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practically every week end. and the fights go on for hrs. and most of the time he says is my fault. but the fights are ridiculous.

2007-03-30 03:09:10 · 9 answers · asked by Princess 2 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

9 answers

Easy question to answer, keep fighting. That is all that is going to happen until you break up. Maybe he is trying to get you to break up with him.

2007-03-30 03:13:10 · answer #1 · answered by e.sillery 5 · 0 0

Sounds to me like you both have a problem here. There is a huge difference between fighting/arguing/discussing. If you are arguing all the time you are together, then you have a communication issue. Whether or not you are ready to break up, this relationship ended long before you decided to ask for help.
Relationships are meant to be happy times, not times filled with stress and trouble. Quit this one, look at yourself after you have, make changes that will be constructive for yourself and find the right guy for you.

2007-03-30 10:17:11 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

You'd better brace yourself for a break up, because ready or not here it comes. Couples fight, that's normal. But ridiculous fights that last for hours on end every weekend, is unhealthy and abnormal. And frankly, i'd be really angry if that's what i had to look forward to come Friday....
You never know, you may break up and realize that the fights were stupid and your relationship is more important, but nothing is going to change if you don't do anything, so do something already.

2007-03-30 10:15:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Sounds exactly like me and my girlfriend. Sorry i know saying that doesnt really help but my suggestion is to stay together. We went through a phase where all we did was fight. We got over that though and yes we still fight but not as much and i love her more then ever.

2007-03-30 10:14:51 · answer #4 · answered by usofemerica12 2 · 0 0

first of all, how long you and your boyfriend have been together, if it is a long time, then you guys love each other enough to talk it out and understand each other, if it doesn't work then i suggest to break up, it is better to be alone that very unhappy with the men you love, and if you guys have only been together for a very short period then move on and get a men that can share the blame of a fight with you!!!
good luck!!!

2007-03-30 10:20:05 · answer #5 · answered by Desyeni 4 · 0 0

You might not be ready for a breakup but he sure sounds like he is. You are fooling yourself and teh longer you stay in the relationship the harder it will be to let go. Just cut your losses and call it a day, guys act like that when they want the girl to dump them soo they dont go thru the task of dumping... give him what he is asking for!

2007-03-30 10:14:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

If you're tired of fighting but you're not ready to break up, deal with it.

2007-03-30 10:13:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

It's an easy solution...stop fighting. Don't argue, don't get mad, don't fight with him.

2007-03-30 10:15:11 · answer #8 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0 0

Relationships should be based on RESPECT. If you are not being respected, you must consider moving on. Good luck!

2007-03-30 10:14:39 · answer #9 · answered by krafty1 6 · 0 0

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