Family & Relationships - 30 March 2007

I think im in love with my best friend and i don't know how to tell him!

2007-03-30 03:47:27 · 3 answers · asked by raven 1 in Friends

This is the first of three questions. Say you've known her since childhood, and you're both single now, but haven't seen each other for a long time?

Would you after an initial chance meet up, call her to invite her to a family dinner and introduce her to your brother's female friend (perhaps girlfriend) and your grandmother and cousin?

2007-03-30 03:45:20 · 2 answers · asked by Lilliana 5 in Friends

its the second time and he said well talk about it later. what do u think hes gonna say? what should i do? help im 14

2007-03-30 03:39:47 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

emotionally close and that he knew where to find me if he became available. He told me "I want you close" I don't know how to interpret that?

2007-03-30 03:39:34 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-30 03:39:17 · 15 answers · asked by taodkiller 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

1. you could try to get onto welfare, get my own place and have to pay for bills, medication over $300, and stay in the city with handi transit and family.
or
2. go out two hours from the city to be with your boyfriend who will only let you stay if you give him 500 a month, quit smoking and get rid of your dog, but you'll have to pay your own bills and such. plus you can't go anywhere cause your out no where, and you don't have handi transit or family out there.
what would you do. i need to find out some good advice for someone i know. i try to think about it but it's hard to decide you know. please help me solve this problem???

2007-03-30 03:38:36 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My husband always swear to me when we fight. We had seen the counselling but doesn't realy work. He gets angry sometimes with his own mistake but do not want to admit and start swearing. Physically abused few times....full time mom 2 y o son. what shall i do. Shall i still keep this marriage?

2007-03-30 03:35:38 · 19 answers · asked by s1974 1 in Marriage & Divorce

we dont fight that much and i really loved him, i dont know what to do??

2007-03-30 03:35:07 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband and I totally disagree on how my 14 year old daughter should be punished. He thinks it's okay to spank her and I say she's too old. He thinks there's nothing wrong with pulling down her pants, too and this is where I say NO WAY!! It has become a HUGE problem in our life, as my daughter is constantly in trouble for her smart mouth and messy room. The fact that he's her stepdad factors in, too. (even though he raised her since she was a baby). I'm constantly having to be in the middle of them both. My daughter has even accused him of purposely putting trash in her room just to get her in trouble, and I think it may be true, and she swears to me that it's true. They absolutely hate each other, what can I do?? It's to the point where I've had to tell my 15 year old son to watch over them when I'm not there so that my husband doesn't do anything I've told him not to (spank her).

2007-03-30 03:30:47 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

ok this guy likes me and i like him but he has a history of cheetin on the gurls he dates and i dont know if i should go out wit him or not because he might cheet on me

do you think i should date him and take the chance of gettin my heart broken or do you think he will change????

2007-03-30 03:30:12 · 19 answers · asked by a firefighters girl 1 in Singles & Dating

is it the amount of visitations or whom the kid stays with or anything particular?

2007-03-30 03:28:24 · 21 answers · asked by anonymously-unknown 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-30 03:24:30 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-30 03:18:02 · 5 answers · asked by jacinta 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-30 03:17:29 · 14 answers · asked by casanova 1 in Marriage & Divorce

my question is for any real honest people who can give me some websites that might talk about how to improve yourself

like how to act better in front of girls and how to act generally without putting me down

basically im just looking for some self help websites that are good

thank you for any answers

2007-03-30 03:16:17 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-03-30 03:15:09 · 4 answers · asked by bigseccey 1 in Marriage & Divorce

do girls prefer condoms or natural

2007-03-30 03:12:55 · 20 answers · asked by sapninmomoneymoproblems 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-30 03:12:31 · 20 answers · asked by Sara007 5 in Singles & Dating

practically every week end. and the fights go on for hrs. and most of the time he says is my fault. but the fights are ridiculous.

2007-03-30 03:09:10 · 9 answers · asked by Princess 2 in Singles & Dating

each other every weekend. I guess i thought they would be done by now. Time to move on or give it 3 more months?

2007-03-30 03:08:29 · 3 answers · asked by KID87 1 in Singles & Dating

I was in a marriage for 10 months. I got married because she was pregnant (wrong reason I know). I did love her but she treated me like crap. We argued everyday. No one had respect for the other. Finally came to a point where I told her it's over, I want out of this marriage. After telling her that, she's tells me she's pregnant again. She says she was 3 weeks preg. I told her that I'm not ready for a 2nd child as the 1st one is a only 6 months old!!!!! She wants to keep the child just to be vindictive in my opinion. If I was a woman, I would not have a child by a man that didn't want it. Especially if we werent going to be together. If I was against abortion, I would have the baby and act like the man doesn't exist. But this woman has the baby and takes me to court for child support for a baby that I feel she's using as a tool to trap me. With the first child, she WAS on birth control but got pregnant anyway. And now this. I swore I pulled out all the time. What should I do?

2007-03-30 03:07:26 · 13 answers · asked by madracer74 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My son passed away 3 years ago,He was 5months old.Sence then I can't remember nething that goes on in my life.I flip out and get very upset over things that really shouldn't upset me as much as they do?I have no energy.Is this normal?Why is this happening?Will I ever be myself again?How will this affect my other 3 sons?Is there something I can do to help myself?

2007-03-30 03:07:09 · 13 answers · asked by Tiffany M 1 in Singles & Dating

A confident girl who knows what she wants from life , like im pretty spontanious and like fun , wud a guy like if i was myself and a bit mad and wild or do i have to be somthing im not to make societyy happy ?what do guys like ?

2007-03-30 03:06:51 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

please!!

2007-03-30 03:05:34 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I had a friend that I had a sexual relationship with 4 years ago. It turns out that I fell in Love with him and wanted to be with him so bad. He had just got out of a relationship and ended up moving out of the State. I spoke with him a couple of times but have not talked to him in almost 4 years. He knew that I had feelings for him, but did not want to do anything to pursue it at the time. I have thought about him almost everyday since then. I have since gotten married and had two kids with the wrong man. My relationship is not healthy and I dont think it will every be. I have recently found this old flame online and I am wondering if I should try and get in touch with him. I just want to talk to him and find out how he is doing. What do you think I should do?

2007-03-30 03:04:20 · 19 answers · asked by I am woman 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-30 02:59:47 · 23 answers · asked by Stephanie B 1 in Weddings

i was kinda seeing this guy for 5 months but had been crazy about him for years . anyway he was just out of a 3 year relationship when we got together i know stupid because of rebound but i wasn't missing out on the chance to get to know him like i did six years ago, the relationship he had just came out of was ended by her and he wanted to get married so i guess he took things bad but he never told me. we ended things on a very bad note 2 months ago i said things that i didn't mean and i hope so did he. i wasn't putting pressure on him but he knew i wanted a relationship which he said his not ready for so i have lost him again away.

my problem is that i see him from time to time as i work in the town where he lives i do still like him but am getting on with things, up till now i have been ignoring just letting on i don't see him. i don't like doing this as i think life is too short for not talking. so should i just say hello or continue with ignoring him.

2007-03-30 02:59:16 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If boys have a perverted comeback after everything you say, (ex: Matt, whats up w/ ur shorts? one of his friends says "u no u like it") does it mean anything or r they just being stupid. This happens 2 me every weds./sun. day!!!!
Boys can anwser 2 i need yalls help!

2007-03-30 02:58:53 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Shes a girl i'm interested in. I see her everyday day on the same bus. we alight at the same stop too. she then heads to the subway which i happen to be heading there too. she seems to be the quiet kind of girl, any ideas on how to approach her to know her more and get her number? any help is appreciated.

2007-03-30 02:58:04 · 19 answers · asked by angelsofgree 1 in Singles & Dating

Hi. This isn't really directly about single parenting although my mom is a single parent. And I'm an only child and I really need advice, actually I need counseling but I'm too embarrased to go. Anyways, I'm 24, my mom had my life completly planned for me. College first, find a great career, then meet a guy (who she imagined in her head also that is Mr. Perfect), get married and have a kid or two. That's exactly what she told me. And here I am, did one year of college (I'm ADD, college is near impossible for me), I live with my fiance and have -oh my god!-"premarital sex", and I'm not rich of course. My family is so hard core baptist conservative Republicans, I've never met anybody like them in the real world. My cousins who are my competition in life to be as good as they are and are my same age, one is a aeronautical engineer for Rolls-Royce making over 150k a year, one works for the Department of Labor and writes speeches for the President, and the other one I'm not exactly sure what she does but she's married to a pastor and vacationning in Italy right now, need I say more. I, work at a book distributor and make minimum wage and I'm not with Mr. Perfect. All I ever hear from her is how much I'm "tearing her heart out" by the way I'm living my life and she keeps telling me about this great "plan she and God had for my life and it just hurts her so much that I won't just go move back in with her and live my life according to 'Gods plan' and go to college, find a great career and then meet a great guy". I think I'm doing pretty good in life I'm renting a small house, I have everything I need in life including a 54' TV and concert stereo system (rentway) and I'm in love with a really nice guy who wants to marry me and have kids but I have to keep hearing from her how much it "hurts her to watch me destroy my life". And I just can't take it anymore. I'm so depressed and she makes me that way. I know she just wants the best for me and I know her way is the better way of life, that's just not the life that I could live up to and circumstances, and yes mistakes, brought me to where I am now but I'm happy now except I can never really be happy because her guilt won't let me be. What can I say to her to make her understand and love me for me and not who she wanted me to be. And how can I not let the burden she puts on me make me miserable? She lives in Leave It To Beaver world and just doesn't get it. Oh by the way, she's a drug and alchohol counselor, she's never done either in her life but whatever. So me drinking a beer on Friday night is one of the biggest sins in the world. Anyways, what can I say to her and how do I not let this tear me apart?

2007-03-30 02:57:52 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships