Friend's nasty opinion?

Question

To make a long story short, I have a friend whom I've been friends with for eleven years now, and my boyfriend and I always have to deal with his ex girlfriend because they have have eight year old daughter together, she's upset about how his and mine's relationship is going (he's in the process of getting custodial rights from her for their daughter) because the mom is a psycho (Fatal Attraction) my friend is mad because we basically aren't in the ex's face "we're together deal with it" and risk losing his daughter if the mother bolts out of state. He and I have a wonderful relationship and since my friend is not in our shoes she truly can't understand why we're doing things and what we're going through. We've tried to explain it and she still disagrees. My friend knows this woman has come after me before and the law threatned her. Is it time to keep her at arm's length?

Answer 1

Think about it, friends have a right to an opinion, it does not mean your to follow there advise. You are an adult and are able to make decisions on your own, be grateful that your friend thinks enough of you to give an opinion to your problem. When we are friends it does not mean you must agree on everything. That really would not be healthy. If it is to disturbing that your friend disagrees with you than do not confide in her on matters you know will cause conflict. Good luck keep an open mind and remember she is only trying to protect someone who has been close for many years.

Answer 2

YES IT IS.YOUR "FRIEND" IS NOT IN YOURE SHOES.YOU SAID THAT THE EX IS A NUT,&THATS NOTHING 2 PLAY WITH.SHE DISAGREES WITH THE WAY YOU N YOUR BF HANDLES IT IS BECAUSE SHE ISN'T MATURE ENUFF OR JUST DON'T CARE.KEEP DOING WHAT YOUR DOING IT'S THE RITE WAY 2 GO ABOUT IT.GD LUCK

Answer 3

Ignore you she friend and go ahead with your male friend and keep enjoying the life what your concess say is right
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