Family & Relationships - 16 April 2007

He insinuated for me to ask him to prom, so i asked him. Now, I'm not sure if he's suppose to pay or if im supposed to pay for his share i.e. ticket/ limo/ dinner...

2007-04-16 12:26:02 · 9 answers · asked by altern_self 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband is at work for long hours and I find myself lonely quite a bit. What can I do to make the time apart more bareable? Help! Maybe somebody has been in this situation before and has some good ideas?

2007-04-16 12:25:16 · 18 answers · asked by Catspajamas 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-04-16 12:21:19 · 17 answers · asked by womanlover 1 in Singles & Dating

when it comes to having sex ? and then he cant perform?...whats going on...now he doensnt want to have anything to do with me....btw..I'm married too...any of you men have had a similar experience?

2007-04-16 12:20:17 · 34 answers · asked by luv2fuk 1 in Marriage & Divorce

a guy and a girl have had sex in the past, but they are able to hang out the entire night without doing anything sexually. the last visit they spent together in fact, they talked for 2 hours straight, and didnt do anything the entire night.
is he only in it for sex?

2007-04-16 12:16:41 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I know the one about not seeing each other after midnight, but what else? And what are thing your suppost to do at a wedding like having a doller dances what else is there?
I dont know

2007-04-16 12:14:18 · 6 answers · asked by Sekkennight 3 in Weddings

2007-04-16 12:12:27 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

me and my husband have a 3 week old baby. Last week withing 4 days he consumed 48 beers. He spends all his time on the computer and when i ask him to get off so I can do the bills he has a tantrum and calls me horrible names. Sunday night I had enough and left and went back to my parents house with my son. Now I miss him though and I want to go back, I do love him, just not when he has been drinking, which is unfortunately all the time. Should i go back?

2007-04-16 12:11:54 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Well, I've never been to a high school dance throughout my whole life, neither has my boyfriend. And unfortunately, my boyfriend doesn't attend school at my highschool. He has home studies instead, we both really wanted to go to prom, however, I noticed how much I hated my school. I hate the people there, and all my friends were senior that graduated last year. I know I should go, and everyone is telling me to go. But it will be boring if it was just me and my boyfriend attending. And my best friend most likely won't be able to go. So I don't know. There is a surprise celebrity that will be perofrming at our prom also. I am really thrilled that my school won the PimpMyProm on Power106. I feel so isolated from everyone in school, and I don't feel like I should pay so much and put so much effort into something I probably won't even have fun at. So please give me some tips and advices? Prom is coming up next 3 weeks, and I still haven't got anything planned out.

2007-04-16 12:10:45 · 12 answers · asked by kayers 1 in Friends

Help Me!!!!!!

2007-04-16 12:10:40 · 7 answers · asked by stlcards_015 1 in Singles & Dating

This guy that I used to like for like ever thinks I'm pretty. I only start dressing better and doing my hair in different hairstlyes and got my hair highlighted so it's not much of a change for me, but for most people it is. Anyways, I used to like him a lot. And now I don't. Maybe like 5% out of 100%. And now he thinks I'm pretty. Ugh guys irritate me cas when you like them half the time they don't like you and when you don't like them they like you. UGH! Well he has a girlfriend but we always text and flirt and now we work together on a project. I don't know what to do. So someone please give me advice.

2007-04-16 12:06:45 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-04-16 12:03:39 · 48 answers · asked by samson 1 in Singles & Dating

When he comes back he acts like everything is fine, but then out of the blue or when his kids come over, he suddenly hates our life and wants to leave and takes his kids and does separate things...we've only been married 18months and I am drowning in sorrow over this.

2007-04-16 12:01:36 · 20 answers · asked by msmissy81 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i do want 2 be races but she is a black chick and i kno how they react i dont lik messin w/ dat...watz a good way 2 kno a person well

2007-04-16 11:59:46 · 4 answers · asked by kike070 2 in Singles & Dating

Last night I screamed so hard that it made me light headed for a few seconds, and my arms began to tingle...

I tried talking things out, but I just couldn't get through to my girlfriend... I got upset about something I shouldn't have gotten angry about. I apologized for misinterpreting what she said to me, but I tried explaining how I felt at the situation. All I want from her is to tell me that what I thought was absurd, and that she doesn't feel that way at all... For me, its not enough to hear that I misunderstood what she meant. I need her to back it up by saying that she feels the opposite of what I thought she was feeling. But when she tells me I'm wrong, she leaves it at that. It's like "you misunderstood again, get over yourself"... As opposed to "you misunderstood, I don't feel that way at all, I think you're (opposite of what I thought she meant)"

2007-04-16 11:59:39 · 4 answers · asked by ? 3 in Singles & Dating

I don't know anything about drugs nor do I associate with anyone who does drugs. There's this smell I've been smelling...it kinda smells like something has been burning or something, or I don't know. It's a very strong smell, it smells really nasty, and it even feels like I have a burning sensation in my chest because of it. Is this marijuana what I'm smelling? I really need to know what marijuana smells like, if anybody knows. I didn't know what category to put this in, so I just chose anything.

2007-04-16 11:50:48 · 25 answers · asked by sunshine 1 in Friends

Been divorced and have 3 kids...45 years old...White?
I don't think so..what do you think?
I have never been that into all of the big wedding stuff anyways!

2007-04-16 11:41:10 · 23 answers · asked by buggie 3 in Weddings

I am interested in learning what a woman wants and needs so only women need respond........

I am attempting to plan the greatest time ever, so I am interested in all advice...

2007-04-16 11:40:39 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok, here's the deal. I have bi-polar disorder, and the girl that I love knew that before we got together. I never realized how the manic phases attacked me until taking a step back here recently. In the time we were together, I broke up with her twice. Each time , was during a manic state. But, regrettably, I did not realize this when I needed to.

I have told her how I feel, and have started taking the steps (through chinese medicine) to remedy this problem. She is considering letting us have one more chance. I know that I don't deserve it, but we were engaged and I don't want to spend the rest of my life with anyone else.

Girls, if you were in thins position, and have admitted that you still love the person trying to get back with you, what steps would he need to take to prove his love to you. To prove that he will never break your heart again, and truely wants you back.

Is there any way to get the love of my life back?

(Please only REAL responses)

2007-04-16 11:38:38 · 9 answers · asked by shattered_likeness 1 in Marriage & Divorce

From the day i met her i was determined to have her. i had nothing then so she did not want me. she was my strength and motivation and i strived hard to provide for her everything within my power. my success got me what i wanted most...her. i married her immediately cos i did not want her out of my sight. i showed her love and gave her everything she ever wanted. she got pregnant. the happiest news i had ever heard and then, 9 month later she gives birth to a child of mixed race. when we are both full blooded africans. how would you feel? what would you do?

2007-04-16 11:38:37 · 25 answers · asked by kwabral y 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-04-16 11:37:18 · 14 answers · asked by Dark Spirit 2 in Singles & Dating

Sorry bout da spelling

2007-04-16 11:36:37 · 14 answers · asked by Alexis Q 1 in Friends

i know so many people must have asked this question ut i new to this site so hang with me- im 14 ( durh) and iv got a 17 year old boyfriend, we have been together for a year and half, and i love him to death. we have decussed sex alot, and im glad for it, i just seem to think im ready, and he doesnt, i know he is being kind to me and looking after me. but he makes me feel like i am just a kid, which i suppose i am, but my question is, should i keep persisting, or just take what he says and wait untill im 16. sory if this is an annoying question.

2007-04-16 11:34:41 · 51 answers · asked by charli w 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

ok i think its time to end my marriage for several reasons all leading back to one thing he is an alcoholic... anyway heres the deal we both make nothing.. he makes 12 per hr i make 10 per hr so we are barely making it now so heres the thing we bought some land a few yrs ago when we had some money its paid for... we live in a house not on that land that we still owe on neither one of us can afford to keep the house alone and we have tried to sell it and no one has been interested in over a yr now. i would love to have the property and a trayler to live in and he can have the house i dont care but he cant afford it either so how will this work? will we have to file bank rupsy and will we have to sell the property too? that is the only way i can make it on my own with my son is if i can live in the trailer on the property unles we move into an apartment thats subsidised and i cant do that to my son we would have to give up his dogs too someone please tell me what my options are...

2007-04-16 11:34:03 · 6 answers · asked by momoftwobestkids 3 in Marriage & Divorce

This may sound like a question coming from a high schooler but I assure you its not. I am a 22 year old woman and I just can't figure this man out. I have an acquantice who I will call T. I have only met him a few times. Everytime we hang out we flirt constantly. We have gotten drunk together a few times and wound up messing around-never had sex-just little things. The thing is I am seeing one of his friends-its not super serious between us. The first time we ever messed around he never called me then I didnt see him for a few months. I just saw him over the weekend and he said he just didn't know what to do and how to handle the situation-that is why he never contacted me. We had a really good talk and things were going good. We wound up going out to a club and getting drunk, my boyfriend was with us. Anyway, T told me that when I was ready to say the word and we would be together. But now he won't answer my calls. Whats going on with this guy?

2007-04-16 11:31:53 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Do I just say something nice about the bride and groom? How long should it be? (like less than a minute?) I feel really fake doing this and I hardly know my brother's fiance. Should I just say the positive qualities of both people? I don't want to sound cliche.

2007-04-16 11:30:40 · 6 answers · asked by SpaceMonkey 2 in Weddings

What in your opinion constitutes an emotional affair? And are they just as destructive as a physical one?

2007-04-16 11:28:46 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

in the 6 yrs we have been datting i received flowers once,1 card and gifts only on x-mas/b-day.Its not about the money, i feel like unless im right in front of him he never thinks about me.if he was like this to everyone i would not care as much but i know he was very "giving" to past gfs so whats wrong with me?plus he is allways doing thought full things for his family but "forgets" me

2007-04-16 11:26:36 · 13 answers · asked by jennyvincent4563789 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have been married for a couple of months but fear I may have made a mistake and I am not sure I want to be married anymore any suggestions? I don't think my husband is my soulmate and I am not sure if I even know what one is all I do know is that i don't want to be married anymore. What should I do?

2007-04-16 11:23:23 · 28 answers · asked by MiZZ707 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-04-16 11:22:27 · 23 answers · asked by amo c 1 in Marriage & Divorce