How can you know eaily that your lover is lying?

Answer 1

Usually the old "can't look you in the eye" way works. Most people just can't make prolonged eye contact when they lie.

However, if a man has trained himself to be able to pass this test, he usually can't help but give away other clues...

First you have to take into consideration whether they are right or left handed. THIS IS IMPORTANT!

A right handed person, WHEN THEY ARE LYING, will most often look to their right. That is THEIR RIGHT, to you, if you are sitting across from them, this would be towards your left.

It is reversed for a left handed person.

If they look to their right and UP, this means they are making up an image (picture) that they will use to describe a lie to you.

If they look towards their right ear, they are making up words only to use to lie to you.

These clues are based on extensive research over the last 30 plus years, but like any other subjective criteria, the ACCURACY is based on how well YOU ARE at interpreting the clues correctly.

The site below explains the concept in detail.

Answer 2

Is the subject plausible or does it seem far fetched. This is where you need to listen to the words they use. If they use words they don't usually use, they speak fast and offer more details than usual or the pitch of their voice changes and they avert their eyes it may be a clue. I heard a surveys results the other day that said most find it easier to lie on the phone or in an IM or e-mail because they know you can't look in their eyes or see their body language.
Remember there are two types of lies...by commission (planned and explanation given) and by omission (deliberately planned to omit all or part), both are lies just the same. TRUST is what it's all about...without it a relationship is seriously flawed.

Answer 3

Look into their eyes when they answer a question. It's that simple. Down and to the right is thinking of a past experience they are recalling as fact. Up and to the left is thinking of a way to tell you something that isnt true. Not fool proof but is right on about 90% of the time. If I can find the study that was done on this I will post later. Interesting stuff.

Ultimately, you have to believe in your heart no matter what that they are telling you the truth. As long as you believe, then everything else will work.

Answer 4

Well lying about what. If it is a relationship then that might be hard? Reason is, even if I told you, you would be in love with the guy and unless you catch him dead handed you would not believe it.

But the smart girls look for the signals. Like when he comes hum, look if he has *** stains in his underwear. Yes, after sex most men put on their underwear to hurry up to the girlfriend with all the evidence tucked away.

Does he have an usual cologne on? What about if he does not smoke and his honey does, does his hair stink of smoke.

Does he make excuses of why he can not spend enough time with you, except just to have sex. There is only time for sex and yet not time to go to the movies.

Lot of guys can have two gf and neither one know anything. They are smooth and hard to find out though. But AFTER you catch him and break up, then if you think about all those little things that hinted of the other woman or even other guy. lol

Answer 5

I go with gut feeling...and other than that the usual tip offs like eye contact when speaking to me and nervous twitches or guestures (does ur lover cover his mouth or play with his ear when they speak to you?)

If you suspect your lover is lying though....dont wait around to find out - come out and ask or break it off.

Everything happens for a reason and if ur thinking they arent being truthful then you dont trust them enough and its stupid to hang around to find out if ur right.

Answer 6

If you think they are and the feeling doesn't go away, you're probably right. All you can do is try to catch them in a lie.
If you can't catch them, but you still don't trust them, listen to your gut, some people are GOOD liars, but most people with any amount of intuition can ferret them out.

Answer 7

Your lover is lying when he/she doesn't know how to get along with you the way you do before.

Answer 8

Sometimes it's hard to tell when people are lying, but if you have reasons to believe he's not telling the truth, perhaps you should investigate further.
Good Luck.

Answer 9

You might try trust first.
Try finding lies after something comes up.
The world is full of crazy bxxxxxs who look for bad before they appreciate good.

Answer 10

very simple. first become honest only then u woul'd come to know that dil vil pyar vyar wyar sab indian cricket team ki tarah hai, vastav me no body loves anybody else, they all fulfill their requirement by expressing their views.