Family & Relationships - 30 March 2007

2007-03-30 02:18:01 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ever since me and my boyfriend roke up I have a had a stress knot in the middle of my shoulder blades that I just cant get rid of!!! usually my ex would get them out for me! How can i get it out since hes not around anymore!

2007-03-30 02:17:58 · 10 answers · asked by JessieRae07 2 in Singles & Dating

I have been invited to a wedding in May(Northern,Va) and have no idea how I should dress for the occasion. I need some choices for my man and I. He is very tall and built like WWE's Goldberg, and I am only 5`7. My mother suggested linen for he and I. Someone help

2007-03-30 02:16:53 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I am 5,6 feet - long brown hair - wide hazel eyes - wide smile - 60 kgs - white skinned (this is as a figure)

They say (as personality) Am fast - smart - diplomatic - always cheerful and smiling - calm - responsible and understanding
(as my advantages)

They also say: I am hesitant - indecisive - doubtful - routinary and little lazy (as my disadvantages)

Does all the above makes me as a person (Excellent-very good - good- fair - bad)?

thanks

2007-03-30 02:16:09 · 34 answers · asked by Sara007 5 in Singles & Dating

Are guys ok with gurls wearing makeup or do they go for the more natural look? Do guys prefer cute girls or sexy girls?

2007-03-30 02:10:40 · 4 answers · asked by colorfulgarden 1 in Singles & Dating

A year ago I broke up with my girlfriend. We were arguing a lot and we were both still getting over our past relationship drama. She moved in with her exboyfriend the same day we broke up. She claims she had nowhere else to go.
About a week later I called her and told her I felt our breaking up was a mistake and that I was in love with her. Obviously since I had just left her she had no reason to trust me. So I told her I would prove she could trust me and that I was being sincere.
That was a year ago. We talk every day. I've remained faithful and in love with her. She continually tells me she loves me and wants to be with me, but since she made a commitment to her current boyfriend that she has to honor it. I know she is unhappy, and not because she says so. Just trust me that I know for a fact she doesn't want to be there with him. Yet, she also refuses to leave him no matter what help I've offered.

When do I say enough is enough? How do I walk away?

2007-03-30 02:09:35 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-30 02:05:49 · 14 answers · asked by scotch 1 in Weddings

We been through counseling, I have changed so much about myself. I have tried to be more understanding but when she gets frustrated she accuses me of cheating, she verbally attacks me, and she says that she wishes that she never met me. She also belittles and condescends me in front of our child. I feel powerless.

2007-03-30 02:00:10 · 20 answers · asked by scgraphix 2 in Marriage & Divorce

...as I fancy a bit of experience to save me having to do all the work between the sheets for a change. How can I tell if a bird is over 35. Will she have completely grey hair and wrinkles all over her face?

2007-03-30 01:55:59 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my husband always swear at me when he gets anger and treatened to leave me. Im full time mum to 2 y o son. What shall i do?

2007-03-30 01:52:09 · 10 answers · asked by s1974 1 in Marriage & Divorce

He works at a bar and called at closing time (2am) to tell me that instead of the usual hanging out afterhours, he would be heading to his boss's house to play poker with a bunch of our friends. He said he felt that it would not be long and he knew I was here alone with our 15 month old daughter and I had to be at work in the morning. I called the house where he was around 5:30 am and wasn't able to talk to him despite requesting to; the owner/his boss said she would see if they were still there and call me back. She did, and said he would be home soon. He didn't get home until 7:30, and things escalated into a somewhat heated argument... well, I guess it got really heated when he started saying things like "**** you, *****; you make me miserable," etc., and telling me he had made the comment that he knew he was gonna be in the doghouse, and that everyone there said about the same. He's also proven to be untrustworthy, which didn't help my worry. Am I wrong for feeling incredibly sad?

2007-03-30 01:51:23 · 13 answers · asked by Jane D 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Friends, im 17+ yrs old boy having a realtionshp wid a girl last 1.3 Yrs! This girl lives in different city so we generally cnt c each other bt yeah we talk in phone everyday! last few months...im in a mental stress which is affectng me badly! the stress is about my gf...i always cry for her! if our balance get over i start crying! if she not responding my phone i cry!everytime i use to cry coz i missed her everytime...my insecurity is eating me alive! if she's talking in phone wid someone i use to feel stress! I use to think "maybe she's talking to a guy" but she said to me everytime dat she loves me bt still im in fear, stress, nt able to eat anything...became toooooo romantic! i told her dis problem bt she prefr always 2 b silent nd her only answer is " u dont trust me so i dnt have any answer for u cz im tired answering ur questions everyday" but this distance makes me feel like dis! can anyone help me to defeat this pressure so that i cn enjoy my life furtr in fruitfull way?

2007-03-30 01:49:58 · 14 answers · asked by I๓ρєяเãl ãяc° ™ 2 in Singles & Dating

Why is it that girs always seem to fall for the bad guys? It doesn't matter that they know the guy wont be a great boyfriend and will probably hurt them, constantly have to 'borrow' their money and spend their time high as a kite and drunk..
The nice guys just never seem to be a girls number 1 choice!

2007-03-30 01:45:51 · 31 answers · asked by sparky 3 in Singles & Dating

Before you think of me as a deadbeat dad, please understand that I am willing to pay child support but I think the amount is unfair. I take home about $1500 a month. I pay $628 a month in rent, I was ordered by a judge to pay $444 a month for child support. Utilities is about $150 a month. Gasoline for my car is about $120 a month. I'm in NC and the way the court system figures out the CS amount is they take the income of both parents and determine the amount. The problem is, my soon to be ex wife (currently separated) can work but doesnt want to. She wants to be a stay home mom. Thats why I have to pay $444. If she was working, the order would be $320 a month. Can she just stay home? That's not in the best interest of the child!!. The laywer told me that they cant force her to wotk because the child is under 3 years old (14 mo). What am I supposed to do? If I get a 2nd job, I guarantee she'ss run back to the judge and have the amount increased. The court system treats men like crap!!!

2007-03-30 01:44:18 · 19 answers · asked by madracer74 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband of 5 years is moving out this weekend. It has been a long drawn out ordeal. He wants space and has turned to God for help - I can't quite figure out what all went wrong, but I can't change his actions and I'm not going to beg.

My question is this: What parameters should I set as to what he can and can't take. For instance, we have three entertainment centers. Two I purchased and one he purchased. He likes one of the ones I bought instead of the one he bought. Should I let him take the good one? How about towels, kitchen items, tools, etc. I'm staying at the house so all of the lawn stuff stays, but otherwise I am not sure how to be tactful with him so as not to start an argument. Thanks for any advice you have.

2007-03-30 01:44:14 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I found a way to get her to talk to me. When we were growing up we always ate tomato soup and maccaroni noodles. So I surprised her when she got home the other day, she couldn't resist. We sat, ate and talked. I explained how shrewd it was for me to have those few drinks and not call for a ride. She understood but was still upset. We pinky swore that it wouldn't happen again. Then she let it all come out. She started rambling about when her and her friend were out shopping in the city and while walking in between stores she saw this man with horrifying deformities, it seemed as if though it pained him to walk. She said she broke down right there. She said that she felt so guilty for having the luxury of walking store to store while this man suffers just to go wherever this man had to go. She wanted to help him somehow but knew that she couldn't, and it reminded her of mom and dad, and how she couldn't help them either. She ran to her room after that, and hasn't talked to me since.

2007-03-30 01:40:47 · 5 answers · asked by Damian 2 in Family

"I like you so much" and "You are so special to me"
we were just friends, now after 4 months we became intimate ... talking to one another daily. He sends gifts to me, always caring. He sends me morning/night sms. He told me about his family. Yesterday, He said it clearly "I have feelings for you". Is he just interested or truely saying that its another transfer to another level in our relation?

Am just confused coz I have had my worst experiences before and I do not need to be fooled anymore.

2007-03-30 01:40:38 · 6 answers · asked by Sara007 5 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-30 01:38:02 · 16 answers · asked by ? 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I been told if a girl or women writes the word love it can mean different. when she writes it Love she is like in to you . where as if she wrote it like luv she is just a friend . is this true . or is there some other reason to explain this.

2007-03-30 01:37:58 · 9 answers · asked by Edward T 1 in Singles & Dating

Have been married 6 yrs but have had a long standing on an off affair with an ex.bf that i am 100% sure he is father of my 3 yr old son because i was seperated from my hubby when son was concieved but we moved to try make it work and i never told ex.bf .My relationship with hubby is not good he cheated on me, i cheated on him in retaliation we stayed together for money.My ex.bf is married now to somone else for last 4 yrs.Problem is my hubby and i are now divorcing he wants to bring all this info into court.My daughter 5 yrs old will also be getting a paternity test to see if she is my hubbys or not.How can i explain to them whats going on?

2007-03-30 01:29:45 · 19 answers · asked by Bella C 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-30 01:22:46 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Whose needs are put first, those of the parent or those of the children? Assume there is no violence in any of the relationships.

This is for academic discussion only, any resemblance to actual people or relationships is purely coincidence.
Thank you in advance for your contributions.

2007-03-30 01:21:38 · 15 answers · asked by not yet 7 in Marriage & Divorce

I met with one guy in Chat. We are chatting and emailing each other for 5 months. We live in different countries. He worked in my country for 1 year but then left. When we starting chatting he already left, so we never met each other. I think I’m in love with him. He tells me lots of private things, but he never told me that he had a girlfriend in my country. Then I found it myself and he confirmed. He got very angry when I met that girl and started begging me, not to tell her anything. He keeps repeating that he broke up with that girl and he doesnt love her and that he doesn’t keep in touch with her, but I am afraid he still loves her, cause he all the time says how important she is for him and that he still cares about her. He doesnt want to break up communication with me, but I am afraid that’s because he is afraid that I will tell her everything. What do you think does he still love her? What should I do to make him forget her? She is much more beautiful and sexy than I'm.

2007-03-30 01:20:19 · 2 answers · asked by Tako K 1 in Singles & Dating

what are some of the symptoms you get

2007-03-30 01:18:21 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Guys, of a girl's facial features what is the biggest turn on for you? Her eyes, Her lips etc. And why?

2007-03-30 01:14:33 · 5 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating

am an 18 year old guy, I have a girl of whom I like very much and I think she likes me too, though I am not 100% sure. She gives me lots of eye contact, and we started to talk with each other and she is very nice on the way she talks to me. About 4 days ago, in a university class, she was sitting right in front of me and I caught her trying to look back 180 degrees at me (right in the eyes), she smiled a weird smile and looked straight in front of her (probably shy). Since this day, she hardly gives any more eye contact and is acting like a stuck up girl and hard to get whenever I go talk to her, so conversations doesn’t last long. Though after I caught her looking at me I was very nice to her and did not try to embarrass her at all. what should i do?

2007-03-30 00:57:32 · 11 answers · asked by Joan 1 in Singles & Dating

Is it worth it or just chalk it to a loss??

2007-03-30 00:41:08 · 16 answers · asked by jessehowell2002 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-30 00:15:06 · 26 answers · asked by Desperate Loser 5 in Singles & Dating

we have been together for 10 yrs and for the past 2 yrs he has been told he has health anxiety. he is convinced he has cancer and is at the doctors/hospital all the time. he becomes very mardy and moody and spends alot of time on his own upstairs. keeps saying i don't understand, but it is starting to get me down and upsets my son when we argue about it. should i keep supporting him?

2007-03-30 00:03:06 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce