he told me that she had left him in the states and won't be returning to live EVER. he feels stuck and very confused because we wants to move on but he doesn't know where they stand. she has his phone in her name so she still monitors his calls and whereabouts. she stays on the island w/ his mother and grandmother. do you think there is something he is not tellin me? do you think there is a possible future for the 2 of us?
2007-04-14 16:39:46 · 11 answers · asked by giastiles 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If she is close to the grandmother and mother of your man, then get out now!
With my exprience, if some woman has already tied herself up with the "mother" she has staked her claim.
I would hate to be cynical, but something smells rotten.
Confront him and if he persists not to tell you any information, investigate yourself, or break up with him. It is not worth the trouble and games.
2007-04-14 16:55:10 · answer #1 · answered by hopeisathingwithfeathers 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe that there is something missing because if she lives with his mother and grandmother then it could be his wife. Another thing is that if a man will cheat with one woman he could possibly do the same with you also. I believe if he really cares about you then he will take of business on the island and ultimately choose to be with you. But if he doesn't decide sooner or later, I believe he is just stringing you alone! Hope everything works out for you!
2007-04-14 16:46:14 · answer #2 · answered by Kandice G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi giastiles, i would offer this advice to you, try no to get involved whilst their is another person in the way as it will only create conflict. if the guy really wants you he will make an effort to come to you when the time is appropriate, otherwise you could find yourself in a very dangerous situation.
anyway good luck with whatever happens.
2007-04-14 16:46:24 · answer #3 · answered by Christopher G 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Either he's lying, or he's completely whipped by this woman. Not good prospects in those circumstances.
Oh, third option: He's got some secret that he doesn't want this woman to tell his mom and grandmother, so he lets her jerk him around.
2007-04-14 16:47:21 · answer #4 · answered by rohak1212 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hmm... you can take your risks, but either way, you'll eventually not be with this person say 1 to 2 years from now. Good luck.
2007-04-14 16:43:31 · answer #5 · answered by lost.in.love 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He has to be hiding something. Why would she be living with his mother and grand mother if they were broken up? I would stay away from this guy! Whatever you do, don't hook up with him until you know the full truth.
2007-04-14 16:43:48 · answer #6 · answered by gozdotcom 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah there's something he's not telling you. You deserve sooo much better. There's a guy out there who wants you and only you. Ditch this loser... fast!
2007-04-14 16:43:50 · answer #7 · answered by asdf970 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she's living WITH his family? and you are still pondering this? no, honey, there is no future for you two. drop him before you get hurt.
2007-04-14 16:43:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
no, you need to leave it along, what every is reason are he is
still with this women,
2007-04-14 16:43:54 · answer #9 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes /no
2007-04-14 16:42:45 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋