Family & Relationships - 14 April 2007

She was in the mood for the first time since our son has been born and we started to have sex and the baby woke up soon as i was goin in and then 2 year old woke up i work nights 4 days a week and that was one of the days I worked so we couldn't finish that night, so i didn't try nothin for the rest of the week since i had to work and i didn't want the same thing happening again, by the time I got off work for the week now all of a sudden she don't want to kiss me want me to touch her or nothin, and now shes mad cause i tried to have sex wit her tonight, ladies what is that? I don't understand, and I'm not an addict or nothin but we have done nothin since before my son was born 4 months ago

2007-04-14 16:57:45 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Ive been married 5 months. I gave my husband my password. But I dont have his nor did he offer. Yet, one day I didnt exit out of my account and he read everything. I didnt care. But I wonder if couples exchange passwords to build trust and protect the union. Do you??

2007-04-14 16:56:01 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-04-14 16:53:09 · 5 answers · asked by joseph 1 in Singles & Dating

Ive been single for some time now! I enjoy it. Kinda like sex in the city, but the guy version. Most girls couldnt handle me long term anyway. Im very honest and I tell them upfront that Im single and plan on being single and just wanna be friends and not looking for anything serious. BUT IT NEVER Fails me.

I meet a nice girl, we hang out, we become friends and then she becomes possessive or try's to rush me into a relationship.

I tell girls all the time to be JUST Friends with me, but they always act jealous, weird or downright rude that Im not interested in a relationship. Ive had a few casual relationships where the girls were cool as sex friends at first, but even they got a little possesive?!

I think girls see that Im funny, charming, handsome, successful.. dress nice, and generally really nice to everyone I meet and IMAGINE a secret relationship in their brain.

So my question is to the all the females: CAN YOU & ME BE JUST FRIENDS!!! With or without the sex?!

2007-04-14 16:51:48 · 13 answers · asked by hj 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-04-14 16:49:10 · 22 answers · asked by dolphinluv93 1 in Singles & Dating

I certainly do not want another "am I big" question on this website, but I have always been curious about something. I am about 7" x 5" in girth. While I acknowledge that this is in the "normal" range, I have always wondered about the term "pencil d*ck". With a length slightly longer than normal, and a girth slightly less so, is this good, or a "pencil d*ck"? Thanks!

2007-04-14 16:45:31 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My wife and I have not made love for over 3 years. She has had medical problems of a personal nature which have caused her lack of feeling. Her libido is non existent; she is just 'not interested' in sex. I, on the other hand am going mad with frustration. I understand and respect her decision but am finding abstinence increasinly difficult. We still love each other and remain the closest of friends and I have not [yet] been unfaithful. I do, however, find myself drawn to internet sex sites and occasionally mastutbate. This is unsatisfactory and I am becoming more and more isolated; being with her is frustrating, being without her is unthinkable. We are both 55 years old and the prospect of never making love again is daunting to say the least.
Should I try to find a discreet partner? What other advice do you have?

2007-04-14 16:44:29 · 50 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-04-14 16:42:19 · 13 answers · asked by footcrampmassage 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-04-14 16:41:38 · 17 answers · asked by britney b 2 in Marriage & Divorce

We have been dating for 7 years! and he is sooooo special to me! but the thought of marrige has always scared me! I just don't like to feel like I can't go out or do stuff, I would NEVER cheat or anything like that but IDK...

2007-04-14 16:41:09 · 29 answers · asked by everprep 1 in Weddings

should i ask my exs brother out to get my ex jealouse???

my ex brandon i have dated him 4 times now he broke up with me wen my bestfriend got all up on him and madeout with him and he said he was a good kisser before i kissed him should i go with his brother so his brother can go back to brandon and say lauren (me) is the best kisser ever

2007-04-14 16:40:57 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

he told me that she had left him in the states and won't be returning to live EVER. he feels stuck and very confused because we wants to move on but he doesn't know where they stand. she has his phone in her name so she still monitors his calls and whereabouts. she stays on the island w/ his mother and grandmother. do you think there is something he is not tellin me? do you think there is a possible future for the 2 of us?

2007-04-14 16:39:46 · 11 answers · asked by giastiles 2 in Singles & Dating

It will be a Summer wedding (indoors)

2007-04-14 16:39:17 · 32 answers · asked by Vivian 1 in Weddings

Me and my husband just got married 6 ths ago and on monday he just left to his parents house cause he told me that he needed a break. He calls me on the phone saying that he loves me and that he wants to be with me but i get the bills and i notice a number that appeard in his cell phone that i did not now so i called it and it was a girl that he been talking to before we got married right now i don't know what to do am really confuse i really love him and he says he loves me to i talk to him and he tells me that he does want to be with me and he is saving money so we can get our own place but i don't know cause that girl calls him even tho i told her and she sayd that she did not know him . what do i do

2007-04-14 16:34:21 · 11 answers · asked by JANET 1 in Weddings

Theres this boy. and we are not currently dating, we both flirt A LOT, and i just want him to 1. stay interested and 2. know how to get him to just make the right moves.

2007-04-14 16:33:18 · 7 answers · asked by beforshecame 1 in Singles & Dating

it was on purpose but it was self defense. he has a 18 year old sister. she & i were friends now we barely look at each other. and when we do get eye contact she gives me a dirty look or just stares. im not used to that (not saying im a saint & no1 has ever "hated" me). i want to say sorry but our moms dont get along well. my mom says dont say sorry. if i do how should i ? and should i say sorry 1st or should he? WHAT CAN I DO!!!!???

2007-04-14 16:33:17 · 42 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I have been with my boyfriend for 5.5years. we have been on again off again engaged for about 4.5 of those years...right now - we are "off again" in the wedding department. we have lived together for nearly all of the 5.5years (probably like 5years and 2months....). we seperated briefly in the summer for a period of 2months - coincidentally this was also while i was away on buisness in another state....but got back together - coincidentally when i moved back to the city to take another job (there for i never really moved out).

i am on his health insurace - i pay my share of all the bills and stuff - we love each other.... but - i am terrified of the actual "marriage" deal.

we are relatively young - i am 25, he is 31. i love him...and he loves me...but i cant seem to bring myself to take it to the next level...hes a nice guy - im a nice girl... but it sort of seems like there might be a possibility we might not be "nice enough" for each other?

What to do????

2007-04-14 16:31:44 · 24 answers · asked by massage_junkett 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-04-14 16:30:57 · 12 answers · asked by Bella 2 in Singles & Dating

So me and my ex dated for 3 years we broke up and it sucked but we got over it and moved on. Neither or us have gf/bf though. Well just recently we've started talkin and bein friends, which I love its so much fun and we know each other really good. We BOTH know that we won't ever be anything more than friends but when we hang out we always end up makin out and stuff... is that normal or not good? I don't know I kinda just want some advice on the whole subject! thanks =]

2007-04-14 16:29:38 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

do you think that a mormon and a hindu would work out in terms of marriage?

2007-04-14 16:28:02 · 19 answers · asked by the ghoul 2 in Marriage & Divorce

well it all started when his frirnds started getting in to our relationship proublem then she started putting stuff in his head about what she thought was best for him. that made things difficult between us and his friend gott deeper into his skin. that girl stil continue to push up on him knowing that we are together plus on our way towards having a kid. what can i do to get to leave my man alone for good. he wants to mary me , but she is in the way of everything.

2007-04-14 16:24:36 · 9 answers · asked by georgeanne m 1 in Singles & Dating

Ive been confused whether I've liked this guy, A, or not. I previously dated him before [[like a few weeks ago]] and I still call him, etc. I would see him on the net o myspace and I'd get this funny feeling in my stomach. Hehe. The thing is Im going to bake him a cake and bring it to him tomorrow to his house. He is finally coming home after being out of town for about 4 days. While he has been gone, Ive had dreams where we were going out and he broke up with me and another where he was thinking about other girls.WELL, right now, I started to get this funny feelings for a guy I dont even like.and dont even talk to when he commented me. Now Im starting to have doubts AGAIN, that I dont like A, you know what I mean? Sometimes it feels like I dont like A, but the things I do.... its weird!! How would I know if I like him or not?? [[I mean friend way or more]].

2007-04-14 16:22:53 · 5 answers · asked by moop 1 in Singles & Dating

Say going shopping or hanging out in a lounge

2007-04-14 16:22:17 · 65 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

she says "sex" is a power thing to her, and she doesn't look at it as enjoyment (she hasn't had sex without a semi buzz or been stimulated by extra treats).... I guess - since, we're now married and have two children..... and she has all the power.

do I have any hope? or am I doomed?

how do I get my power back?

2007-04-14 16:22:08 · 42 answers · asked by toddhagen88 1 in Marriage & Divorce

we have 5 kids but we set tuesday night as "date night" but he would rather play video games. he works 3rd shift so i sleep alone, but on his day off he would rather play games till 2am and i'm out by then.. any other day it's a chore to get him up, he's too sick or he says he just can't keep his eyes open.. i would like to hang out and watch tv or something. and i am always going to bed alone. i feel like my kids are the only ones who want to be w/me, but it's not the same.... how do i get his attention or do you think that after 5 babies he just doesn't like me no more, or does he have another woman????? help please, i need to talk to an adult that doesn't love doodlebops!!!!!!

2007-04-14 16:19:14 · 9 answers · asked by amber l+5KIDS 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband's sister, mom, and brother's are mad at him because he can't go to his sister's wedding because he is going back to Saudi Arabia again and they can't seem to understand that he has to do his job. How can I get them to understand that?

2007-04-14 16:16:43 · 21 answers · asked by JG78 3 in Family

I have been married almost 8yrs and ever so happy. I was just wondering if other's out there believe it is awesome to have found someone to love and live with for life if possible. I ask this just to cheer some of us who keep trying to help others that seem to be going through crap and well we can just say heres something that we can be positive on.

2007-04-14 16:16:36 · 13 answers · asked by Livinrawguy 7 in Marriage & Divorce

P.S. She isn't super sociable, and the two people are new friends. Time setting is late at night.

2007-04-14 16:16:19 · 25 answers · asked by Wolfpack 3 in Singles & Dating

what can you do when the child doesnt want to see the other parent?

2007-04-14 16:13:03 · 8 answers · asked by tori 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I just won a bet with a friend of mine (female), and as a result she has to do absolutely ANYTHING I ask, whether it's something she can do once or if it's something that lasts up to a month. She's usually pretty mean to me and makes fun of me a lot. What's something I can do to her to get back at her and totally humiliate her as long as I can?

2007-04-14 16:10:43 · 11 answers · asked by Kat 2 in Friends