OK on Friday my friend cancelled meeting me because she was held up, but I had to text her to find out where she was before she rang to tell me she couldn't make it, I had wasted 2 hrs waiting around for. Then Sat. she text and said she was free and could pick me up straight away, I said my parents were out so she could stay at mine for a while. She replied with "I'll let you know". What is there to let me know, she was coming to pick me up anyway. 1hr later I'd still heard nothing I text her. She rang back saying she replied but to the wrong number, she was just coming out of TKMax and had to go home to a BBQ then she cut me off mid sentance. So she basically chose shopping over me.
Now she's invited me to sleep over hers next Sat. should I politely reject the invite or ignore what she did (I'm still annoyed, We've been friends 6 yrs and she's only been to my house for 30mins never comes even when my parents are away).
2007-04-16 02:24:42 · 12 answers · asked by truth_and_time_tells_all 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I would say that i'm not sure what is happing next weekend and ask her if you can give her an answer later in the week. Then see how you feel later in the week if you are still annoyed than politely reject it by say you have other plans but if you are over then accept.
2007-04-16 02:42:48 · answer #1 · answered by big k 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Accepting is extra solid because of the fact we've been conditioned to make each physique else satisfied yet ourselves. we are too hectic approximately what others think of and we are afraid that we would be seen as an unreasonable or unsightly guy or woman. Being truthful and authentic to your self is a undertaking. If basically we are in a position to easily communicate our minds (tactfully, of direction) and have not have been given any qualms approximately issues like "what is going to he/she think of if I turn down this request?".
2016-11-24 22:14:56 · answer #2 · answered by sawvell 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on what kind of person you are. If you dont mind confrontation then tell her how you feel. Show how upset/angry it makes you when she acts that way. If you dont like confrontation, then when you do finally meet up, talk about another friend (its her you're just not letting on) who has done this to you and see what she says. If she is still blaze about it then I suggest you distance yourself from her. Find some other friends
2007-04-16 03:48:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't mean to say "Start some drama" but you should tell her how she makes you feel when she treats you that way. The time to do it was before or when she invited you to sleep over. You can still do it though. She needs to know you aren't to be treated that way. Be nice.
2007-04-16 03:20:11 · answer #4 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my opinion, I would politely decline the invite and given any reason. If she doesn't have enough respect for you and treats you like this, then her invite is something you don't have to show up to. She doesn't even deserve a "proper" reason. You may even consider doing this for awhile, if she doesn't get the hint, you may have to explain it to her. Good luck!
2007-04-16 02:49:00 · answer #5 · answered by suzlaa1971 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well i'm not sure really
its ur chose but she is ur mate in the end.
(soz to be rude) but its her life in the end init
so if i was i'll accept BUT if she does it again 2/3 times i'll reject but its up to u i no what u mean by things cos it happ to me and she had a bf she blew me off jsut to see her bf and then her bf kissed me so she hates me on what he did she has stopped talkin to me and she's MADE him not talk to me well anyway i hope this ok for u. if not sorry i did try.
2007-04-16 03:38:25 · answer #6 · answered by amy_baby123 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a one sided friendship to me. What works for her no matter how you are affected.
I would not call that person a friend...maybe an acquaintance I do things with occasionally...but definitely not a friend.
be cool...
2007-04-16 02:40:45 · answer #7 · answered by CC Babydoll 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she's using you when she's nothing else to do.
I'd say reject, and give her a taste of her own medicine.
2007-04-16 02:48:14 · answer #8 · answered by J. Boy 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Real friends always forgive.
2007-04-16 03:37:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU SHOULD TELL HER HOW YOU FEEL B4 U REJECT OR ACCEPT THE INVITE.STAND UP 4UR SELF.
2007-04-16 02:51:53 · answer #10 · answered by heavenlylovin 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋