Is it ok to let my BF go to a strip club?

Question

Everytime this conversation comes up, my boyfriend and I argue abt whether it's disrespectful for him to go to strip clubs or not. I don't want him to, but he says that I cannot tell him what to do. I just think there's a lot that comes with going to strip clubs because a lot of those girls are unsavory type females and they will rub up on your man if they like what they see.
He doesn't care if I go to strip clubs, but I have no desire to. I'm happy w/ what I have at home. He is to, but he just likes the entertainment. I just watch a porno! why can't he be the same!? in person in different that on television, and I'm not comfortable w/ him going to places like that.

Answer 1

I'd have to say that it's not going to the club that is disrespectful - as I personally don't have a problem with my husband going if he wanted to (although he doesn't) - but it's the fact that he doesn't care about your feelings on the matter. "Can't tell him what to do", eh? How the hell old is he anyway? 12?? "I'm going out, Mom, and there's nothing you can do to stop me!" *slamming the door on the way out*.

Don't worry about the club. Ask him why he doesn't care about your opinion or feelings?

Answer 2

Theres a big reason why lady.... because its immature. There is a point in a males life were he finally falls into TRUE MATURE LOVE, when this happens he begans to see that all those ladies he is staring at or mothers, daughters, wives, girlfriends, WOMEN... and he begans to finally see why there all special! And when checking out the lady's at strip clubs he realizes this is just sick! These lady's have sold themselves short for what? Money? Attention? And then realizes because he does actual love his lady, ACTUAL loves his women that wow she is some much more special because she loves me for so much more, she wants and needs, and deserves so much more. When this happens, when he actual becomes a man of pricipal and reason, actual a man. He well still look, but he well not search it out, because he knows that, that thing not just between your legs, but between your ears, makes you so much more beautiful, so much more powerful, and so much more of a woman. He'll see you have so much more to give him that he'll what to spend his time with you, talking, making love, relating, and experienceing. If he isn't at that point, congratulations you've got a boy! Enjoy! Just so you know to money, age, experience, and attitude don't make a man, reason and purpose, accpetance and understanding is what makes a man... is that really very understanding of him? Whats the reason, just so he can stare at something better then you? Whats his purpose, maybe to find a better lady? And is really accepting how important you are? Don't let society, give your male a cope out....