Family & Relationships - 16 April 2007

My best friend since second grade just called to tell me that she and two other of my friends are going on a trip for one week. I am upset because A..I wasn't invited, B...I have asked her to go on a trip with me and she has given me the run-around. What would you do?

2007-04-16 11:21:45 · 27 answers · asked by Alicia P 2 in Friends

My husband told me many times, that I am a compromise.That everyone is a compromise. To be honest, I think that he is blind and does not know half about me. I think that no one would ever be able to live to his "high expectations". No woman can always be happy, smily, airy-fairy, always says "yes, darling". I believe that either you love with all your heart or not. Perhaps, it's idealistic. DO you think that the person you love is a compromise?

2007-04-16 11:21:10 · 8 answers · asked by Alyssa Macey 3 in Marriage & Divorce

He is 13 years older than me and was my boss.

2007-04-16 11:20:55 · 2 answers · asked by Qfa2007 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

thinking i would "test" my partner's fidelity.... i got a friend to see if he could "seduce" him. unfortunately, my partner took the bait. i know what i did is questionable.... but even if it was a setup... my partner still had the "intent" to cheat didn't he? am i trying to excuse away his potential infidelity because of my lack of trust?

2007-04-16 11:20:33 · 24 answers · asked by Harvard W 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-04-16 11:19:19 · 7 answers · asked by ourjacobdavid 4 in Singles & Dating

I have told this guy that i lied him , and his friend has told him, but he just hasent givin us a straight answer if he likes me or not. why can i do? i mean hes not very talkitive and not very open, but how can i make him tell me? its killing me!

2007-04-16 11:15:44 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Being intimit with the person you love is a great feeling. I have nothing against that but few of us are not interested in sleeping around.

But today I feel most men and women only want sex and nothing else.finding a nice decent guy to date and wants a long term relationship is just next to imposible.
If you are very attractive they assume u can't be single. If u are attractive but not interested in going out with every other guy these guys atomaticlly judge the girl by calling her arragont and a Bitcch...
Just because some of us are selctive it is regarded as a problem...
For those of you who are still single and looking for decent long term relatioship .. How do u over come all this?

2007-04-16 11:14:28 · 16 answers · asked by julia1975 4 in Singles & Dating

So, there this REALLY slutty girl at my school. She's ugly but, the guys like her because of her big chest parts. She flirts with all the guys and she's really mean behind their backs. She's also mean to me because of some unknown reason. Also, I have this guy friend that I think likes her. It's kinda gross because she's always flirting with him, showing off her chest area with tight clothes and she's like a year and a half older. It really disturbs me and I don't know what to do. Especially because she's a really big *****! And she always flirts with him like right in front of me and it's gross. I don't want to tell my guy friend straight forward because it'll be weird and he probably won't believe me. So what can I do? I just want her to stop but, i can't tell her or she'll get mad. Right now I want to kick her *** and I can but, she's a ***** and she'll probably tell my guy friend. Then that'll be a big mess. HELP!

2007-04-16 11:12:56 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Everytime this conversation comes up, my boyfriend and I argue abt whether it's disrespectful for him to go to strip clubs or not. I don't want him to, but he says that I cannot tell him what to do. I just think there's a lot that comes with going to strip clubs because a lot of those girls are unsavory type females and they will rub up on your man if they like what they see.
He doesn't care if I go to strip clubs, but I have no desire to. I'm happy w/ what I have at home. He is to, but he just likes the entertainment. I just watch a porno! why can't he be the same!? in person in different that on television, and I'm not comfortable w/ him going to places like that.

2007-04-16 11:12:40 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

me and mii boyfriend have been dating for almost 6 months
and i want to do sumthing special for him for our six moths.... coz he is always spoiling me and for our 3 months he took me on a private boat to a private island to have dinner!!!!

does any1 have any ideas that i can do???

2007-04-16 11:10:06 · 6 answers · asked by Renee 3 in Singles & Dating

I've been with my husband now for ( well, we will be married 9 yrs in Dec) anyway, he's cheated on me once, I forgave and tried to go on that was in 98, I will be compleatly honest because you do not know me nor do I know you, I need answers. I have given so much in this relationship, especially funds, and I have given every kind of thing a man like in wants, but when it comes to sex, its when he wants it, I supported him through college and he finished but has not presued it ( makes me mad) My boys dad died last year so they have no dad.
He talks about other women like its nothing ( i put up with it) I have an income and live in an area rent is cheap, state is cheap, I've been thinking about leaving and don't know how to actualyl go about it, I want to do it when he is at work, he does not abuse me (By hitting) but mentally I am wore out, he is always saying "I'm sorry" but its getting so old I can't take it.
He even does little lies which add up and its driving me crazy what to do?

2007-04-16 11:07:10 · 9 answers · asked by Gina 4 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-04-16 11:07:04 · 6 answers · asked by kathymartin678900 1 in Weddings

2007-04-16 11:06:33 · 14 answers · asked by kathymartin678900 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-04-16 11:03:22 · 5 answers · asked by Chiquita 1 in Marriage & Divorce

you'd think seven years since a last meaningful romance would be enough to prepare me for love. i'm not the most eloquent, articulate guy under duress. my secret mojo needs a major lift. i'll be 33 next month. time is slowly defeating my hope in finding a low-maintenance woman. anyhow, humour me. tell me sweetness how much your love costs.

2007-04-16 11:03:00 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My bf (who is talking marrage) says he doesn't want to wear wedding rings for religious reasons. This bothers me. Any suggestions on how to work this out?

2007-04-16 11:02:06 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-04-16 10:58:49 · 7 answers · asked by garie_doust 1 in Friends

I dont know what to do! my fiance's brother is a big cheater and is now taking my man out to clubs where girls are interacting with them, he says he will never cheat but i dont trust the girls and i really dont trust his brother. im scared the dog in his brother will rub off on my fiance. i get all upset and start fighting with him when he says hes going out. what should i do? and how can i let him go out without stressin out and callin him 50xs a night?

2007-04-16 10:53:07 · 10 answers · asked by BLUE2269 1 in Singles & Dating

Well here's the thing, I've posted before about my wife leaving and going back to her home state, and how she and her mother think I should have to pay to send all of her things to her. Here's my question, am I allowed to like rent a storage thing for a month, send her the key and tell her she's got until the end of the month to get her things? Her and her mother in law say it's my problem and that I should pay to send her things when it was her decision to leave our marriage. And to be honest, I don't want her up in the house because she's becoming crazy like her mom.

2007-04-16 10:52:49 · 21 answers · asked by Jon 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-04-16 10:51:07 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-04-16 10:50:42 · 13 answers · asked by nick p 1 in Weddings

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2007-04-16 10:49:22 · 15 answers · asked by Jules 4 in Singles & Dating

Thier is this girl that looks really good in my school and her locker is right next to mine so I'm sure she has seen before, so what should I say so that she ain't like why is he just saying this now just to become her friend or at least get her attention so in the future maybe I can ask her out ? And don't give me no crappy answers

2007-04-16 10:48:10 · 2 answers · asked by *DJ Rozco187* 1 in Singles & Dating

What do you make of this?My daughter,16,has for the last few months been telling me she hears someone walking across the landing late at night & stopping outside my door.She said she hears nothing after that.On some occasions she has heard them actually walk up the stairs,across the landing & stand there.I asked her how she knows they are outside MY DOOR & NOT HERS-as my room is next to hers-she said she has seen the shadow & can see where they are stood.I am an extremely light sleeper-anything can wake me-yet i`ve heard nothing.Many times this has happened.At first i thought she might be asleep or imagining it-all the usual stuff-but now my son,15,has told me he has heard it too. His room is sort of in the middle of the landing,& he said a few times he`s heard someone walk upstairs,walk across the landing,& then stop near my door somewhere.He hears nothing after that.He said he doesn`t tell me when it happens-next day whatever-coz he doesn`t want to scare me.I don`t feel scared-but...

2007-04-16 10:47:25 · 39 answers · asked by yahoobloo 6 in Family

He's been ignoring me for almost 2 months now, which is dumb i know (your thinking get over it dummy), but i need some sort of closure. I'm wondering what i should say in my email...........any suggestions?

2007-04-16 10:39:52 · 18 answers · asked by Lula 4 in Singles & Dating

My husband and I are going through a custody battle. He was very abusive.. though mostly verbally and controlling... and has decided to file for custody. He is not supporting she or I and I wasn't allowed to have a job so I have -very- little money. If anyone is or knows of a lawyer who would allow me to get on a payment plan or is reduced cost I would greatly appreciate it.

2007-04-16 10:39:46 · 4 answers · asked by Phae2007 1 in Marriage & Divorce

okay..well i really like this guy and he told me that he "doesnt want a serious relationship but can see himself going crazy over me". now we talked for hours a day for a week..then we stopped. after 2 weeks of him saying that were finally hanging out tomorrow for the first time... what do you think he wants???

2007-04-16 10:39:15 · 9 answers · asked by lostxsummerlove 2 in Singles & Dating

bored...doing hw

2007-04-16 10:37:11 · 2 answers · asked by ♥LIZZIE♥ 1 in Friends

He had a perfact chance to make the move. Is it my falt that we didnt if we didnt or his???

2007-04-16 10:36:04 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ma best m8 has this new boyfriend and i av seen him with this other girl nd i av tryed telling her but she just say that iam makeing it up jus because i want him nd ew no way i need help befor he realy upsets her and i do somethin id regret if u get wat i meen ppl plz help me be4 its 2 l8t

2007-04-16 10:35:33 · 11 answers · asked by pinky 1 in Friends