than five years from now.

Give me some advice Yahoo! friends, please. How do I get over this? How do I stop myself from calling him? What do I do if he shows up on my doorstep? How long will this hurt?

Did I do the right thing?

2007-04-16 04:07:18 · 13 answers · asked by Red 2 in Singles & Dating

why don't white people concentrate on refining the way they address each other:
1. What up chalk man?
2. What up cool whip?
3. What up Lonesome Dove?
4. What up white cloud/cottonelle?
5. What's kickin ghost master?
6. What up bean juice?
7. Where da gravy at rice?

2007-04-16 04:06:28 · 2 answers · asked by tinabadina 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

...while watching Donnie Darko with my missus (of 8.5 years) [she found the film creepy and wasnt enjoying it], I decided to play gently with her right nipple, trying to gently pull it. Before I could get near it, she snapped at me, wrapped herself up and told me to not even think about it. I was hurt by this cajoling.... what did i do wrong?

2007-04-16 04:04:50 · 16 answers · asked by kdr32000 2 in Marriage & Divorce

can you kiss someone if you just had a tongue ring put on your tongue? if not what or when is the best time? i mean after how many days/weeks can you kiss someone again (french kiss)?

2007-04-16 04:04:42 · 13 answers · asked by superbry 2 in Singles & Dating

okay well i spent the nite with my boifriend cause he was very sick and i kept him company so i left in the mornin and told him i would be back after i change clothes n he said okay so h called me and i went ova to his house and he was mad and tryin to make arguements for kno reason, and i think its either because hes going to a boyz program within two weeks and hes mad or because i heard he was talking to another female and hes guilty and tryna flip da script.so yestaday i jus let him chill on sunday cause he acted so violent towards me afta i was tryna care for him while he was sick, what should i do,, im so confuzed????

2007-04-16 04:03:03 · 9 answers · asked by clarrissa w 1 in Singles & Dating

My mother is having an extensive spinal cord surgery today (her 10th one...) and I would like to put a heart-felt poem in her card for her. I want a poem that is not religious, but will convey strength, courage, and love. Any ideas?

2007-04-16 04:02:15 · 3 answers · asked by meggybucks1 3 in Family

2007-04-16 04:02:07 · 7 answers · asked by smashing b 1 in Weddings

ok..well heres the deal...my family took 3 pictures of me and in one pick there were 2 white, light circles on the wall......the second one they were beside my head and the next one was huge covering half of my body...there was no flash or nothing in the camera.....any ideas???

2007-04-16 04:01:35 · 23 answers · asked by drummerzrhot 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-04-16 04:00:32 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Go ahead! let it out! I'm here to listen.

2007-04-16 03:59:08 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-04-16 03:59:03 · 6 answers · asked by beverly_jones2001 1 in Weddings

there is this girl in my school who i've liked since the beginning of the year but i keep chickening out when i try to ask her and the year is almost over she lives near me so i could problably still see her in the summer is it worth it to ask her out?

2007-04-16 03:56:52 · 18 answers · asked by Problem? 2 in Singles & Dating

I am 26 and men do not even seem interested in me. Everyone that knows me talks about how pretty and great I am and they cannot believe I am not with someone. I am sweet, caring and have a great sense of humor. I know I do not have to have someone to be happy. It would just be nice to have someone sometimes. I belong to a few clubs and am concentrating on a career. I have guys in my life that are friends but it never goes past that. Oddly those same guys always talk about how great I am. Could there be something wrong that I am missing?

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2007-04-16 03:56:51 · 12 answers · asked by Jen_n_TX 3 in Singles & Dating

Teenager problem! Hates School.?
I hate school. I cannot stand my school do I skip it almost every day. Luckily, I am A smart person and I'm in all of the advanced classes and don't have reputation as a rebel. Only the people who really know me know about my strange feelings. My parents don't care - they don't even mention it if I don't go to school. What I end up doing is leeping all day and then staying up all night talking to my girlfriend. I get behind in my work and when I try to go back to school I get a bunch of crap from my teachers and friends. I just get so depressed when I considering dropping out altogether, but I really don't want to do that because I realize it would ruin my life. I don't want to go back at all but I also don't want it to ruin my life. I am so confused and I have really tried to go back and juzt can't take it. What should I do? please help

2007-04-16 03:51:37 · 28 answers · asked by EDisON 1 in Family

My sons Father just took him to his married mistress's home. We have not been together for years due to an online affair he had years ago. This is his second online affair, now in real time also. I know it is inappropriate for him to drag our son there, but is it illegal? My boyfriend thinks I should call childrens services. I do not think this is in their jurisdiction, and I wrong?

2007-04-16 03:46:32 · 14 answers · asked by nutmagnet 1 in Marriage & Divorce

yesterday i was out, spoke to mom on my way home, made a stop & came home. i had 2 calls from mom, 1 from cousin. mom's msg ask, "did you have trouble getting home?" i call back, tell her i had no problem getting home. she said "oh because you didn't call me".

I JUST GOT IN THE HOUSE. i call back & tell her she has to quit worrying bcz it drives me nuts & its gonna drive her nuts. i think she got mad, she goes into she's a mom, she's gonna worry, women are getting raped, stuff she hears on the news, come on now. I dont want to hear that depressing stuff. bad enough i worry on my own bcz i know its crazy out there. but i dont want to have to CALL MOM everytime i come or go. i'm grown. i know she wants to know i'm ok but i'm living my life. i dont want to HAVE to CALL MOM bcz she's worried & i gotta ease her worries. she even calls me sometimes to tell me "make sure you wear a sweater" bcz its cold outside. it just gets on my NERVES.

am i wrong? how would you deal with this?

2007-04-16 03:46:00 · 15 answers · asked by Silence 1 in Family

My soon to be husband seems to think all men are lusting after me if they so much as talk to me.He tries to play it off as me being so attractive that he understands why they do but this is starting to cause some major fights at our house.If i was a model maybe but just an everyday stay at home mom,please advice on how i can talk to him and tell him that his thoughts are wrong and that i only have eyes for him.

2007-04-16 03:39:02 · 11 answers · asked by blubabygirl1000 1 in Singles & Dating

Would you rather have a spouse who was faithful to you but the sex was awful and unfixable. Or would you rather have a spouse who cheats regularly but whose sex was incredible and you got it when you wanted.

2007-04-16 03:35:27 · 27 answers · asked by mrskyesha 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I just got married 7 months ago and my husband left his business to move to where I live. Since then we have dwindled his savings to nothing and he is having a hard time finding a job down here. I have been paying his bills for him the last few months and I just don't make enough to handle his and handle mine. Plus, I'm pregnant and I'm trying to get things ready for the baby. What can I do? I know he left his job to move to be with me. Now he can't find any kind of work here. I want to help him out as much as possible but he has responsibilities too. Helpppppppp

2007-04-16 03:35:09 · 24 answers · asked by frojabi 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Every time he asks me whats wrong I tell him, but its always followed with a reply like "its always something" or "can't you just be happy". I over heard him talking to his friend last night about having him come over and asked if he could have him over another time. I don't feel like having company or being around people. I have been working a lot and I have been trying to fight off this evil cold. You have to understand his friends come over three days a week. And of course this conversation lead into other issues. I told him being around him is boring because he only sleeps and lays around but that when his friends come over hes on cloud nine. He goes from having no energy to acting like hes had ten cups of coffee. Is this really complaining and not being happy? Every few days I mention something, but I thought your supposed to talk to your loved one when your not happy or bothered with something so that you can fix it? I'm really confused. Maybe I am that horrible.

2007-04-16 03:34:56 · 12 answers · asked by BlueT78 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have been dateing this guy for 4 years now. I have a 7 year old daughter, and WE have a two year old son. Things are not good at all. I am 25 and he is 37. Things were good for the first 6 months, but then it turned bad! He is very menataly abusive. He has never hit me, but is always talking down to me. He does the same to my daughter. He say's if I ever leave him he will take my son from me. And he say's if I take our son, then he will "take me to the swamps." And we all know what that means. He is very demanding about the house being clean, and the laundry. Which it is usually done. But when it is not up to his standards, he flips out big time. He is constantly mumbleing stuff under his breath about the house being clean, and everything else. It is starting to drive me NUTS! I have tried to leave him on many occasions, and he just makes me feel like it's all my fault. And I am a VERY co-dependent person. So, I tend to make others happy before myself. Please help!

2007-04-16 03:34:09 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have a best friend. We've been friends for 4 years. Now we're in highschool. She joins clubs and activities in school so I don't see her that often anymore. How can we see each other besides e-mailing and calling her. I can't join the clubs and activities that she joined because I have to babysit.

2007-04-16 03:32:55 · 7 answers · asked by Jade B 1 in Friends

Should go or not to go to my exs wedding? I want to go but his rents hate me. I dont want to start drama on this "day". I was the frist to get a invite and tight with her. I dont know what to do. Help me please!!!!!

2007-04-16 03:31:05 · 16 answers · asked by HANNAH K 2 in Weddings

She has been in prison most my life till I was 15 . Since then she has been notthing but a pain. She is a theif and a drug addict . Anyway last thusrsday she went to jail for trying to steal steaks . She is mad at me because I wouldnt bond her out for $ 500.00 that i didnt have I am 22 and almost 9 months pregnant . I did go pick her car up , It was on empty with a flat tire now she is yelling at me saying I did it . No one touched her car since I got it to my house . I was sick all weekend and shes mad cause I didnt go visit her plus she will be out on wensday . What do I tell her she is always treating me like crap .

2007-04-16 03:28:00 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

i love my boyfriend more then anything but slowly it seems like he is taking over my life i have been spending lots of time with him and have been ditching my bestfriend for him! He gets mad at me if i hagout with anybody else even if it is with his friends! what sould i do?

2007-04-16 03:26:26 · 28 answers · asked by HAPPY! 1 in Singles & Dating

A girl at work has recently got in touch with me via email.We never used to speak and she invited me to lunch.(she's got many other ppl she goes to lunch with!)WHY NOW?We hit off and we're in constant email contact now.

She's got my number(not txt yet though) and said she'll give me her's!I don't want to look too pushy, so I haven't asked!

I asked her out for Saturday, but she said she might have a date--but she said the bloke might change his mind!She met him over the wkn.

When I asked if she asked him out,she wrote back:

"It's the man's job to ask the girl out ;)"

1.Was this a hint for me to ask her out properly?

She said we'd go out for a drink nxt week and I asked if we can be friends-she said only if I don't expect more!

I replied saying I only wanted to be friends-what made her think I wanted more?She wrote back saying 'Nothing,just leave it...'

She now COMPLETELY IGNORES ME+EMAILS!

2.Did I do anything wrong? 3.Her ego bruised? 4.Why she ignoring me

2007-04-16 03:25:22 · 14 answers · asked by sircrazydude90 2 in Friends

you got ur first kiss?

2007-04-16 03:24:48 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I'm 6'1 and always have men telling me I intimidate or scare them.
I'm athletic and very happy with myself, but these men make me feel really awkward:( ??

2007-04-16 03:23:18 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I love this girl so much... she want to leave me for another... but it`s my fault... i haven`t treatead her well 1 year... and now... i love her.. it`s late... but not to late... I keep trying to make up... i don`t want to think that i fight for nothing... I live for her!

2007-04-16 03:22:17 · 25 answers · asked by norman.crypt 2 in Other - Family & Relationships