Family & Relationships - 30 March 2007

Training for one specific sport. She gets up at 6AM to practise before shcool and is in bed by 8PM every single night. No deviations. She is not allowed to attend birthday parties, sleepovers, or other activities. Every single spare moment she has, aside from 1-2 hours per night for homework (which he surpervises) are spent in training. He also closely monitors her diet and body fat percentage. The saddest thing is, she's not that good. She almost always comes in last. He often talks about how disappointing her performance is.

Personally, I think it's child abuse. Unfortunately, the authorities disagreed with me. And I'm glad it's not my kid.

2007-03-30 06:26:40 · 28 answers · asked by ? 6 in Family

Before we met,I knew
There was something about you.

Our hearts connected the very same day,
Like Love has found its way.

I didn't know it then, but I do know now,
That we've always been connected somehow.

Like two souls lost in the middle of the night,
have finally found the path to make their hearts right.

And though we maybe far away,
The Love we found is here to stay.

Spiritually my heart always knew,
I would find Love in my life, once that I found you.

2007-03-30 06:25:23 · 5 answers · asked by ||| Romeo Boy ||| 4 in Singles & Dating

Did you tell your spouse? What happened?

2007-03-30 06:23:49 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Do you have any nick names for your friends that are very unusual ? I know a guy called The Cocunut and some of my other mates have similarly odd names given to them. I have friends whose real names I'd struggle to remember.
Whatta ya got for me ?

2007-03-30 06:20:29 · 16 answers · asked by gav 4 in Friends

I have issues dealing with trust.. I was betrayed once in high school by one who suppose to be a good friend who I stood up for and in return got nothing but a beating from a group of jockheads and him being part of it... he used me in order to be "popular".

Ever since then, I had trouble socializing and opening up to people which led me to sort of become emotionless... It wasn't until the end of the first year of college when I decided not let my insecurites get the best off me and go out and start trust in people again and really start living...

Its been 3 years and I think this problem has affected me again.. I saw in a computer a message of someone saying "i loved that kiss today in the morning" to my ex and lead me to believe thing that she was dating someone. The thing is.. me and her broke up because she decided she did not want to be in a relationship at the moment and I respected that and became friends.

2007-03-30 06:20:12 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I'v lost contact with so many friends on my journey 2 30, am i the only one??

2007-03-30 06:19:48 · 52 answers · asked by Rah 2 in Friends

well it all started after high school and i dumped my girlfriend and i hang about with her sister and we hate her boyfriend she got so we were annoying my ex (mostly her sister tho) and at the end my ex puched her sister in the face i i was shouting at my ex for puching her sister was i wrong to shout get a life and your so cruel?

2007-03-30 06:19:13 · 10 answers · asked by C 4 in Singles & Dating

I am a shy/quiet 23 whos trying the hardest to overcome shyness. I feel im only making little steps and am not making big improvements and feel overpowered as im surrounded by such confident loud people. I cant always find the motivation to push myself. I also find on workdos i cant talk to guys who i like as im the sort of person who only is chatty round people i really know so if there is a guy in my office i like i would rather not go out of my way to talk to them its not i dont want to i just dont always know how to say yet im surrounded by gals who can flirt for britain so any advice would be appreciated

2007-03-30 06:18:10 · 5 answers · asked by joanne100uk 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I you give a good answer i might IM you?

2007-03-30 06:15:43 · 5 answers · asked by ? 6 in Singles & Dating

I am feeling really down today and I would appreciate some words of encouragement. My boyfriend told me on Monday that he is not happy with me and he needs time to think and he will call me this week to talk about it. Today it's Friday and I still have not heard from him? He has been going through major changes in his career, looking for a new job as he is not happy iwth his current job. And since then things have not been good. he has become distant with me, which obviously made me worried. I really want to call him and ask him but then he said he needs time to think? What should I do please?

2007-03-30 06:14:56 · 15 answers · asked by Elisa N 1 in Singles & Dating

i talk to this guy. wew been talkin for about a month now. but he will not be my b.f . im not in a rush or anything but it seems as if he wasn't all of hte benifits of a relationship but not the actualthing. this really irritates me. i've been throught this situation before where the guy is like i don't want a girlfriend.... && it always turns out crazy... im trying to do things a little bit differntly but i really feel lke i get the same thing everytime. i just wanna know am i waisting my time.....again...

2007-03-30 06:14:47 · 5 answers · asked by MiZ BeNZ 3 in Singles & Dating

Well i have been thinking about the ideal boyfriend for me.
I thought it would be nice if he is cute, honest, funny, and have a nice personality. But, have a little spice in the relationship ( making out etc.) but not sex. Atleast not too early. Is this impossible?

2007-03-30 06:14:25 · 7 answers · asked by Jerzigurl 1 in Singles & Dating

My fiance says I am a turnoff because sometimes during sex I fall asleep and start snoring really loud. He is especially upset when I am on top and start snoring & drooling in his face with my mouth open. I am just tired but I don't see why I am a turnoff??

2007-03-30 06:13:18 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

someone you really connected with, but you knew you were going to move?

2007-03-30 06:11:21 · 12 answers · asked by goodness 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Well me and my bf have been living together for 1 year. We have a rule about talking to our ex's or people we slept with we agreed we wouldn't do it. One thing about my bf is that he claims he so innocent even when i go to his myspace page and see him leave comments to females, one comment i seen he said " he would love to hit it like that" on one of the womens page, which then i developed a trust issue. So now i see him always acting suspcious and trying to make me jealous which doesn't sit well with me. so anyways i see his cell phone lying around so i go through it i found out that he still talks to his ex girl and see texts him, he's talking to another female i never knew of. Man am i wrong for getting upset at him for what i seen? And should i still trust him after that?

2007-03-30 06:11:19 · 23 answers · asked by nunya n 1 in Singles & Dating

Everyday, he flirts with tons of different girls
im always the one who has to organise things
he forgets when it's our month anniversary, it's 10 tommorow.
He sometimes lies, over silly things though
eg. i can't remember what got on the topic but basically he lies when he says some things like yesterday he said he miss's me too.
This was 4 hours later after we saw each other over text
I love him with all my heart
i mean we are ment to have sex at some stage, but it's our irst time, i'm just scared incase he leaves me afterwards.
I'm always the one who has to make conversation aswell.
Please, tell me if it's me or him

2007-03-30 06:09:01 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

what is the point of that?Specially if your interested in that person.

2007-03-30 06:05:40 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

this gf of mine keeps talking about marriage
and it told her there is almost no chance of us getting married.
yet she insists there is a way.

i like going out with her on dates, making out etc
but i know i won't get married to her...

i'm leaving the country in 2 months for permanent wrk..
should i still go out with her..shes alot of fun..??

2007-03-30 06:04:42 · 17 answers · asked by canuckclint 3 in Marriage & Divorce

What can you do to forget about it, or block it of.

2007-03-30 06:02:13 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend and I broke up 5 months ago, but we still sleep together a lot (we used to live together.) We still fight all the time, and we still have the same love/hate relationship.

Last night I was at our old apartment with him and I couldn't stop crying. I was up till 7 am just bawling and I don't know why. What can I do to feel better. This guy is significantly older than me-maybe that's why it was so hard? Anyone, please, if you have any ideas on how not to feel awful, please let me know.

2007-03-30 06:02:13 · 3 answers · asked by brass in pocket 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

What kind of girl the most men prefer???

2007-03-30 06:01:44 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-30 06:00:17 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Don.t you think that mental and emaotional abuse should be punishable by law? I ask the question because a friend of mine got out of a really bad emotionally and mentally abusive relationship, yet she can not press charges or anything else for the abuse..because they are no physical marks? Shouldn't there be some kind of way to "measure" the damage done, and therefore prosecute..we do it for children who suffer abuse from parents?

2007-03-30 06:00:12 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

What tupe of man we prefer???

2007-03-30 06:00:09 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My son turned 14 this last Wednesday so we got him a Bi Level suite with a whirl pool. 10 14-year old boys are coming over and we are going to have a blast. What is everyone else doing?

2007-03-30 05:59:10 · 11 answers · asked by dakota_gal_1968 4 in Singles & Dating

this girl I know lied to me and my friend about being raped then she wrote a suside letter today so me and my firned went to the consuler and know they are gonna help her but now I'm wondering if I did the right thing??

2007-03-30 05:57:11 · 16 answers · asked by Tracy h 2 in Friends

I have been friends with benefits with this guy 4 a few months now & when I 1st entered into this I asked by best guy friend what were the rules. He said #1 don't get attached in any way, #2 never think that it's going to be more then what it is & #3 don't ever act or show that u are getting attached if u are. I am not getting emotionally attached & I have followed all the rules.

Is it possible 4 the guy not to follow the rules. This is my 1st fwb relationship so I have made sure I followed the rules just to know that I could handle this. The guy tends to contact me a few times a month when we are not hanging out just to see how it's going. He has called to have a short conversation, but at that time did not ask to come over. This last call he seemed worried. He called because he thought I was ignoring messages from him that I never got. I cleared the air & things are ok. I just thought it would not matter because we are fwb. I'm happy 2 think it matters but what about the rules?

2007-03-30 05:54:02 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

mine has to be the lastest ex lol i made sunday dinner an he came out with the comment my mum only makes me have 3 potatoes... he was 40 and they were new potatoes ffs...

2007-03-30 05:53:28 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok my husband has this friend and we are friends too......... and i am starting to like him...... if we had an affair you think i could live with myself?

2007-03-30 05:52:41 · 30 answers · asked by rockerad 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Last we spoke, contacted my ex after 3 months - after this
i decided to just say hi online -

1st he was very nice to me, and then after sometime, he started to act crazy - he started name calling - he said i was crazy - and then said he is in love with a new women - Not the one he was in love with Last year - I gave it back to him, I gave him a piece of my mind - cause he put me through all this....

however I just don't know why he behaved this way, or what i did to deserve this??

today when we saw me, he pointed at me and was talkin 2 a friend while laughing, I went so humiliated...... Gosh!!!~ Help please. Post please...... Thanks

http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AjtKsllojCTEA8fKUOhcxerty6IX?qid=20070327062400AApCb6L
for other details abt this - like what happened...

Help please help me soooon
thank you

2007-03-30 05:52:34 · 17 answers · asked by Franky 1 in Marriage & Divorce