He's been ignoring me for almost 2 months now, which is dumb i know (your thinking get over it dummy), but i need some sort of closure. I'm wondering what i should say in my email...........any suggestions?
2007-04-16 10:39:52 · 18 answers · asked by Lula 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You know what sucks is the game we all play with ex lovers. If you e-mail him he'll think "ego talking" ahh yes she's still not over me.
So 2 months is 2 months! Your doing good. a couple more and i wonder if you'll still want to e-mail him. It's a way of holding on.
Is it really closure? Or is it you trying to reconnect, even if it is negative it's still communication.
Give yourself another couple of weeks to think about it, what you write today won't differ much from 2 weeks from now.
Give yourself time to adjust, depending on the relationship and how intense it was, you may need atleast half the time you were together. If he was everything to you, you may need a lot of time,
regardless, give yourself time.
2007-04-16 10:46:26 · answer #1 · answered by New Web Designer 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The problem here is that you are about to send the e-mail to get a response because playing nice hasn't gotten his attention.A nasty e-mail will make it more clear to him that he shouldn't be with you . Which means that you won't get the reaction you are looking for. If you want to get things off your chest , write the nasty letter , but DON'T SEND IT!
He has been ignoring you for 60 days! Start thinking about ways to get over the whole thing :
Go out with friends
Clean your place
Get a hobby or sport
Go to the gym and look gorgeous , so if he see you around he can feel sorry all on his own.
Good luck
2007-04-16 10:46:54 · answer #2 · answered by Georgie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The fact that you still call him your bf despite him ignoring you for 2 months is very telling. Obviously you feel as if you are still connected to him while he has seemingly moved on with his life. I would really try to get over him...and wouldn't send him an e mail. Maybe in a few months you could meet up and discuss rationally why your relationship ended.
2007-04-16 10:53:01 · answer #3 · answered by ♥Instantkarma♥♫ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Come on now, you are definitely much too sophisticated for this, aren't you !
Sending a nasty e-mail is childish . Let him get lost and remember just in case you accidentally happen to meet : don't move a muscle in your face and act like you don't know him .
Erase the memory . There are much better fellows out there than that one.
2007-04-16 10:50:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's ridiculous to have been treated like that.
Have you tried contacting him?
If you really want to say something, don't say anything you'll end up regretting. The email IS in writing.
If you want to say something... for closure... tell him in person, if you can. Tell him about the way you were treated. No one deserves to be treated that way. And that you really didn't appreciate it. That he just made the biggest mistake of his life.
2007-04-16 10:45:29 · answer #5 · answered by ( Kelly ) 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you must send him email don't let it be nasty. You never ever want to give a guy a reason to bad mouth you, always keep your class and grace. But really if it's been two months, I would leave it alone. You'll make yourself look desperate
2007-04-16 10:50:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi
you should be an adult about this really but if you insist on emailing him tell him thank you for settin you free tell him how good your life is without him and if its not make it up he wont know will he .dont get nasty in it just let him know you are enjoying life without him .thats sure to get him thinkin about you then you can ignore him because more than likely he will contact you if he thinks your over him works for me every time .good luck.
2007-04-16 10:50:06 · answer #7 · answered by lorraine j 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say yes send that kind of mail it would put some sense into him and say some nice sweet words that might bring him backto u but don't be too nasty cause your an adult not soem crazy confused teen.
2007-04-16 10:48:05 · answer #8 · answered by Shawn 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow ..... two months. Hope you're still not sitting by the phone waiting for his call.
I can just imagine him at his computer reading your email and either forwarding it to his mates or copying it and handing it out for all to see.
So I wouldn't send him one because no matter what you write on it ...... he won't delete it.
Be very careful what you do.
2007-04-16 10:59:27 · answer #9 · answered by Chris 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont do it via email, unless its your only option. its a good rule to never put anything "nasty" in writing. plus, if he ignores your email, then what? will you know if he got it? will it be closure if you dont?
2007-04-16 10:44:06 · answer #10 · answered by Lil_Orphan_Annie_Kreisst 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋