there is this girl in my school who i've liked since the beginning of the year but i keep chickening out when i try to ask her and the year is almost over she lives near me so i could problably still see her in the summer is it worth it to ask her out?
2007-04-16 03:56:52 · 18 answers · asked by Problem? 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tony, since we'll know eachother forever, I'll tell you something.
Half the girls at our school aren't even good enough for you. You're a great person and you deserve someone great. If this girl you like is truly great, then go for it. Any girl who is that cool should so say yes. You're a freakin awesome person. So if it's really worth it to you, and you really like her, I suggest you take her into some privacy, tell her how you feel, and see her reaction.
Heck, I tried to ask you out earlier in the year, but I really just chickened, like you are. So don't be stupid like me and lose a great person, y'know? Go for it. =D
[Note: If it's Danielle, don't even bother. She rejects everyone because she thinks she's "too good" for anybody except josh]
2007-04-16 11:20:35 · answer #1 · answered by Eloise 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the year is almost up? Perfect conversation starter!! Ask if she has any plans to travel or work. If you drive, you could offer a ride home-or plan to drive one day specifically to offer a ride (your question gives no indication how old you are). Barring the drive thing, you could start a conversation about the latest movies and ones you'd like to posssibly see. When mentioning movies, gauge her reaction to any of them. Once her eyes light up at the mention of any of them, tell her "When it starts playing, maybe we can get together and go see it". I suppose at this point it doesn't matter what movie it is. Once it comes out, tell her, very casually, "hey that movies out, you still want to see it?"
I know it's hard to get up the gumption, I was painfully shy in H.S. But if you ACT as if she's just "one of the guys" your mind-set will be more relaxed. Afterall, shes only human, not made of gold
2007-04-16 11:06:39 · answer #2 · answered by Lesleann 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you like her that much, ask her if she would like to catch a movie when school's out since you live near each other. Nothing ventured, nothing gained. Good luck.
2007-04-16 11:00:56 · answer #3 · answered by Bugsy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you really like this girl. I've been where you've been. And I never got the chance to ask someone out beacuse she moved away and every once in awhile I wonder what could've been if I'd asked her out. So my suggestion to you is this. Ask her out. That way you'll never have to wonder what would've or could've happened.
2007-04-16 11:04:51 · answer #4 · answered by cooldude 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her to hang out with you and by the end of the day ask her out. She's a person just like you.. seriously. And if she rejects you, act cool about it. Seriously, we've all been rejected in our lives, it's nothing to get embarrased about.
2007-04-16 10:59:46 · answer #5 · answered by altinnovation 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
90% of success with dating is being bold enough to talk to strangers.
Practice by going to shops and talking to the cashier. Ask them about their day and their job.
Talk to people when you stand in line. Ask them about their shoes and clothes. Ask them about the weather (if it weren't for weather 75% of all conversation would cease!).
If you can talk to a total stranger you can talk to this girl.
Talk to her about the weather. Talk to her about school. Talk to her about the TV shows that were on last night. And in the middle of talking you will find that you will have the nerve to ask her to go out for dinner/coffee/movie/whatever. It will just slide in there.
So find a way to face her and talk to her about anything. And when you have a conversation rolling, ask her out.
2007-04-16 11:03:49 · answer #6 · answered by MrDave2176 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course it is worth to ask her out, face your fears and do it, if you don`t you´ll regret it later, people isn`t free for always, if she doesn`t know you like her, don`t keep her waitting, he might get someone else, so let her hear your words, good luck!! ;D
2007-04-16 11:07:58 · answer #7 · answered by ♥Madison♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok if u like her thyen go for it. dont chicken out. just be your self and just play it kool and i hope he says yes cause ur a pretty cool person. do it the sooner the better the l8r she'll find some one else.
goodluck
2007-04-16 11:05:00 · answer #8 · answered by amy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what kind of girl is she? as long as shes not a mean person you should tell her face to face that you like her (after getting to know her) and see how she reacts. --if shes not generally a nice person brace yourself for the possibility of a nasty answer or her walking away--you're not going to lose anything by asking her and most girls like the fact that a guy likes them so shes not going to get mad at you or anything for asking. do it after getting to know her a little.
2007-04-16 11:03:16 · answer #9 · answered by CoOkiEsN'cReaM 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Worth it if u TRY quickly!!! Act quick b4 she finds a guy!
2007-04-16 11:00:26 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋