I have told this guy that i lied him , and his friend has told him, but he just hasent givin us a straight answer if he likes me or not. why can i do? i mean hes not very talkitive and not very open, but how can i make him tell me? its killing me!
2007-04-16 11:15:44 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You cannot make someone talk if they don't want to. He may be shy or overwhelmed by some female telling him that she likes him and he doesn't know what to do with it.
If he talks to you, then you should just consider yourself as friends. Especially, if he won't give you the answer you want or say no because he doesn't want to hurt your feelings. Nothing better than getting to know someone as your friend first anyway. If things turn out to be something better later, it would be a nice surprise. Don't push him as you may lose your chances of even being friends. Let things come naturally and be patient.
2007-04-16 11:21:31 · answer #1 · answered by Stephanie F 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes no answer is the answer. If someone is interested you don't have to beg them to get them to say so because their feelings would make them come forward. He may feel awkward if he can't tell you what you want to hear. He knows how you feel so you need to back off and take him out of the pressure cooker. Because we like someone doesn't mean they are obligated to return our loving feelings. He probably does like you as a person but not in the way that is romantic. Sorry you are hurting but you need to save your pride and move quickly on.
2007-04-16 18:23:39 · answer #2 · answered by wonder woman 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Straight up talk to him I mean if you are young You will look at this same situation that you are having now and laugh or regret...but you should ask him say sumthin like this ''Ok i like u alot (give reasons why) then say i have been waiting for a answer and I never got one I just wanted to know and if you don't I understand"....wish u good luck gurl
2007-04-16 18:20:06 · answer #3 · answered by En. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first off let him have some space to think... it was good that you put yourself out there, but give him time to himself. And he probably won't give you a straight answer because he's not sure of how to react. And when he's had enough time he'll tell you, until then act cool, calm, and collective. Just be yourself and be happy with who you are!! until he gives you an answer!
2007-04-16 18:20:39 · answer #4 · answered by sexibabe852 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well,This Guy Might Have Strong feelings for you but cant say it yet.You can Give him time,maybe try to get some alone time with him and discuss,and try not to have his friends bother him((men hate that when people bother them about it)).
Be yourself.Ask him when it feels right.
And Goodluckk!
2007-04-16 18:19:44 · answer #5 · answered by HannahBanana=] 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some people or guys are slow and stupid just give him some time and let him know what u mean and be nice to him give him some feeling and time will take its place but if u have some one Else in mind then go for it love takes time ok
hopes this works for u laterz
2007-04-16 18:25:08 · answer #6 · answered by lee x 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He wont tell you because he probably is shy, and he might want to see what you do...or he is just playing with you. I know how frustrated you feel because I feel the same way sometimes. Maybe like pretend you dint notice him and like stand close to him when your talking with your friend or something and he might start talking to you when you are done. try it out!! You never know!!!
2007-04-16 18:21:02 · answer #7 · answered by livin life. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, first off, you shouldn't have told him that you like him. us girls have got to play the game the right way. you're supposed to play hard to get because if you tell him you like him, it kills the game for them. now ask yourself WHY you like him... what's special about him that other guys can't give you... are you simply attracted to his looks or possibly even the idea of liking someone?
you COULD corner him and twist his arm to tell you how he feels but pushing for it will make you seem like a crazy psycho stalker. so i advise not to do that. haha.
the best way to go about it, i think, is to brush it off and act like it's not a big deal... if he likes you enough, he'll tell you... if he doesn't tell you anything, he may not be worth your time... especially if he already knows that you like him.
my best advice: have fun... or at least look like you are... don't make it obvious to him that you like him... people want what they can't have... :)
2007-04-16 18:24:02 · answer #8 · answered by mica rae 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may not want to hurt you if he does not like you in that way. He could also be very shy but probably the first.
2007-04-16 18:18:54 · answer #9 · answered by Style Girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry he's probably trying to take it in. I'm a guy and when my girlfried told me that i kind was like, "Wow, this is kind of fast..." But if you really like him just wait he'll tell you something....
2007-04-16 18:18:59 · answer #10 · answered by VNV 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋