Family & Relationships - 14 April 2007

ok my boyfriend cheated on me like 3 times and he gave me this sad story and i took him back i dont think i can ever get rid of him what would you do?

2007-04-14 16:09:43 · 17 answers · asked by ?Taylor? 2 in Singles & Dating

I know arranged marriages are the rule in this religion, my thing is why are Sikh men dating American women if they cant marry them?A Sikh guy that I met about 8 months ago at a store he works in across the street from my apartment wants to date me very bad!He is extremely attractive & his family has a lot of money.He lets me drive his car & gives me money and told me I can have whatever I want.His uncle noticed that he has become quite fond of me& told him that if he didnt stop talking with me so much that he would call his parents in India!This guy is 24 years old!He said he doesnt care about what his uncle thinks. I like him a lot too because he is a total sweetheart & he spoils me rotten. I am also Black & I know a lot of people are prejudice against Black Americans.I know in the long run he will probably have to go by what his family wants unless he is willing to put up a fight, but I dont know if I want to go through all the rejection. By me being Black, I'm tired of that...

2007-04-14 16:06:55 · 1 answers · asked by Wisdom 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Is he right to call me a "Bimbo?"

2007-04-14 16:06:31 · 12 answers · asked by daryl_not_daryl 1 in Singles & Dating

I can't stop thinking about this guy, and it's the typical feeling of liking someone A LOT. But the thing is; he's my teacher. It's so wrong, and I hate thinking about him like that, but I can't help it. I've tried not talking about him or to him; but that just makes me think about NOT talking to him which makes me worse. He's the person I usually go to for advice but, I can't really do that this time now can I? I don't want to hear the usual things I do about how it's illegal and how liking teachers is just a little crush or phase, but it's been 6 months almost. I'm tired of it. I neeeeeeeed to get over him! It doesn't help when I'm pretty much his favorite student and we talk a lot too. Does anyone know how I can get over him or at least a little bit? By the way, I told my best friend. And her advice didn't work.

2007-04-14 16:05:30 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We want to get married but not have it legal - pretend. Due to social securitiy reasons (reduction in benefits if we are marreid) we want to go through all the ceremony with marriage certificate and everything and although not legal-we want to say vows to each other to commit. I will also be changing my name to his last name.

2007-04-14 16:05:24 · 6 answers · asked by deborah s 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Deep down in my heart i really love and trust my fiance, but im always very jealous toward her and i always imagine the craziest stuff. how can i stop this?

2007-04-14 16:04:08 · 15 answers · asked by casey lee 1 in Singles & Dating

living with a 17-year old, i have two wonderful kid's of his and he refuses to support one of them, he is practically under this girls total control and rather raise her and support her then his own kid's. he is dying of Aid's and this girl does'n tgive a crap about it whether she gets infcted or not, he's 36 and says she hasnt gotten pregnant yet, but they'r trying and its none of mb. I give a rats hoot what they do, to prove im not jelous. my prob is he refuses to be a responsibl father and she liks to get in bewtwn decisions. I know he can end up in jail for living with somene underage for knowing his past history with viol& the law hes not to be with anyone underage. He is also not to be driving without a license, since he's been caught several times without including stealing vehicles, stickers and plates around bc and changing vim'ss and has a long history of fines, he is not allowed a legal license. Should i report him? I dont want trouble, but want to prevent her fr medlin

2007-04-14 16:04:02 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

35 years ago I belived that all you need in life is love. Now I am divorced, old, no money and I am not so sure that all I need in life is love. They say that with age comes wisdom I think that I reach that point that I have the right age but I am not so sure were to look for the wisdom ? Imagine this .....

2007-04-14 16:00:55 · 9 answers · asked by JAY 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I dont really want rice thrown at me on my big day. Any other alternatives?

2007-04-14 16:00:22 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Friend's newly wed husband who is overseas is cheating on her. He is into nude webcam chatting etc. He doesnot admit he is married so that he can have fun. She removed her wedding ring. Is it ok to do so? When does one remove the ring? with no ring, is she deceiving men that she is not married?
A guy at her place of worship gives her stares. (they have not talked yet) Is she at fault at misleading him?
Please advise on both questions.

2007-04-14 15:59:13 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

boy friend to be charged with sex abuse. by statements from daughter who at the age of nine was cofused and repeated verbateim what her father had programed to say., out ocome was that the plan backfired and the husband was charged with sex abuse, served 70 months, but he has tons of offences that are listed and he does not fit a profile of a sex affender, and has no charges like this listed NCIC and does not do anything i would say that would be sexuly devent.

2007-04-14 15:51:13 · 10 answers · asked by feather 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have read and actually answered some of his pathetic remarks more then questions, and it just sounds to me like he wants sympathy for getting dumped or he is hiding in the closet?

2007-04-14 15:50:20 · 10 answers · asked by Livinrawguy 7 in Marriage & Divorce

My wife recently went to visit family and while there decided she wanted to seperate. She left all of her belongings here, and my mother in law thinks I should have to pay to send my wife her things. I don't feel I should have to because she made the decision to walk away from this marriage and now should suffer what comes along with that. Mother in law tried threatening me with court. What should I say/do?

2007-04-14 15:45:59 · 20 answers · asked by Jon 2 in Marriage & Divorce

What do you do when a friend (who lives in a different country) says that he wishes you will be together? I talk to him on the computer, and we are friends, but I don't know what to say to that. And the sad thing is that I don't know that we will ever see each other again anyway.

Please help :)

2007-04-14 15:44:55 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I feel left out in alot of things that my friends can do but i cant

2007-04-14 15:41:53 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

We are married for 3 years, dated for 3 years before getting married. no children. I feel that somehow i'm no longer in love with him, but i do love him. Do any of you also feel this in your marriage at some point in time? how do you deal with it?

2007-04-14 15:34:05 · 25 answers · asked by isabella 2 in Marriage & Divorce

were was my wife november 24-2004

2007-04-14 15:33:13 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I BROWSE AL DAYYYYYY I BROWSE ALL NIGHTTTTT

2007-04-14 15:29:13 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

my boyfriend has lots of female friends and for job we cant live in same place so we meet in 2-3 months.with his female friends he used to roam a lot,goes for dinner cinema etc,he has lots of sms friends(female) too.if i asked he used to say they r just friends,i also believe that but i cannot bear that his female friends are getting the pleasure that i cant get.if i say it to him directly he may think that i am very narrow minded.but i dont understand that why he needs to roam and goes for hangouts so frequently with his just friends(female),when he has a girlfriend?i know we cant meet everyday still a guy should minimum liable to his lover that when he gets his love he will cut down his other activity with female friends,not fully but a certain amount,isnt it?what u think?am i right ?and if not what should i do?

2007-04-14 15:24:18 · 16 answers · asked by aparna d 1 in Singles & Dating

ok well, im not suppos to have a myspace, but i set it on private, and also changed it so only people who know my last anem or emial adress can add me... Also I do only have people i know on it (people i know, that i go to school with or use too.. no 1 from online.)

If i were to tell here, she would go off on me as soon as i did, and im tired of hiding the window every times my brother sister, adn mom comes by, becuse its very supsoiouse them.

Please don give a suggestion like dont do it... cuse i relly dont want to delet my account or etc.

2007-04-14 15:23:02 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

how important is looks? would you still go out with him if hes not that good looking?

2007-04-14 15:21:34 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Okay, I was watching "Sense and Sensibility" this evening and there is a scene with a wedding and after said wedding the children were screaming "throw the coins" and the groom did..I have never seen this before...does anyone know what it mean?

2007-04-14 15:20:39 · 15 answers · asked by trina1378 2 in Weddings

so this guy i had been going on a couple dates (like 5ish) left on a 3-week trip to Europe and gets back on monday. i am really like dreading it, because i don't know on what terms we left. on our last date we had the day before he left he sort of seemed like he was blowing me off at the END.. the rest was great.. but at the end he was like i'm not going to walk you to your door.. i'm too tired.. but he was leaving for THREE weeks and he didn't even want to leave me with a hug or anything. he was staying up all night that night so he wouldn't get jet lag also, so then he said he would text me also that night and he Never did. so i don't know what that means. so then since i didn't know that, i met this other new guy while he was gone and i have been on three dates with him already.. i am starting to like him. but i also still like the guy in Europe.. but do you think he will not think too highly of me for doing that.. even though we were not official... i am really confused and scared.

2007-04-14 15:16:53 · 8 answers · asked by sweetaction 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-04-14 15:14:59 · 43 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

866 numbers just means toll free right? ...so does that mean it could be ANYWHERE and they are just calling toll free. i got a call from someone on my cell phone Twice that was an 866 number and am dying to know who it is. mostly because there is this guy in Europe on a trip that i had been going on a couple dates with before and so could they use that number in Europe even too? i don't want to call the number back because then i would sound stupid..

2007-04-14 15:12:25 · 4 answers · asked by sweetaction 2 in Singles & Dating

In most cases when I talk with people I can't seem to elicit eye contact. I don't think theres anything wrong with the way I look and conversations vary.

2007-04-14 15:11:18 · 8 answers · asked by ltlbox 1 in Singles & Dating

me and my husband live with my brother his wife and two kids. me and my husband constently fight . my sister in law says things to my husband that i didnt even say and he believes her more than me.Then when my husband comes home from work she tells him that i didnt do anything in the house but watch tv. I work everyday but one day a week. i would come home and clean the house. she works but she dont work that many hours a week.i do so much for them and they dont appreciate it. i just feel that me and my husband need a place of our own. i tried to explain that to him but he wouldnt listen. we fight every weekend when my husband is off work and half of the fights my sister in law starts. i finally got fed up and left my husband. now he wants to work things out but he does not want to move out of my sister in laws house. i want to work things out with him but i dont want to be back in the same hole that i was in. i dont know what to do. i just need some advice. could you give me some?

2007-04-14 15:07:06 · 16 answers · asked by sugar3 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2 As....2 Bs....and 2 Ds. What do you do in your home to encourage your children to bring up there grades? One of the Ds is for Incomplete work.

2007-04-14 14:59:56 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-04-14 14:43:08 · 12 answers · asked by mds1126 1 in Marriage & Divorce

She tested negative for the virus but their wedding is only days away. All the preparations have been made & invitations sent, etc. Her family has been looking forward to this for some time & everybody's very excited. He's told her that if she really loves him she'll stand by him & go through with the marriage. Am i wrong to tell her not to go through with it?

2007-04-14 14:41:15 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings