so this guy i had been going on a couple dates (like 5ish) left on a 3-week trip to Europe and gets back on monday. i am really like dreading it, because i don't know on what terms we left. on our last date we had the day before he left he sort of seemed like he was blowing me off at the END.. the rest was great.. but at the end he was like i'm not going to walk you to your door.. i'm too tired.. but he was leaving for THREE weeks and he didn't even want to leave me with a hug or anything. he was staying up all night that night so he wouldn't get jet lag also, so then he said he would text me also that night and he Never did. so i don't know what that means. so then since i didn't know that, i met this other new guy while he was gone and i have been on three dates with him already.. i am starting to like him. but i also still like the guy in Europe.. but do you think he will not think too highly of me for doing that.. even though we were not official... i am really confused and scared.
2007-04-14 15:16:53 · 8 answers · asked by sweetaction 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
When you are dating and not committed then you don't owe anyone an explanation and you haven't done anyone wrong. Good Luck !
2007-04-14 15:21:23 · answer #1 · answered by clbinmo 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Doesn't sound like there was a commitment before he left. Do you think that he went to Europe and did not ever see another woman?
You can date more than one man at a time (can't you?....I've been out of the dating game for a LONG TIME:))
2007-04-14 22:22:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
A girlfriend of mine did this exact same thing to me. I went away for a week, and she dated someone else while I was gone. If the guy from Europe finds out, and he will, U can kiss his *** goodbye. He was pre-occupied when he left, that's ALL. You have some growing up to do. My ex-girlfriend begged me to come back, but those red flags were everywhere!!!!!!
2007-04-14 22:24:18 · answer #3 · answered by not for now 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Who cares what he thinks of you. You're not his girlfriend and you're keeping your options open. Have you slept with any of these guys? Have they made a move to sleep with you? You guys need to have a clear definition of what kind of relationship you have.
If he wanted you to be his gf, at least he would ask you out by now. Maybe him knowing that you have options may make him come to his senses and make a move.
2007-04-14 22:22:35 · answer #4 · answered by mmatthews000 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he didn't show any signs of communication with you he pretty much in my opinion was blowing you off. Or he could have wanted to go to Europe ans "sew his wild oats".
2007-04-14 22:22:28 · answer #5 · answered by beatyful 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No man is too tired to walk a lady to her door. He was just plain rude and disrespectful. It doesn't matter what he thinks, and if he will disapprove of you for anything.... he blew you off and he lost all right to your consideration. If you like this new man, go for it..... but please remember you have to respect yourself, if you are going to get it from anyone else.
2007-04-14 22:23:50 · answer #6 · answered by Lauren J 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok,well the guy that is in Europe,Honey,forget him. The new guy,well........give it like 3 wks,and ask him where u guys stand. Dont rush anything. g/l hun
2007-04-14 22:21:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go with the one you are dating now. at least there's something to look up to.
2007-04-14 22:23:17 · answer #8 · answered by Buddy Hodor 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋