I love this girl so much... she want to leave me for another... but it`s my fault... i haven`t treatead her well 1 year... and now... i love her.. it`s late... but not to late... I keep trying to make up... i don`t want to think that i fight for nothing... I live for her!
2007-04-16 03:22:17 · 25 answers · asked by norman.crypt 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
She took pills some time ago... when i cheated... but i didn`t felt nothing then... but now... i love her more than everything... i can`t accept that she`s with someone else... i can`t forgive myself...
2007-04-16 08:07:24 · update #1
Don't commit suicide. You should have treated her right to begin with. Once you learn that then you can find another girl to fall in love with. But killing yourself over someone is not a solution to problems. Maybe try talking to her and see if there is still a chance for you too. If not then try to find someone else to make your life full.
2007-04-16 03:30:12 · answer #1 · answered by Becky Z 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stop living for her and start living for yourself. You have to get a handle on your emotions. That may be one of the things driving her away.
A very prominent psychologist opins that we have to be a complete person before we enter into a relationship with someone else. We need to be whole and not needy - secure in ourselves before we can truly do well in a relatioship that is going to require maturity, emotional give and take, and sacrifice.
It sounds like you're all about sacrifice, but it's not a sacrifice that is designed to prove anything. It can be a slient sacrifice that no one ever even learns about. That is true love at its finest. You are trying to prove something and you are willing to use (lose) your life to prove it. You have chosen a very permanent way to get her attention. And what happens if you do get her attention, you will not be here to enjoy her new found attention.
My suggestion is to work on you right now - develop a deeper you. You need to tap into spirituality. You also need to seek out a counselor. Suicidal thoughts are no small issue. Get an appointment today. Tell them you've had suicidal thoughts and they will work you in or help you another way. Once you feel better about your "self" then seek this person out and learn if you two might have a relationship. You may learn that you two are not right for each other.
The work that you are doing on your self is the old idea behind "finding ones self." It's time for your trek to do just that.
Good luck and don't kill yourself. I don't think that's really your desire, you're just in some very deep and hurtful pain. I wish you peace.
2007-04-16 03:38:09 · answer #2 · answered by Dino 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope to the suicide. Suicide is for wimps.
U screwed up...like many tonnes of people do. Maybe u can get her back, and maybe u can't.
U might want to wait a bit for things to cool some before tryin to make up again. Tough I know, but it works often.
But if u screwed her over too bad, u might have really lost her. Bummer that, but it's part of the learning curve man.
Next time, you'll know better eh.
2007-04-16 03:26:56 · answer #3 · answered by Travis M 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't commit suicide--it won't fix anything. Try to move on and find someone new, and learn how to treat a girl right so you won't have this problem. You don't live for her, you live for the idea of her. No one is worth taking your life for.
2007-04-16 03:26:59 · answer #4 · answered by Emiline 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you do, how would you know if she forgives you in a year, two years time. All is as it is supposed to be - maybe the timing is just off, maybe you'll meet someone better - you'll never know if you commit suicide!! Be strong!
2007-04-16 03:42:29 · answer #5 · answered by Lolla D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you shouldn't....i have loved someone so much that i felt like committing suicide but i didn't cos i found something else to live for....fight for her but first find something else that you can live for like now i dun live for that guy but i live for my friends and music....committing suicide will not only hurt yourself but also others around you like your family and friends....if she doesn't realize that you love her then i hate to say it but she is not worth it...i been through this and i know....it took me three years to get over him but i did eventually and so will u....
2007-04-16 03:30:37 · answer #6 · answered by crazy_music_friends_life 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should just forget her or just keep trying and hope she for gives you. Living for someone that just don't want to be with you anymore isn't good because you're just living for something impossible.
In my opinion you should just look for a church and ask for help.
2007-04-16 03:28:40 · answer #7 · answered by Baby A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you kidding me???
get over it, time will heal everything. don't be stupid and commit suicide over a person who doesn't love you back. you'll find someone else sooner or later who is worth your time.
2007-04-16 03:26:05 · answer #8 · answered by Mar 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO!!!!!!!!, people come & go in our life, as dark as it may seem now, ya can choose to learn from this relationship, most important one is with you're self, nurture that', get some help to process you're feelings, NEVER GIVE UP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-04-16 03:41:57 · answer #9 · answered by wildfire 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please don't commit suicide for a girl. Do you think she would commit suicide for you? Go seek professional help and hopefully you will see a brighter side to all this
2007-04-16 03:27:27 · answer #10 · answered by The girl next door 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋