well it all started when his frirnds started getting in to our relationship proublem then she started putting stuff in his head about what she thought was best for him. that made things difficult between us and his friend gott deeper into his skin. that girl stil continue to push up on him knowing that we are together plus on our way towards having a kid. what can i do to get to leave my man alone for good. he wants to mary me , but she is in the way of everything.
2007-04-14 16:24:36 · 9 answers · asked by georgeanne m 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This is what you can do : Knock her out.
2007-04-14 16:29:08 · answer #1 · answered by KungFu Ninja 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he really wants to marry you, she can't do a thing about it.
Just keep being you, let him sort it out. If she can put ideas in his fickle head and turn him from you, then it's best you find out now.
You pregnant? get married now. If not, file that paternity suit and start collecting the child support as soon as possible. Waiting until later because you don't want him to get upset, becasue you're still trying to win him over, because he's still listening to other women, because.....it only gets worse.
She is not in the way of every thing!!!!!! He is letting her get in the way. If not her, it would be someone else.
2007-04-14 23:32:21 · answer #2 · answered by mt_hopper 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How is this woman in the way so badly? Is she actually trying to seduce your man, or is she trying to poison your relationship?
I'm not sure if there's much you can do about it. Tell your boyfriend that she bothers you and ask him to stop talking to her about your relationship. Don't push too hard and demand he never speak with her, she's a co-worker and he may not have much choice.
One other thing to consider, are you sure this woman really is causing this trouble, or are you jealous of the time she gets to spend with your boyfriend at work? It's not uncommon to get annoyed when someone spends nearly as much time with your mate as you do. I'm just asking you to be honest with yourself about it before you make a decision.
2007-04-14 23:31:31 · answer #3 · answered by rohak1212 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A woman can only be in the way if your boyfriend allows her to be. She isn't the problem unless he equates her into the problem. Stop blaming her and look to your man. If all of the things you said were true then she shouldn't be a factor!
2007-04-14 23:29:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the truth is that she isnt in the way of everything. if she can get in the way, there is a bigger problem. i say back off, don't care what his friends say. if he really loves you, he will not care either. but if he doesn't, better to lose him now. also, the more you put pressure on him, the more it's gonna make him do the opposite. trust me, from someone who knows and has done it.
2007-04-14 23:29:36 · answer #5 · answered by smileygirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie, it's not you who should be doing anything. It's your man who needs to tell her to back off, that he's with you, that he's having a baby with you, that he wants to marry you. If he's that impressionable that what his friends say and some little whore are going to affect how he feels and what he wants, he's not worth it in the long run.
2007-04-14 23:29:17 · answer #6 · answered by melissa_53105 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the best thing you could do is get your boyfriend to say something to her .Get him to tell this women that he is not interested in her and to stay out of your relationship.If he cares about you that much it should not be a problem for him to do this .If that fails you will have to sort her out yourself.
2007-04-14 23:36:42 · answer #7 · answered by queenie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well thell ur bf that he needs to tell that beotch to leave him alone or take matters into ur own hands and smack that dirty tramp upside the head and tell her that ur gonna make sure she's not getting inbetween u and ur man, she'll get the picture after she gets knocked on her @$$
2007-04-14 23:33:52 · answer #8 · answered by zhilgy_4_13 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not her. Its your man. Your man will always have temptations whether now or the future. You need to worry about him first then outsiders trying to destroy your relationship
2007-04-14 23:28:27 · answer #9 · answered by THE REAL DEAL 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋