Me and my husband just got married 6 ths ago and on monday he just left to his parents house cause he told me that he needed a break. He calls me on the phone saying that he loves me and that he wants to be with me but i get the bills and i notice a number that appeard in his cell phone that i did not now so i called it and it was a girl that he been talking to before we got married right now i don't know what to do am really confuse i really love him and he says he loves me to i talk to him and he tells me that he does want to be with me and he is saving money so we can get our own place but i don't know cause that girl calls him even tho i told her and she sayd that she did not know him . what do i do
2007-04-14 16:34:21 · 11 answers · asked by JANET 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
Well, you've been married for 6 months, right? I would be worried, because you haven't been in this very long. I can tell you the first year of marriage is the roughest though. Hopefully his parents will talk some sense into him, but you guys probably ought to see about seeing a marriage counselor. The girl's another story entirely.
2007-04-14 16:40:17 · answer #1 · answered by basketcase88 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get an anulment. He is is full of ******** and it stinks really bad. Its hard to accept when a man does that - and when they do that they dont love you. Love is all action not words. The girl is also lying to help him out, some women get their jollies on having someone elses man. There is a song about when a man loves a woman - and the words are all true. A man who truly loves and appreciates his woman would do the world for her - not like yours is doing by leaving the house, lying about the phone number etc - eventually if you stay with him you will take years to heal after all the resentment you built against him. Do yourself a favor and leave the jerk and find yourself someone truly worthy of you as you deserve better than he is willing to give you at anytime in your life. He wont be truthful with you no matter how much you want him to be.
2007-04-16 11:56:13 · answer #2 · answered by wanda ? 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he's lying, she's lying, they are all lying. only 6 mths, and he's already left the house? something isn't right. what made you marry him in the first place? there is no good reason for that number to appear on the phone bill. you need to get the TRUTH out of him, then decide if you want the marriage to continue. if he can't tell the truth, then he doesn't deserve you. better now, then later when you have kids or an STD. good luck, and don't let him con you.
2007-04-14 23:41:41 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like the jerk is screwing around. Just before dinner, as you're carrying the meatloaf to the table, and you've still got it in your hands, ask him what the hell is going on. That way you'll have a convenient weapon to dump on his head if your suspicions are true.
2007-04-15 00:07:43 · answer #4 · answered by squeezie_1999 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there are no breaks in marriage. tell him that when he decides to have his little fling that its your turn next. dont let this dude dictate your marriage so early on. lay down the law and tell him for better or worse . pack your bag and get your but home now.
2007-04-15 00:29:49 · answer #5 · answered by bubba 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask your husband if he knows the number and ask him who is she and see what he says if you really truelly love him you can work through this but if you feel any doubt in him or his story get out sorry to say but if you can't trust him now will you be able to trust him ever so hopefully you truelly love him and can make it work good luck
2007-04-14 23:41:33 · answer #6 · answered by christy b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have a friend or family member follow him and take pics of any woman they see him out with. Then you will know for sure and can use it against him in a divorce.
2007-04-15 12:20:58 · answer #7 · answered by Educated 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
um leave him if he is covering up someone it is just a sign of things to come i say if he was open an said it was a friend but if he is hidding it i say leave
2007-04-14 23:40:14 · answer #8 · answered by rodeogirl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a divorce
2007-04-18 14:48:15 · answer #9 · answered by schristine23 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him... ask him and tell him u want the truth... if he really loves u then he will be honest with u...... dont try and sugar coat anything... u deserve the truth and u deserve to be happy.... good luck
2007-04-14 23:40:22 · answer #10 · answered by want a princess baby 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋