ma best m8 has this new boyfriend and i av seen him with this other girl nd i av tryed telling her but she just say that iam makeing it up jus because i want him nd ew no way i need help befor he realy upsets her and i do somethin id regret if u get wat i meen ppl plz help me be4 its 2 l8t
2007-04-16 10:35:33 · 11 answers · asked by pinky 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I think it would be best if you left them to it, and maybe concentrate your spare time on improving your appalling grammar/spelling.
2007-04-16 10:40:22 · answer #1 · answered by Metalfinga 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Been there, and my friend said the same thing to me. Unfortunately, this is another case of kill the messenger. She'd rather find fault with you then face her boyfriends cheating ways. Even though you want to protect your friend and it's hard for you to watch, she's going to have to learn this on her own because she is not trying to hear you right now. But, when the sh*t does hit the fan, just be the good friend that you are and be there for her.
2007-04-16 10:47:54 · answer #2 · answered by J Dubble 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you've tried and she won't listen then you've done your best. It will come out in time that he's been out with someone else if he keeps on doing it. It's best to do nothing as your friend won't appreciate your help until she is well away from this guy who isn't right for her. Remember the guy isn't worth falling out over.
2007-04-20 01:53:27 · answer #3 · answered by angie11 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is hard, this has happ to me but i lost a mate cos of her bf.
but i did it the wrong way. cos me and her bf had history she thought i told her cos i want him back but she's wrong. so i'm not sure how i delt with it but i hope u deal with it soon sorry i didn't help if i was u just talk to him and ask him why is he doing it??? the is he don't answer u then kill him lol, joke i hope it turns out the way u want u it.
2007-04-16 21:36:28 · answer #4 · answered by amy_baby123 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is this type of guy she will find out for herself, just be there for her when it goes pearshaped, most people won't listen to others even if it is their close friends & he isn't worth falling out over.
2007-04-16 10:44:37 · answer #5 · answered by shortstuff 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DON'T INTERFERE!!!! She will not thank you for it, and you will be the bad guy in it all, in time she will find out for herself,and then she'll need you to be there for her, and remember a true friend won't turn around and say "I TOLD YOU SO" just bide your time!
2007-04-16 12:49:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
unfortunately as she doesnt seem to want to listen there is nothing you can do but be there for her when it all goes pear shaped.
i tried many years ago to help a friend with her boyfriend problems, i ended up losing this friend! so steer clear just be there for your friend!
2007-04-17 01:53:22 · answer #7 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she has 2 make her own mistakes, its hard but let her get on with it, when she wakes up and realises try not to be hard on her dont say i told you so just be a good friend. we all make mistakes
2007-04-16 10:41:31 · answer #8 · answered by mudfish 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is no friend if she doesnt believe you. Leave her to get hurt its her own fault for not listening to you.x
2007-04-20 09:28:36 · answer #9 · answered by Missno-one 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't help her. She has to learn from her own mistakes.
2007-04-16 11:23:08 · answer #10 · answered by meko76 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋