Family & Relationships - 30 March 2007

This is probably a silly question, but i just want others opinons on the situation...
BF and I have been together 2 yrs, living together 9mo's, 23 and 24yrs old, very committed, talked marriage&kids, have 2 dogs together, joint checking accts...all that stuff. ANYWAYS,

Last night we are laying in bed about to go to sleep& he is talking about our future,how he always dreams of our first house&having children,all the things to come. And I say "you forgot something there" & he goes "oh, Marriage?" &then says...

I want to marry you babe, I love you, I want you in my life forever. I wish I could afford the ring I want to get, but I was thinking that maybe I could just get something for right now, and then get something better in the future when we can afford it- like my parents did" (his dad gave mom HUGE ring for xmas after 30yrs of her smaller ring)

I have told him over and over it is not the size of the diamond, it is what it stands for, and...

2007-03-30 05:00:14 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Do you girls agree that when a group of girls see a male stripper its a laugh and thats it,totaly NOT sexual,but when a bloke goes hes getting turned on looking at another woman.Fine if hes single,would you let your bloke go?

2007-03-30 04:59:34 · 12 answers · asked by odd socks 3 in Marriage & Divorce

When somebody gave you their number did you call them or text them?

This question is mostly for other women - I have a guys number, but don't know what to do next, am a bit shy!!

2007-03-30 04:57:27 · 17 answers · asked by kway_tzar 1 in Singles & Dating

I am needing to find information on the amount of retirement my husband is entitled to, at this point in military his career. He is in his 13th yr with the air national guard, but also receives active duty orders on an on-going basis (for the last few years), so he is earnning some of those points towards his retirement. I am planning on divorcing him, asking for very little from him, but my did lawyer advise me that asking for any portion of the retirment that i am entitled to is completely in my self-interest & worth the trouble. I cannot just walk up to my husband and ask (he doesn't have the information, anyway.) My question is how can i find out what he has earned so far and what i am entitled to? is there a basic calculation or anything of that sort to help with figuring? we live in ohio ( i know that it is state specific.) Thanks!

2007-03-30 04:57:15 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

This guy keeps on messaging me everyday. He asks how I am and we have good conversations through sms. He also calls from time to time just to say hi. However, this has been going on for 2 months now but he has only asked me out twice. Is he really interested? Why doesn't he ask me out more often if he's interested? Guys out there, you might have the answer.. thanks!

2007-03-30 04:56:45 · 1 answers · asked by nixtee 2 in Singles & Dating

I hear of many scams to solicit money by the date pretending to be genuinely interested in the man. Once she gets the cash - for passports, air tickets, etc. she dissapears.

2007-03-30 04:52:47 · 25 answers · asked by Iniaz 3 in Singles & Dating

I thought that I would be okay with him trying to find girls who wants to be in adult movies but each time we are out together all I see him do is check out other women. He would say things like "yeah she would be good or thats the type I'm looking for". I'm very secure with our relationship but I feel he might be using this as an excuse to get girls numbers. It is starting to get difficult. Is it wrong for me to feel like this or what?

2007-03-30 04:52:18 · 4 answers · asked by sugarplum 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I've been wit my boyfriend for a year but we dont talk anymore because i guess his new gurlfriend said not to talk to me but i still love him. Should I break-up wit him and beat his girlfriend up or....... i need advice!

2007-03-30 04:50:28 · 13 answers · asked by ♥SKITTLZ♥ 1 in Singles & Dating

in a custody battle it's always the stupid judge the stupid lawyers the stupid ex husband and the stupid ex wife but the kids never have any saying on that, and I think the kids are the real victims,so why doesn't the kids have a saying on that?

2007-03-30 04:49:04 · 13 answers · asked by NONAME 5 in Marriage & Divorce

Or are all people, regardless of any other factors, tainted after having sex? I wanted to know if people believed purity was a state of mind or simply, obtaining from the act of sex.

2007-03-30 04:43:38 · 7 answers · asked by dumdum4eva 2 in Singles & Dating

Is it a turn off for you guys when the girl u like is always available,whenever u ask her out,phone her, chat her.Being too available....do u get bored with her then?
Whats makes the guys keep on interested to a woman?
Thanks in advance for your honest advice!

2007-03-30 04:35:12 · 11 answers · asked by vanesa 1 in Singles & Dating

I'll be 26 in April and I can honestly say I've never been intimate with a girl, not even kissed. The nearest I've been is hugging, holding hands and a kiss on the cheek.

I think I am deffinately social phobic because I feel extremely uncomfortable around some people especially when there's a crowd. I barely have any friends let alone finding a girlfriend.

2007-03-30 04:34:39 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i want something small and i guess meaningful, he always gets me crap. And well if you are wondering, no , i don't love him. so a nice friend-insisting gift would be nice. :)

2007-03-30 04:30:24 · 6 answers · asked by proby_girly 1 in Singles & Dating

i don't want to move on, but i would like to marry and live together. we are very close and he just seems very content, but i want to combine our houses so we can sleep together and build a life together. I am 34 two kids and he is the best to them. he is their coach in little league and helps them with homework and contributes with everything they are involved with to the Nth degree. he truly loves them and me, but no commitment. he talks about OUR HOUSE someday, but i am ready to move forward and make a life. what is he waiting for?

2007-03-30 04:28:28 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Ok well first off i am a single mom who has already been divorced.. and now raising my 11 month old son.. i am christian, and was raised that way. i do believe it's good to raise your children in your religon.. but i don't want him to think any other religon is wrong, that's for him to decide when he grows up.. ok so that's a little about me.. now i am dating a guy who is mormon.. and he has no problem dating me, or kissing me, any of those things.. even eventually getting romantically involved. but my question is.. is this all ok, i mean if i ever got married to a mormon, i would never become mormon, and i wouldn't raise my son that way. how would all of that work.. i have asked him about the way things work about marrying someone who isn't mormon, and he told me, it doesn't matter what the person is, mormon or not, if you love them, then people will except that you are both different. if we ever had kids. what religon would they be. i am not against his beliefs.

2007-03-30 04:25:14 · 11 answers · asked by ashjmy5 1 in Singles & Dating

Well c we have been bf and gf for atest 2 years and like i have to move out Texas and I cant c him so i wanna break up so i can c other guys in florida Get it? well i relle need help

2007-03-30 04:21:01 · 10 answers · asked by omggirl242 1 in Singles & Dating

or to the side of it?

2007-03-30 04:11:57 · 55 answers · asked by Samantha T 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have been with my boyfriend almost half a year. he is in the army so is very used to telling people what to do. also extremely disciplined. He is always bossing me around saying do this now! u hear me!, or do that, otherwise he sais "oh so its all about you". we are both 18. he has the maturity of a 30 year old, and i'm tryin to graduate. he has admitted he is self oriented and has a temper. I don't know if I can deal with the temper, controllingness, and so forth. I do love him, we have talked about it, and he says hes trying to change. but i'm tired of being told what to do. aside from this, hes almost perfect, so i'm lost. what should I do?
p.s hes never hurt me physically

2007-03-30 04:08:35 · 9 answers · asked by princess 1 in Singles & Dating

It comes in mint and wild berry flavors. How about decorative and scented candles made from earwax? What could be more personal? A knitted sweater made from belly button lint also can express those hard to say sentiments.

2007-03-30 04:05:41 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I feel that females like that make men not want to be in a commited relationship cause they can get what they want without no strings,and thats is wromg cause sex is taking way to lighly now and there are so many whores f^*(ing it up for good females.I really wish women were less loose now.

2007-03-30 04:00:25 · 11 answers · asked by Lexy320 2 in Singles & Dating

I've been dating my girlfriend for 4 years already. We are both 29. I love her so much. She loves me so much also. Our 9 years anniversary is coming up soon. I want to know what to get her for our 4 year anniversary so she would feel really special.

2007-03-30 03:59:26 · 7 answers · asked by Daft Punker 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

to a partner who has opposite tastes than me and also she has often caused humilations for me., our sex life had been zero.i dont feel any pain for her . but one n half years ago i fell into love with the girl of the same age as of my partner... . my girl friend gave me all the comfort and respect that i needed and accepted me as the person i am. my wife had even humilated me and this girl publicaly twice and i feel im under pressure from my wife... because she says she wont divorce me ever and from last six months i have been constantly having health problems of different nature like high BP etc.i was one time health freak.. on the other hand i have a son who is 4 and i feel im responsible for him and i feel my life would be a sacrifice for me not to seperate from my wife. but i feel suffocated and aimless in life to work for and im too much demotivated from life that is the reason my finances are low and my health is deteriorating. Please suggest as im not in healthy state of mind.

2007-03-30 03:57:39 · 14 answers · asked by viz kid 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-30 03:56:31 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Like opening doors, looking her in the eyes, you know, all of those old things guys used to do but have sinced ceased?

2007-03-30 03:56:13 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Trust someone you meet online?

2007-03-30 03:54:06 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Is it acceptable to be gay? Are you for or against gay marriage/civil unions?

2007-03-30 03:53:19 · 17 answers · asked by John Luke 5 in Marriage & Divorce

I decided to stand up for myself with my inlaws. BIG MISTAKE. Now everyone is mad at everyone and I don't know what to do. I am NOT sorry for what I said and now even more hateful, rude things have been said directed at me. All I told them was that I was pregnant and not broken and will make up my own mind. They are now trying to use my children as pawns in a screwed up game. I am also being told I stand between my husbands and his fathers relationship. We live across the street from him and hubby and him work at the same company. I don't understand. What would you suggest I do from here? How long would you take it before you just gave up? Thanks

2007-03-30 03:51:54 · 12 answers · asked by Mrs. Always Right 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-03-30 03:49:55 · 9 answers · asked by sabrina l 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i run my own singles night and agency

2007-03-30 03:49:50 · 1 answers · asked by sarahcrazychilli 1 in Singles & Dating

This is the third of three questions. Say you've known her since childhood, and you're both single now, but haven't seen each other for a long time...

You shave off your long hair after her parents discreetly commented on your mane and just before you saw her the second time again?

Is that something you would do if you only saw her as a platonic friend?

2007-03-30 03:48:27 · 5 answers · asked by Lilliana 5 in Friends