She cheated on me and I broke up w/ her three weeks ago, she called and cried so many times, and says she real sorry and wants me back.... she wants to hang out later today, should I have sex with her?
2007-04-16 04:08:38 · 18 answers · asked by Ronny W 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yea go for it if you can get something that easy then go!!!! just make her happy then leave her let her feel the pain you felt
2007-04-16 04:14:48 · answer #1 · answered by tabbycat 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
First of all, people are human and they do make mistakes. Most people that do cheat will cheat again, but you should give her the benefit of the doubt. Don't give her another chance unless you can forgive and forget. This means that if the two of you have a fight later on down the line, you don't throw her past mistakes in her face. That is so wrong to do. Have you two been together for a while? If you have only been dating her for a short period of time, then it would be easier to just walk away. It is harder to walk away from someone the longer that you have been with them. Just have a sit down face to face conversation. Ask her why she cheated. Ask her how she really feels. Ask if you could have done anything to keep her from cheating. Honestly, we don't know why she cheated. We don't know how you treated her or how your relationship had been going. So it really is immature for anyone to just jump in and start calling her a slut or a whore. I am not condoning cheating. But I am not perfect. No one is, so no one really has the right to just start calling someone a slut or a whore when they don't have all the facts. After she is done talking, then tell her how you feel and what you would expect if you gave her another chance. Don't have sex with her. If she loves you and really cares about you, she would have no problem whatsoever getting tested for AIDS and ALL other STD'S!!!! Wait for all the test results to come back. Don't take her word for the results. Make her hand you all of the paperwork with her results BEFORE you even THINK about having sex with her again. Still use condoms even if the results are negative for everything. If your girlfriend exposed herself to anything, it may take up to another 6 months for stuff to show up. (people at my local health department told me that). Have her get retested for everything in another six months for extra precaution. If you can't forgive her and leave the past in the past or you are sure she will cheat again, then just move on with your life WITHOUT her. Good luck in whatever you decide to do.
2007-04-16 11:30:46 · answer #2 · answered by cmg1977 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, Sex isn't going to change anything. The only thing it might change is she may give you some sort of STD. She did cheat on you which means apparently she has no respect for herself, her body, or any sort of understanding of what kind of diseases are floating around this world. You need to either be in a relationship with her or not, and if not then don't sleep with her, and if so, go and get tested for everything, and I mean the both of you and then go from there. But you would have no respect for your body either if you don't go and get tested and be more commited at that point. But consider she may do this again also. Good Luck and be Smart.
2007-04-16 11:14:00 · answer #3 · answered by jennqt341 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Is that what hanging out means???? I think she WANTS WANTS you back, for more than just sex. If you are seeking revenge, . . . yeah have sex with her and never talk to her again, if you honestly care about her and want her back too, make her gain your trust back before sleeping with her again. This could be a valuable fresh new start for both of you. A great way to get the romance back. start casual dating each other again, make her TRY to win you over again. Take your time this time. Make the relationship about more than just sex. It'll strengthen the relationship and make what happened before. . . . not happen again.
2007-04-16 11:14:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are sending the wrong message. The guy she cheated on you with probably dumped her and now she wants to get back? What's going to stop her from cheating again?
She called and cried, who cares? That's her problem, move on Ronny and find someone else to hang with.
She'll do it to you again, dude. She is treating you as a back up plan, you are her safety net. If all else fails then it's back to Ronny. Forget about it. Move on. Good luck and cut your losses. Later Dude
2007-04-16 11:16:41 · answer #5 · answered by Fordman 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't think thats a good idea. If you broke up with her you no longer want to be with her in anyway. Now if your considering taking her back then you can meet up with her to talk. Sometimes sex clouds our minds. Whatever you do make sure you protect yourself in case she didn't when she cheated on you.
2007-04-16 11:14:04 · answer #6 · answered by babygirl28 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No I dont think you should. The girl cheated on you. How do you know she doesnt have anything crawling in her pants now. I think you could do much better. The girl must be a hoe! She cheated on you that should tell you everything about her! NO?
But hey im just giving you my opinion
2007-04-16 11:13:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You'd be a typical ****** guy if you did just use her for sex. You dumped her for a reason, don't use her.
2007-04-16 11:13:39 · answer #8 · answered by funnygrrl19 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes if you want the disease the other guy gave her.
2007-04-16 11:12:44 · answer #9 · answered by Thirty-five 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no harm in it... this will help u to have more intensity between each other and come out of ur old issues..
2007-04-16 11:24:58 · answer #10 · answered by Racingred 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋