Ive been single for some time now! I enjoy it. Kinda like sex in the city, but the guy version. Most girls couldnt handle me long term anyway. Im very honest and I tell them upfront that Im single and plan on being single and just wanna be friends and not looking for anything serious. BUT IT NEVER Fails me.
I meet a nice girl, we hang out, we become friends and then she becomes possessive or try's to rush me into a relationship.
I tell girls all the time to be JUST Friends with me, but they always act jealous, weird or downright rude that Im not interested in a relationship. Ive had a few casual relationships where the girls were cool as sex friends at first, but even they got a little possesive?!
I think girls see that Im funny, charming, handsome, successful.. dress nice, and generally really nice to everyone I meet and IMAGINE a secret relationship in their brain.
So my question is to the all the females: CAN YOU & ME BE JUST FRIENDS!!! With or without the sex?!
2007-04-14 16:51:48 · 13 answers · asked by hj 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Stick to yuor guns about remaining single if you prefer it. I have been single now for the past 17 years and wouldn't have it any other way. I have friends who have tried to hook me up with a man and I have a very stock answer for them. Ain't got one, don't want one, and don't need one.
I spent most of my life concerned about the happiness and needs of others-now it is time for me to do as I please, when I please, and how I please without considering anyone elses needs. Many may consider that selfish, but I have done my time taking care of others. so stand your ground and don't let anyone push you into a relationship you don't want.
2007-04-14 17:01:53 · answer #1 · answered by Country girl 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I always told guys, just friends. I had guys start to want more than that and I had to back away.
I was never Sex friends. You have sex - it messes with peoples emotions. I do not recommend it. It will always get you.
I am 39 years old and I have decided to date and I have a boyfriend. I am ready now. I wasn't back then. I had things I needed to work out for myself and guys were not one of the things I needed in my life. I was always honest. Friends only. If you only want friends, I wouldn't cross the sex line if I were you. You cross that line, you are in the danger zone as most do get jealous because of the emotions involved.
I had a lot of guy friends. When I started to date again, I had a lot of guys cheat on me too. I hadn't dated in over 2 years before recently started dating my boyfriend. I wouldn't change this guy for the world. I am glad I waited.
I wish you the best. Be honest and communicate as you say, and stay away from the sex. It doesn't work as you can see.
Figure yourself out and have fun getting to know others as friends.
2007-04-14 17:02:03 · answer #2 · answered by Stephanie F 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sorry this is going to sound rude but I just got to say it, you sound SO vain!Sorry But gosh! get over your self. Girls dig men that are confident but you come off a little much, just keeping it real. Girls rush you because we can it is what we do, men have that will to hunt and we have the will to be pursued but once caught you better believe we want to settle down it is what some people call having good morals. Sex is fun and so worth it but what the heck world are you living in this isn't a TV show and if a girl just wants to F..k she is called a whore not a friend, try the bunny ranch sounds like that is your dream come true. Don't hate me, but you asked the question you got an answer.
2007-04-14 17:05:43 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
To me, you tell them upfront and if they don t believe you and try to get you for themselves, it s their problem. Maybe try to be clearer if you can, try to see where this communication fails or just mention it a couple of more times so they know you are serious about this, but otherwise I don t think the blame is on you.
Also, maybe Zan Perrion can inspire you. He s also upfront about this saying to women that he s not going to be their future boyfriend or husband, but he will be their lover, because he just loves women. Maybe coming from this angle will help.
2015-08-18 22:00:07 · answer #4 · answered by Bart 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have A LOT of male friends that are just that,....... FRIENDS
I don't sleep with them, I don't have intimate relations with them, I don't send them the WRONG message. By having intimate relations with people of the opposite sex, often times they expect something more. Don't act so surprised when women get possessive after you have sex or intimacies. Your playing a game and these are some of the consequences that go along with the game. And, you know it too! Don't be so conceited and high on yourself!!!
2007-04-14 17:01:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Don't hurt your arm patting yourself on the back Sport.
2016-05-20 02:16:31 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a girl and we think way different from guys. Girls want to be the only one and that's just the way we are. If you want friends and only friends, make it guys or make it girls with no sex--it complicates things for us.
2007-04-14 16:57:48 · answer #7 · answered by imgma2 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
because nobody wants to be someone's livein fukbud azzwipe
2013-11-26 17:54:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should be more open and honest ad tell these girl that al lyou want is sex and thats it, see how many girl you end up with. there are tons of girls that will be turned off by this but there will be plenty left that will be down for it. good luck
oh and no thanks. not interested in a gigalo!!!! thats gross too.how many diseases do you have?
2007-04-14 16:57:18 · answer #9 · answered by Christina 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
yea sure. it's saturday night and your at home on a computer. chicks my asss. gotta go, the baby's crying.
2007-04-14 16:55:10 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋