Do you girls agree that when a group of girls see a male stripper its a laugh and thats it,totaly NOT sexual,but when a bloke goes hes getting turned on looking at another woman.Fine if hes single,would you let your bloke go?
2007-03-30 04:59:34 · 12 answers · asked by odd socks 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I used to think I would because I thought "Hey what the heck, I go and I have a good time", so with old bf's I'd even go with them. Now that I am with my current beau I don't think I would. At first I thought it very weird that he didn't go and told me he never would. Then he told me that when men see strippers it takes them a very long time to get the image out of their head. Something like that burns itself into their memory longer than any other, and that sometimes with his X he would think back to those to get turned on or whatever. I think it's extremely respectful of him to not go and I really appreciate him for it. I would get jealous if he went and then eventually I'd end up being the nagging girlsfriend or wife one day. Beside he has me and loves me so I don't think he needs to see other woman naked. It's unneccesary for attached people.
2007-03-30 10:29:36 · answer #1 · answered by Vanessa 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think strip clubs are wrong! I'm no prude but I still believe men need to learn a little self-control and keep their thoughts and desires with the woman they're with. If you're single, then fine. But even then it may create unrealistic expectations in future relationships. I agree that male strippers are weird to watch and there's nothing erotic about it. I would much prefer to watch my bf strip for me.
2007-03-30 12:59:00 · answer #2 · answered by paddington_ck 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know your looking for a girls opinion.. But I think either way it's stupid. When my friend would ask me to go to a strip club, I thought it was stupid and a waste of time and money. I'm gonna pay $7 dollars for a Beer and $15 at the door.. to watch some $LUT get naked ?? PLEASE ! And if a girl says she is going to watch guy strippers because she thinks its a laugh.. that BS. Why aren't you going to see fat guys strip ? Tell me THAT'S funny and I'll believe you. But you know d@mn well your going to drool over a bunch of ripped naked guys. C'mon.. Stop being fake
2007-03-30 12:41:05 · answer #3 · answered by dralls4lyf 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I think all things that pertain to porn, strippers and nudie magazines really have more to do with the security or insecurity of the spouse or significant other.
Basically if you are insecure with yourself or your relationship you have more of a tendency to not allow it or get offended by it.
Whereas if you are secure, it really does not bother you.
I trust my husband and will continue to do so until he lets me down. If he goes to a strip club, looks at nudie mags, or whatever he does pertaining to seeing naked women for entertainment.. it really does not bother me. I am secure in my marriage and know he would chose a real life woman over a picture any day.. or a stripper for that matter.
Men are visual creatures as women are more mental and emotional. Men like visual stimulation where as we get more turned on by situations or thoughts. Which is why we do not enjoy strippers as much as men.
Looking or fantasizing does not mean you are not into your man or woman. It is human nature.
2007-03-30 12:10:26 · answer #4 · answered by Steffi 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Gilligan: I like this question...My wife and I go to every strip club here in NY...She's the first one stick $10.00..yes $10.00 bills on the g-strings..once she dared me to put money on a guy's g-string..it wasn't pleasant..but it's something she wished for me to do...It's okay..there is not problem with that
Violette: You have to be free spirited to do something like that with your boyfriend or husband...it kinda freaks people out when they see a couple do the same things together...it's totally natural
2007-03-30 12:22:55 · answer #5 · answered by ewllita 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
The reason guys go to strip clubs is because of naked women. If you are a straight guy, you think about naked women. For the life of me I can not figure out why women are upset to learn that sometimes there partner think about naked women other than them. Its part of being a man. Its how you and your partner got together in the first place, he thought about you naked! At least once! Don't kid yourself, He is attracted to you because he is attracted to women! This being said if you have a problem with your man thinking about naked women other than you, then you should look at yourself, maybe you're the one with the problem.
2007-03-30 13:43:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
first-it's not a matter of LETTING him go. i don't tell him what to do or not to do. that's just wrong. i trust my husband completely. i have no reason not to. he used to go to this bar for lunch with the guys. they had lingere fashion shows right on the bar. he'd come home sometimes wanting a little something. no big deal,as long as he got it here. all guys look. it's the nature of the beast so to speak. they all get turned on too.
2007-03-30 12:26:46 · answer #7 · answered by racer 51 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
No way can my husband go to strip clubs. It is perverted and a waste of money. Yeah I have been to a male strip club before I was married, it was pretty gross. I dont like to see guys in little booty underware or thongs. Yuck.
2007-03-30 12:09:42 · answer #8 · answered by Kari R 5 · 1⤊ 3⤋
My wife encourages me to go when my buddies ask. She knows I have fun. She even goes with me on occasion.
2007-03-30 12:06:26 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 2⤋
for me and my hubby I could care less if he sees strippers......it doesn't matter where he gets his appetite as long as he eats at home......LOL seriously, I trust him and that is really ALL that matters.
2007-03-30 12:17:20 · answer #10 · answered by NolaDawn 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋