I hear of many scams to solicit money by the date pretending to be genuinely interested in the man. Once she gets the cash - for passports, air tickets, etc. she dissapears.
2007-03-30 04:52:47 · 25 answers · asked by Iniaz 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hey hey hey Im a girl and I hve a boyfriend that is not from here believe me when I say this okay. Well....anyways thoguh man you have to trust yourself. Women dont like to be with men who dont blieve in themselves and blieve espcially in who they are. And u said it urself and no one made u....I hope anyway that you HEAR thats all men ever do is hear and when they hear its not even HEARD correctly anyways. Take a chance I guess you can so no all you want and end up calling things off, but it can end up to be your lost. I think that it would be fair for her to buy her own plne ticket and whatever else she needs. Im the type of person that if im not married to you....which Im not and clearly she isnt either that I CAN and WILL and SHOULD pay for my own stuff. Dinner too. I mean who sauid that your boyfriend and friend had to pay for everyhtig come on ldies be independent an man wants a lady who can care for her own needs and we can. Think about it guys we were doing just that before u came along. We can kep it up, yea you should however get her smething on the first day you two meet and maybe buy her something here and there. Normally when a woman likes you for you you will be able to tell right from the start. Read her body language and her face expressions and the tone she uses. Is she relaxed when she speaks or does she talk out of strain? Is her body comfortable aroud you does she look happy and sound happy basically? And dont just say rite off that o well shes not comfortable aroudn me it takes time everyone nervous at first give her some time to get relaxed with you and to be herself. If everything goes good then great and so on. Well yea and i not then oh well it culd just be GOD tellign you he has bigger and better in store for you. Dont be alrmed if and whenshegoes back home and you dont hear from her right away. Some women like to settle back down a bit and then startup again thatcan take a while may be a couple of weeks, days, months if a year then move on shes crazy. Well hope this helps you some. Good Luck buddy. Do what feels rite to you okay and not what others want. A little extra tip: U dont know until u try.
2007-03-30 05:08:09 · answer #1 · answered by Stephanie L 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I've never done this, but I have a guy friend that met a Russian girl on the internet, talked for a few months, went to visit her, and then they later got married. They live in Florida and are very happy together. I would say just be careful and find out as much information as you possibly can. I'm sure it's scary, but yes, it can work.
2007-03-30 11:55:46 · answer #2 · answered by bina64davis 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Easy, don't pay for anything up front. Putting any money out for a date would be a sure sign of a scam. There are services that you can join that will let you travel to Russia to meet single women that want to leave so badly that they will marry just about anyone. Do that instead of what you are...a fool and his money are soon parted.
2007-03-30 11:57:25 · answer #3 · answered by Just a friend. 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey man, I'm Ukrainian, I can give ya the contact for a detective that works the former USSR.
They will do a check, and take a digital pic of the girl in her home as well as verify her documents for about 250 dollars.
That is no gurentee that she will get on the plane, but aleast you will know that she is for real.
www.russiandetective.com
Search the web, there are lots of them
2007-03-30 12:00:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Over all dont do it, its a bad idea. But dont send money, dont pay for her to come over here, and dont marry her so she can be an american citizen. Its russia so i would suspect the stories you here about them disappearing are because they are being forced to warm up to you. Its called human traffiking and its the second largest international money maker for underground smuggling. These women and often children are being forced to get passports and tickets out of you so they can be sent overseas to someone who's actually paid to traffik them in your home land. Best to avoid anything like this.
2007-03-30 11:59:21 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
A lot of girls from Russia just want to get out and come to the US. She'll be very grateful if u get her out and will stay with u if she cares for u. You wont really know until you make that move...it all depends on how much u want to be with her
2007-03-30 11:59:31 · answer #6 · answered by *VS* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't spend any, don't give her any, protect your wallet and personal information, don't go anywhere with her that might end up with you soaking in a tub of ice with a kidney missing.
I'd pass; but if you must be careful and stay in a grooup.
2007-03-30 11:55:54 · answer #7 · answered by wizjp 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Never date anyone out of the US you meet on line. They just usually want to get married to get into the states or money.
2007-03-30 11:55:45 · answer #8 · answered by clints_wench 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
yeah, need to check with the reputation of the agency, see if you can call them on the phone and actually speak with somone, most legit agencies send you THERE, to meet them for a couple of days, then you decide. i wouldnt send any money to them expecting them to show up.
2007-03-30 11:56:29 · answer #9 · answered by jeffcobb71 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, there is often a lot of fraud involved in these internet
dating sites but there is also a lot of men that meet and
marry very nice women...
2007-03-30 11:56:03 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋