a guy and a girl have had sex in the past, but they are able to hang out the entire night without doing anything sexually. the last visit they spent together in fact, they talked for 2 hours straight, and didnt do anything the entire night.
is he only in it for sex?
2007-04-16 12:16:41 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hmmm may be
2007-04-16 12:20:48 · answer #1 · answered by abdulhameed2003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, first off. All guys want sex. Its a given with everybody. Now, I would recommend reading the book Dateable. This really helps out for this type of stuff, and is probably where most of my information is coming from. You could also visit www.rudateable.com, the site for the book. Ok, so ive covered the all guys want sex..so hmm. Girls give sex to get love, so was this girl looking for love? and guys give love to get sex, its a cycle. as a girl, we look for an emotional attachment, but guys dont care about that really until their older and like find the one that was put out there for them, like marriage material. so guys would like give the emotional part of the relationship so that the girl would like give him what he wants, which is rather obvious. so when they talked for two hours straight, what do you think he wants in return?
Now, after the guy gets the sex, usually he would break up with the girl because she would be, "just another girl" to him. nothing special. thats why i would advise strongly to practice abstinence so that it would hurt much less in the end, because when you give everything and you break up, theres very little left, and when you do find the one that was placed out there for you, theres little to give.
I hope this helped. :D :D
2007-04-16 19:25:25 · answer #2 · answered by tasca50 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I think he is not in there only for the sex. If he is capable of being with her the ENTIRE night without doing nothing, maybe he sees her also as a friend.
There is also the possibility that he ONLY sees her as a friend and thinks that they having sex was a mistake o something that happened but shouldn't have, and doesn't want to talk about it for fear of loosing her friendship.
She should talk with him about it.
2007-04-16 19:52:37 · answer #3 · answered by Incansable 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
from your little story it doesnt sound like it..they spent an entire night and then another night two hours..and didnt have sex..where did you get that he may only be in it for the sex? and if you are this insecure maybe you shouldnt be having sex..until you are mature enough to handle it
2007-04-16 19:21:38 · answer #4 · answered by bailie28 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a guy and I feel that I cannot spend time with someone I am attracted to without at least agreeing to sex if asked. I would say he is in it for the sex if he trys anything.
2007-04-16 19:20:53 · answer #5 · answered by jameslwright2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did he try or suggest anything sexual with you during the time you spent and talked together? If not, he could have developed an interest in you other than sexual.
2007-04-16 19:21:05 · answer #6 · answered by kickstatus101 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old is he? If he likes to talk to you then he's probably in it for both. Sex and love are 2 completely different things.
2007-04-16 19:22:23 · answer #7 · answered by DeborahDel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is a high chance that he is wanting the whole package, not just sex. I guess if you guys click in the bedroom then bonus and great for you
2007-04-16 19:21:17 · answer #8 · answered by O2Phone 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope. If he was only in it for the sex then if you didn't do anything the whole night he wouldn't hang out with you again...
2007-04-16 19:20:58 · answer #9 · answered by Wes 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I highly doubt it, but I don't have the 100% story. I need personalities that I could only get from meeting them. So, hope this much helps!
2007-04-16 19:19:29 · answer #10 · answered by Crappy Haircut Girl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he were in it for the sex (only) then he wouldn't waste his time and energy talking and listening to you.
2007-04-16 19:20:16 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋